bslovers

@bslovers (57)

United States • Age 38

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First kiss always memorable..!!!

lovedude @lovedude (4447) • India 8 Aug 11

When you first time kiss your partner it's always most memorable one.. where did you first time kiss to your partner? chick, forehead or lips?

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bslovers Our first kiss was a very memorable one! It wasn't the greatest thing ever but it was so sweet and unexpected for him! I leaned over and surprised him by kissing him and he was so happy! It was absolutely the best!

8 Aug 11

Is your boyfriend/girlfriend your ideal one?

eljayo @eljayo (1105) • Philippines 7 Jun 11

Hi guys! I was wondering. All people have their ideal man/woman they want to share their life with.I myself have a list of what I want on a guy.But i guess, sometimes we are given the person that is not our ideal one for us to...

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bslovers I have found probably 99.9% of the ideal things I want in the man I'm with now! Of course there's things here and there especially if you are fighting that you say I wish he was like this or that but overall I am very happy with my man! I was married for 5yrs...

8 Jun 11

When should someone stop holding on?

guypersona @guypersona (57) • Philippines 22 Apr 11

So... i'm going out with my own bestfriend for almost 3 years now. We've been through a lot. we're happy. sure, but whenever i think of the problems we've had, it makes me doubt myself and my love for him. i mean, i've been...

had enough

love

troubled lover

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bslovers I was dating my best friend in high school and every time I turned around he was with another girl on me, including my sister. I forgave him over and over again and finally I had to let go because I realized I was the only one holding on to the relationship....

8 Jun 11

Marital problems...

ludyvel04 @ludyvel04 (311) • Philippines 27 May 11

Do you have any idea on how to avoid or at least lessen causes of marital problem?

marriage

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bslovers Before you get married look at everything the person does. I was married to an abusive alcoholic and If I would have looked at the warning signs before we got married I wouldn't have gotten stuck in the situation. Even little things that get on your nerves...

8 Jun 11

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who am i?????

bumami @bumami (15) • Czech Republic 11 Aug 10

i, my self and me!!!at this point of my life i keep asking my self who am i? what i really want,what kind of person i am? there are people a had observed and based on my observation i told to my self that i am not like them i am...

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bslovers The best way to find out who you are is time and observation of others and decide if what they have is what you want and then how to achieve it, if not how to stay away from what they are doing. Hope that helps & good luck!

11 Aug 10

What is the best thing to do when Depressed?

Queenperk @Queenperk (192) • United States 29 Jan 09

How do you handle depression? Lost your job? Broke up with your BF or GF? Low on cash? Death in the family/friend?

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bslovers I tried to deal with all of the hard things on my own and when I could not handle any more I went to my doctor to talk about it and we found out that I have PTSD (post tramatic stress disorder) and I got on meds to help me deal with things in life in a better...

2 Aug 10

What would you say to him?

lilangelspreschool @lilangelspreschool (1129) • United States 1 Aug 10

My father was sitting in the car with me telling me all of the things my husband doesn't do to his standards. I love my dad, I am very close to him. He works for my husband and it's hard for me because I am always stuck in the...

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bslovers Jen I love you but you need to grow up and tell him to stop putting him down. Tell him regardless of his opinion of him you chose hm because you love him, he's your husband and the father of your children. He either needs to respect him or your not going to be...

2 Aug 10

Do you feel like your bugging Him?

lilangelspreschool @lilangelspreschool (1129) • United States 2 Aug 10

I know this might sound crazy to some people but I always try to handle things on my own before praying about it. Then I fail miserably and I ask God for His help. It's not that I don't trust God because I absolutely do. I just...

bugging

god

prayer

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bslovers I do think that a lot and a lot of times I ask for so much stuff to make myself or people in my life happy that I feel guilty for asking for more then I thank him for. I also know don't take enough time to praise him and let him know how great he is and how...

2 Aug 10

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What will you do if you see your partner with someone, holding hands together?

bingskee @bingskee (5234) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

I think that this is not uncommon. Some partners in life cannot just be trusted. I will probably get his attention. I will tell both of them that I will like to talk. I will do it without the hassle of quarreling. Why fuzz...

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bslovers I would be flipping at first but after thinking long and hard about things I know that people make mistakes and people can learn from them, so it depends on the person if they can be trusted again or not but most can not.

2 Aug 10

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What weather conditions are you most inspired to write in?

joedollarhuat @joedollarhuat (580) • Philippines 30 Jul 10

Hi guys! I personally love the rain. It is during drizzles, rain, thunderstorms, I easily get inspired to write a poem. There are times I write songs due to the rain and how I feel a connection.

weather

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bslovers I love to write all the time but my favorite weather to write in is either watching the sun rise or set or getting up real early in the fall up in the mountains by a river and watch the fog of steam com off the river with the mountains as a back drop it's...

1 Aug 10

Baby born with a birth weigh of 16.7lbs!!!!!! How heavy was your baby??

lovelaura1 @lovelaura1 (7) • Germany 22 Apr 10

So, I thought that my daughter was big when she was born. She weighed in at 9 lbs 12.5 oz. Completely natural with no pain relief. However I just read that in 2005 a lady from Brazil gave birth to a baby weighing in at...

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bslovers Hey My baby girl was born at 7lbs 8oz no pain meds or anything. My son was born at 8lbs 10oz. I could not imagine giving birth to a 16lb baby! that is crazy!!!

1 Aug 10

what do you love most of your partner?

jobmoone @jobmoone (442) • Philippines 30 Mar 10

I love my partner for what she really is, her imperfections, the way she responds to anyone. I love all of things what my partner do.

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bslovers I love my man more then anything in this world but one thing that I really love about him is how strong he is. He had a rough childhood with his parents spliting up and then girls kept breaking his heart and when he met me I was separated from my e and he had...

30 Jul 10

What do you hate most about your partner/ lover/ spouse?

antilove @antilove (191) • Vietnam 29 Jul 10

Well, no one is perfect, even the one you love the most, right? So there must be something that you don't like about that person. Franky but also secretly saying ^^, my husband is really a nice man. However, I badly want him...

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bslovers I love my man more then any thing but he is so money conscious that it kills me! I tell everyone that he should marry my sister bc they are the same way I'm positive they'd live happily ever after! I love to spend money but I know how not to, a lot of times...

30 Jul 10

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How will you feel???

edwardjoy2000 @edwardjoy2000 (2387) • United Arab Emirates 25 Jul 10

How will you feel if your wife / husband who is in a far off country is online and does not chat with you. You call him / her and she / her does not respond well. What will you do then????

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bslovers I would be flipping out! There is a definite problem if he or she is avoiding you, which is what it seems is going on. Maybe there's a reason though, maybe someone else is on the computer under their screen name. Be patient and hear them out when they are...

30 Jul 10

Best Surprise for a partner:

raik02 @raik02 (78) • Philippines 27 Jul 10

My girlfriend is having her 20th b-day, soon, I dont know how to surprise her anymore. I serenade her last time, in front of their house at exactly 12a, and giving gifts is already common for us. What do you think I can do...

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bslovers There are always cute ideas like a picnic under the stars, make her go on a scavenger hunt around town with clues taking her from place to place and at the end you'll be waiting there with a gift for her. Just ideas hope they help!

30 Jul 10