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budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 30 Jun 08

It has been awhile since i posted anything, but i have signed in several times. At the new year our daughter Dodi perished in a house fire, she was 32 yrs old. We know the fire was deliberately started, but we still don't have...

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surviving a loss

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budsr03 Sorry for the late reply. Yes i have thought of suicide and it doesn't help that i have clinical depression. I am taking my medications and staying in touch with my doc. I have such a feeling of loss and sadness i often feel overwhelmed by grief! I realize...

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budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 12 Jan 08

The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to...

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budsr03 Hi Princess :), I'm glad to hear from you! I truly thank you for the prayers because it seems to be getting harder to deal with our loss. I hope everything is ok in all areas of your life? Yup, i think about your well-being. I'm very sure i will be looking...

27 Feb 08

budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 12 Jan 08

The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to...

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budsr03 Thank you for your thoughts William! I feel the only way we are coping, is from the family and friend support! Sometimes i feel i am going to break completely! Take care!

15 Jan 08

budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 12 Jan 08

The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to...

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budsr03 Your wishes are very welcome Mummybec! I feel a deep sadness inside, but i am glad it isn't a constant feeling! We're so thankful for the people praying and thinking of us! Take care Mummybec!

15 Jan 08

budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 12 Jan 08

The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to...

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budsr03 That's beautiful and meaningful, thank you Pye!

15 Jan 08

budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 12 Jan 08

The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to...

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budsr03 There is an error after the words side by side, our girl's name should be there!

14 Jan 08

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budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 12 Jan 08

The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to...

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budsr03 For Bunn Bunn Our bird was taken so suddenly. She was just learning to fly. Now she leaves behind friends and family with nary a dry eye. God’s purpose for Bunn Bunn our bird Is more important in heaven Than here on this earth. Our gracious...

14 Jan 08

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budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 12 Jan 08

The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to...

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budsr03 Thank you Thinkerm, i too hope to have an answer soon and i hope it is the truth! Take care!

14 Jan 08

budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 12 Jan 08

The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to...

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budsr03 I've signed in a few times, but i couldn't reply or even think of anything to say! I will sign in sometimes because i can feel comfort here in Mylot! I won't leave here without saying goodbye! Thank you Pye for your care and concern and please take care!

14 Jan 08

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budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 12 Jan 08

The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to...

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budsr03 Thank you for your thoughts and the poem. That poem is the one we used for our father's funeral in 1993! For our daughter we used two and one of them is a poem i wrote in about half an hour! I just needed to express what the feelings were in my heart! I might...

14 Jan 08

budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 12 Jan 08

The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to...

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budsr03 I'm so sorry for your loss too Polly. As time goes by i know the pain will ease, but sometimes i'd like to give time a little push to quicken the pace! lol! Our emotions are up and down like a yoyo but we do have some support, thank goodness! Take care Polly.

14 Jan 08

budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 12 Jan 08

The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to...

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budsr03 I haven't been on here much, but i do sign in to see how my fellow mylotters are doing! I consider mylot as a place where i can find my extended family! Thank you for the prayers and please take care!

14 Jan 08

budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 30 Dec 07

Our daughter Dodi went out of town to visit her cousins which is about a 4 hour drive from here. A party happened and a very violent fight broke out! Two of my nephews are in jail and no one knows where our daughter is! The house...

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budsr03 Hi Pyewacket, we were informed today around 10:30 am our daughter Dodi was the person who perished in the deliberately set fire. The pain we feel is like nothing we've ever felt in this lifetime! If i'm able i will explain more! Take care my friend.

6 Jan 08

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budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 30 Dec 07

Our daughter Dodi went out of town to visit her cousins which is about a 4 hour drive from here. A party happened and a very violent fight broke out! Two of my nephews are in jail and no one knows where our daughter is! The house...

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budsr03 The officer who keeps us informed has told us the deceaseds body should be identified today, hopefully! This not knowing if it's our daughter or not is the hardest trial we have ever been through! Thank you so much for your concern and caring! Take care...

2 Jan 08

budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 30 Dec 07

Our daughter Dodi went out of town to visit her cousins which is about a 4 hour drive from here. A party happened and a very violent fight broke out! Two of my nephews are in jail and no one knows where our daughter is! The house...

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budsr03 Hi Pyewacket! The body has been brought here in Edmonton! The officer in touch with us said, by wednesday the body should be id'd! Of course when i hear more i will let all know! Take care.

31 Dec 07

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budsr03 @budsr03 (2350) • Canada 19 Nov 07

"Mercy" made this a number 1 hit song in 1969, ya we're talking about a song here! I was listening to it and it brought back memories when i was a teen and i had puppy love! She crushed my heart, but we became good friends as we...

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budsr03 Hi Princess! I hope life is treating you good in Az? I miss you too! I will look for you on msn soon! Are you keeping warm? I hope you don't suffer the cold anymore? lol! Big hug and take care Princess! :)

28 Dec 07

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