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bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 24 Mar 10

There is a lady that her husband used his male organ for money rituals and is now impotent, but did not tell her until after 5 years of marriage, but now told her and even insist for her to make an arrangement with another man to...

impotent

rituals

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bunmi2501 yea really sick, even considering him of all people now pushing the wife to make arrangment with somebody to sleep with her, he is really lost his mind

24 Mar 10

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 9 Mar 10

If 2 brothers marry 2 sisters from the same parent, is this wrong, in some culture in my country, this is viewed as a taboo, is this allowed in your culture?

related marriage

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bunmi2501 Yea, thanks for the infro, I quit agree that this issue is relative, and it is perceived differently by different set of people and races and times

9 Mar 10

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 6 Mar 10

I heard a story of a mother having an affair with her son-in-law, is this crazy or what!, she's even had 2 abortions for him, now the lady is in between what to do with her mom and the husband. What do you guys think she should...

crazy affair

crazy love

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bunmi2501 yea! its really crazzzzzzzy

6 Mar 10

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 6 Mar 10

I heard a story of a mother having an affair with her son-in-law, is this crazy or what!, she's even had 2 abortions for him, now the lady is in between what to do with her mom and the husband. What do you guys think she should...

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bunmi2501 No, there is no kids yet, they've only been married for 2 years

6 Mar 10

drdivu @drdivu (1011) • India 6 Mar 10

hi ppl... lately my parents have been searching for a guy for me..they know but not very sure in what all to look for in a guy..though they always wanted me to have an arrange marriage but still...now they are clueless...lol...I...

arrange marriage

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bunmi2501 I totally agree with you!!! LOVE should be the basis for marriage or else it will fail.

6 Mar 10

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 24 Dec 08

Today is Christmas eve and by mid- night, santa clause is expected to be distributing gift, if you are give an opportunity to make a wish for what you want, what will for?

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24 Dec 08

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 22 Dec 08

If a couple gets pregnant before marriage, do they have to still get married or just continue to live their life?

marriage

pregnant

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bunmi2501 Yea, that is correct, it protray a form of dignity for the lady.

22 Dec 08

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 16 Dec 08

Is it wrong for couples to live together before they get married, I recently heard a friend saying that he was having problem with his fiance for not moving in with him when he got a new accommodation and didnt want to stay at...

relationships

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bunmi2501 Yes, you are right, what is good for one might not be applicatble to the other, so there is need to understand the stake of the relationship if it good for it or not before deciding on what to do. Thanks for your comment

17 Dec 08

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 16 Dec 08

Is it wrong for couples to live together before they get married, I recently heard a friend saying that he was having problem with his fiance for not moving in with him when he got a new accommodation and didnt want to stay at...

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bunmi2501 Thanks, that is a good idea, they can alway talk it out, communication is key

17 Dec 08

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 16 Dec 08

Is it wrong for couples to live together before they get married, I recently heard a friend saying that he was having problem with his fiance for not moving in with him when he got a new accommodation and didnt want to stay at...

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bunmi2501 Thanks for sharing, enjoy yourself and I wish you a happy relationship.

17 Dec 08

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 16 Dec 08

Is it wrong for couples to live together before they get married, I recently heard a friend saying that he was having problem with his fiance for not moving in with him when he got a new accommodation and didnt want to stay at...

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bunmi2501 Thanks, I think it will be good to respect someone's chioce irrespective of what we think is good or bad.

17 Dec 08

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 16 Dec 08

Is it wrong to have a relationship with a close relation, in my culture, I know they call it a taboo, they can even kill the people involved, but what happened in the bible days, where only few people are around and cousins and...

relationship with a relative

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bunmi2501 I believe is wrong, and for the sake of the unborn baby it should be discouraged

17 Dec 08

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 16 Dec 08

Is it wrong to have a relationship with a close relation, in my culture, I know they call it a taboo, they can even kill the people involved, but what happened in the bible days, where only few people are around and cousins and...

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bunmi2501 Oh yes I think I understand it, so it is not just a culture or supersition thing but that their is a biological explanation to it. Thanks a lot

17 Dec 08

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bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 16 Dec 08

Am I suppose to be actively looking for a spouse or wait for God to bring a spouse to me?

christian dating

church dating

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bunmi2501 Whao! am so happy for you, it sure pays to wait on God, you are a testimony indeed. Thank you. God bless.

16 Dec 08

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 16 Dec 08

Am I suppose to be actively looking for a spouse or wait for God to bring a spouse to me?

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bunmi2501 That is correct, if we can only wait on God, things will get better, He has the master plan and knows what is best for us. Thanks for sharing. God bless.

16 Dec 08

bunmi2501 @bunmi2501 (465) • Nigeria 16 Dec 08

Is it wrong for couples to live together before they get married, I recently heard a friend saying that he was having problem with his fiance for not moving in with him when he got a new accommodation and didnt want to stay at...

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bunmi2501 I agree with you 100%, people will get to know themselves better and learn how to handle some things before they finally decide if the relationship can work or not

16 Dec 08

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