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jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 7 Aug 11

But the bride called it off about two weeks ago as she had the feeling it was the right thing to do. She is suffering though...and I totally understand. Why? Because my first wedding was called off. By the groom. I got a dear john...

brides

calling off the whole thing

falling out of love

marriage

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bslovers I never called off a wedding, but I wish that I would have! I would have been much better off if I didn't marry my first husband. That's the best thing to do sometimes if you know it's not the right decision for your life. It's really hard on the other person...

8 Aug 11

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 12 Jun 11

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and he's taken on my kids as his own but I feel like he's never going to deepen the commitment by marrying me. Should I be worried?

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bslovers Thank you! We have talked about it in the past & I always felt like there was one excuse after another but we talked last night for a couple of hours and we've decided we'd like to be married within the next two years or so.....Hopefully the ring will be coing...

2 Jul 11

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 12 Jun 11

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and he's taken on my kids as his own but I feel like he's never going to deepen the commitment by marrying me. Should I be worried?

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bslovers Hey thanks I meant to write a yr. and 10 months! Sorry. Which I believe no matter how long you've been together, if you love each other and want to be together marriage is not a bad thing nor is it too soon. but... next month well be together 2yrs. and I feel...

1 Jul 11

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 12 Jun 11

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and he's taken on my kids as his own but I feel like he's never going to deepen the commitment by marrying me. Should I be worried?

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bslovers Okay 1st off thanks for writing. 2nd I wrote only 10 months we've been together almost 24 months (not too sure what I was thinking sorry about that) I think that his mom and step dad waiting like 7yrs. to get married. I've already been married for 5yrs. and...

1 Jul 11

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 1 Aug 10

My kids and I went to my sisters house and my daughter who's almost 3 said she wanted to spend the night there I was sad but okay with that until I tried to take my 1 1/2 yr old home and he started crying that he wanted to stay...

sleep overs

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bslovers Aww sad for you guys but awesome for her having a good time. Yeah other mylotters also shared that it will happen from time to time, it's nice to know I'm not alone! Thanks for responding!

11 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 2 Aug 10

I had three miscarriages before two healthy children and I believe that my kids will be waiting to meet me in heaven, that God took them early for a reason. Does any one else feel the same way? I love my kids they were at one time...

miscarriages and heaven

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bslovers Aww! I am so sorry. I went in to hear my baby's heart beat and was told the baby didn't survive. I too was devastated. That is a great idea I never even thought of a walk to remember the child. I might start that each year, and do one each month I miscarried....

11 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 2 Aug 10

I had three miscarriages before two healthy children and I believe that my kids will be waiting to meet me in heaven, that God took them early for a reason. Does any one else feel the same way? I love my kids they were at one time...

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bslovers Me too! I don't know where I'd be without them!

11 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 1 Aug 10

I had two kids with my ex husband who never really wanted anything to do with them, he's an alcoholic and has not seen his kids in over a year! They hopefully will never know him, not b/c I don't want them to but b/c he doesn't...

daddy

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bslovers that's awesome my dad is a great man too he has always worked hard for our family.

3 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 2 Aug 10

I had three miscarriages before two healthy children and I believe that my kids will be waiting to meet me in heaven, that God took them early for a reason. Does any one else feel the same way? I love my kids they were at one time...

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bslovers I remember how sad you both were and I agree that day will be a happy one!

3 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 2 Aug 10

I had three miscarriages before two healthy children and I believe that my kids will be waiting to meet me in heaven, that God took them early for a reason. Does any one else feel the same way? I love my kids they were at one time...

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bslovers it is sad and its still hard at times, but luckily I have two gorgeous healthy kids which keeps my mind occupied a lot! thanks for your response I appreciate it

3 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 2 Aug 10

I had three miscarriages before two healthy children and I believe that my kids will be waiting to meet me in heaven, that God took them early for a reason. Does any one else feel the same way? I love my kids they were at one time...

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bslovers Thanks for the response it feels good to know I'm not alone with feeling that way! I'm sorry one of your children are disabled, but that child is still a blessing from God.

3 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 1 Aug 10

My kids and I went to my sisters house and my daughter who's almost 3 said she wanted to spend the night there I was sad but okay with that until I tried to take my 1 1/2 yr old home and he started crying that he wanted to stay...

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bslovers yeah you are right, I guess with Brad not being there and both the kids staying with you it made me sad

3 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 1 Aug 10

My kids and I went to my sisters house and my daughter who's almost 3 said she wanted to spend the night there I was sad but okay with that until I tried to take my 1 1/2 yr old home and he started crying that he wanted to stay...

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bslovers Yeah That's what most people on here have said that it's completely normal and that eventually I'll get used to it and it won't bother me so much. It's so nice I'm not alone on this one! LOL Yeah my kids love their grandma's too b/c they def. get spoiled!...

2 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 1 Aug 10

My kids and I went to my sisters house and my daughter who's almost 3 said she wanted to spend the night there I was sad but okay with that until I tried to take my 1 1/2 yr old home and he started crying that he wanted to stay...

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bslovers Yeah that is the case, they want to be wherever they can play. I understand that my niece is my daughter's best friend and they hate to leave each other. Thanks again for responding. Glad to know I'm not alone!

2 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 1 Aug 10

My kids and I went to my sisters house and my daughter who's almost 3 said she wanted to spend the night there I was sad but okay with that until I tried to take my 1 1/2 yr old home and he started crying that he wanted to stay...

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bslovers yeah your right I'll have to remember that thanks for responding.

2 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 1 Aug 10

My kids and I went to my sisters house and my daughter who's almost 3 said she wanted to spend the night there I was sad but okay with that until I tried to take my 1 1/2 yr old home and he started crying that he wanted to stay...

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bslovers That's a really good point thanks for responding. it's so hard working and trying to balance two kids, and a husband and the rest of your family. I'm going to try that and see if that helps. Thanks again!

2 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 1 Aug 10

My kids and I went to my sisters house and my daughter who's almost 3 said she wanted to spend the night there I was sad but okay with that until I tried to take my 1 1/2 yr old home and he started crying that he wanted to stay...

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bslovers Yeah true true. I agree with that. I need sometime for me, but it's still sad. Thanks for the ressponse I'm so glad other people feel the same way.

2 Aug 10

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 1 Aug 10

My kids and I went to my sisters house and my daughter who's almost 3 said she wanted to spend the night there I was sad but okay with that until I tried to take my 1 1/2 yr old home and he started crying that he wanted to stay...

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bslovers Yeah I guess it is we both do that as well! LOl it is normal. We get jealous with each other too!

2 Aug 10

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