bunmi2501

@bunmi2501 (465)

Nigeria • Age 48

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Can you pretend to people that you're ok even it's not?

markmoney @markmoney (2868) • Philippines 8 Apr 10

There are people like that, you cannot see on their faces that they have problems, specially those ones who likes to smile a lot. Are you one of those? Can you pretend to people that you're ok even the truth is not. Me, I find it...

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bunmi2501 Sometimes you really need some inner strenght not to allow whatever is going on inside you to come out, it is not really pretending but you need to learn how to master your emotions, but if you really got pains in your body, then boy you cant hide it, its got...

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Why was I blessed?

arabgirl28 @arabgirl28 (165) • United States 21 Mar 10

My earlier years were not that good. My Dad died very young and I did not know him well. Because of this I felt left out of a lot of things. Also, there was no male figure to stand up for me. I learned the hard way how to handle...

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bunmi2501 Blessed be God and the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ who had blessed us with all spiritual blessings in heavenly places, God has already blessed us and nothing in this world can change that. All we need to do is to learn His word and allow the Holy Spirit to...

24 Mar 10

i am very stressed ,what can i do

vikeyme @vikeyme (109) • China 11 Mar 10

i lost my job a few days ago ,what should i do ,i don't want to find a new one

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bunmi2501 Lossing your job can really be disturbing but I will advise that you dont give up and decide that you will not find something to do, you might not go about looking for a job as it were, but you can find something you love doing to engage in to make a...

24 Mar 10

Things that made you Happy today

red_amethyst @red_amethyst (3518) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

At the end of the day, when you are lying in bed or maybe just taking your rest, do you contemplate on what transpired today? Do you think of the things that made you happy? So what made you happy today? As for me, I am a very...

happy

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bunmi2501 I love to speak to my wife while at work, it makes me feel so happy and close to her even when we are apart, and when I get home we get to gist on what happened over the day.

24 Mar 10

Whyt have there been so many major earthquakes lately?

Mrphc30 @Mrphc30 (36) • Mexico 9 Mar 10

Haiti, Turkey, Chile, which is the next? i do not think 2012 has anything to do with it myself, however i did hear that the earth axis did shift and it is causing lots of problems.

2012

earthquakes

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bunmi2501 2012 is only a fiction, what we should be concerned about is the what God had said in His word about earthquakes in divers places, it is one of the signs that the world to coming to an end soon. Mark 13:8.

9 Mar 10

What drinking alcohol gives?

shekhartv @shekhartv (45) • India 9 Mar 10

Do you feel drinking alcohol gives pleasure? Are you a drankard? I have never had a drop of alcohol yet. And these days I am feeling like taking a sip of it. How do you feel? I am wondering what kind of kick or whatever it gives...

drinking

hot drink

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bunmi2501 Yea, drinking really make you feel relax and calm you down in a way, but too much of it will affect you adversely.

9 Mar 10

What do you think when you hear the sound of laughter?

p3ks626 @p3ks626 (6538) • Philippines 9 Mar 10

I love hearing the sound of laughter. It feels good to know that a lot people are happy about something. For me, there are different kinds of laughter from different kinds of emotions. What do you think when you hear people laugh...

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bunmi2501 I think there is an element of our personality in everything we do, not just our laugther, everything sum up together, the way we laugh and what makes us laugh is a function of who we are inside

9 Mar 10

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How do yo get up frm bed?

venkatachary @venkatachary (1165) • India 9 Mar 10

I will get not up all of a sudden from the bed. First of all I will turn left or right and I will keep my hand on the cot/bed and then slowly I will get up. And after getting up I will sit for sometime then I will get into other...

sit

sudden

turn

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bunmi2501 I normally do not stand up immediately I wake up, I stay in bed for a while, allowing my body to prepare itself for movement and my mind ready for the day

9 Mar 10

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what to look for in an arrange marriage..??

drdivu @drdivu (1011) • India 6 Mar 10

hi ppl... lately my parents have been searching for a guy for me..they know but not very sure in what all to look for in a guy..though they always wanted me to have an arrange marriage but still...now they are clueless...lol...I...

arrange marriage

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bunmi2501 If you have agreed to go along with the arrange marriage, then you are taking a big risk, marriage is not what anyone can arrange for you, it has to be your own choice because remember it is for better for worse. you should be the one to choose the person you...

6 Mar 10

Ever felt that God isn't listening to your frustrations thus you feel frustrated

sublime03 @sublime03 (2339) • Philippines 6 Mar 10

I have never felt to so stressed in my life. The last few months I may say would be the months I have struggled financially and friendships that have been broken. It came to a point where I was questioning Him above if he has been...

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bunmi2501 Someone once said that 'it seems God will do nothing except we pray', there is a point in our life that we need to understand that prayer is not just a tool to get God to do something for us but a medium we are given to develop a fellowship with Him. It is not...

6 Mar 10

does relationship change you

vimalpatel @vimalpatel (76) • India 6 Mar 10

I have been in a relationship some times back.And I know how much it hurt when i relationship gets broken .And you know you have done your best to keep it safe.But now it is over and I have get over it.But the thing that I have...

relationship

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bunmi2501 Majorly, because you are committed to make a relationship work, you tend to make a lot of ajustments in your attitudes, behaviour and the likes, at the end of the day you observe that those adjustments you made have actually changed you for the better, and...

6 Mar 10

Breakfast at McDonald's

jess368 @jess368 (3368) • United States 23 Dec 08

My friend shared this story with me and it brought tears to my eyes. I thought this would be a nice story to pass along during the holiday season. I hope you enjoy! [b]Breakfast at McDonald's [/b] This is a good story...

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bunmi2501 My skin is filled with groose pimples, Im trying not to allow my eyes get wet cos im in the office, what a way to show love, God bless you

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Do You Know Where Your Spouse Is?

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 23 Dec 08

Just a thought..It is mid afternoon Dec. 23 I am here sitting at my computer doing a little MyLotting, I am not married but a thought come to mind, if I was married where would my spouse be at this time. Would he be working, would...

is your spouse at home

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bunmi2501 I plan to spend the christmas eve and christmas with my spouse, I already draw out plan and nothing is going to stand in my way

24 Dec 08

happiness

sanapal_bhar @sanapal_bhar (213) • India 24 Dec 08

hi guys are happy with what you are,are you enjoying your life.iam happy with what iam having,iam a medical student .iam enjoying every day leasding happy life what about you?

are you

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bunmi2501 I love my work, Iam self motivated and I love challenges, and my job is such that make always have new way of doing something, that's why I love it, I am an IT auditor in my firm

24 Dec 08

In case of rape would you report your own father?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 23 Dec 08

[i]A rape victim has waived her anonymity to speak of her eight-year ordeal at the hands of her own father. Candice Dinsdale, now 44, was just six when she was first sexually abused by her father Anthony Allen. The abuse,...

rape

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bunmi2501 this is so horrible, why would a father do that to a kid, that is so evil minded, of course he should be reported, or why should he not be?

24 Dec 08

Are you close to your family?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 24 Dec 08

Do you have a close relationship with your family? When I ask this,I mean like your mom,dad,sisters,brothers. I haven't had a close relationship with mine since I was a teenager. I miss it sometimes but it's been so many years....

are you

family

relationship

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bunmi2501 Yea, my step mum, we are very close and now that she is a bit sick, I am kind of missing her cos I will not enjoy her presence in this holiday

24 Dec 08

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Difference between "To Love" and "To fall in Love"

liisafiat @liisafiat (659) • Latvia 20 Dec 08

What is the difference between "To Love" and "To fall in Love"? Is it the same? Or does the main meaning so of these words differ from each other? Have You fallen in love? Or have You loved somebody?

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bunmi2501 To love and failing in love is not the same, you can only claim you love someone when you have prove to be completely dedicated to the person while you can just fall in love with someone without understanding the reason why you feel the way you feel.

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who would u like to marry???? LOVER or FRIEND!!!!!!!!

prabhusanges @prabhusanges (66) • India 24 Dec 08

one may not know whom he marries. you may have an option to choose your life partner! who would like to choose ??????? a caring FRIEND or a hearty LOVER????????? THINK BEFORE YOU CHOOSE..........

best life partner

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bunmi2501 A caring friend, a friend is more than just giving to feelings but a making sacrifises and being trustworthy, a hearty lover can be only be available for a while, once that feeling is no longer there, things begin to change, but a true friend will stick with...

24 Dec 08

Do you think 16 is old enough to cut a kid loose in a car?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 24 Dec 08

I just don't know if I think the maturity level is where it needs to be at 16 for driving a car. My daughter is steadily approaching 16 and I just can not imagine cutting her loose to drive. What do you think? Is 16 really old...

driving

scary

teens

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bunmi2501 Oh no, she is not old enough to drive, I dont know the law around you, but most places I know, you cant even get a driver's licence until you are 18 year, she should just wait till she old enough to grab the wheel.

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"Happy Birthday" to my son

reinydawn @reinydawn (11643) • United States 24 Dec 08

My oldest son is 25 and still lives at home. His birthday was in October, but apparently his girl friend is just now "giving" him his birthday present. For MONTHS now I've been bugging him to clean up his room - it was really a...

girl friend

lazy boys

rooms

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bunmi2501 Hmmmmmmmmm, that was really a cool thing for her to do, but your son should grow up, at 25 year, he does not need his girlfriend to clean up for him

24 Dec 08

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