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candela88 @candela88 (50) • Singapore 11 Feb 07

I am still a teenager (18 years old) and since I'm going on to 21 soon I think I should seriously think about my future. I know I want to get rich but I want to be happy. Is this realistic? I know I should just try to be happy...

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candela88 Thanks for your advice! Yea I'll definitely work hard and rest assured that I won't mix with bad company. =) Maybe I should discuss it with my parents one day. =D God bless!

11 Feb 07

candela88 @candela88 (50) • Singapore 11 Feb 07

I am still a teenager (18 years old) and since I'm going on to 21 soon I think I should seriously think about my future. I know I want to get rich but I want to be happy. Is this realistic? I know I should just try to be happy...

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candela88 Thanks for your advice! Yeah I'll follow my heart.. as long as my heart leads me in the right direction..

11 Feb 07

candela88 @candela88 (50) • Singapore 11 Feb 07

I'm thinking of buying cheap trumpets, guitars and flutes. And so far, I only know that I can get these instruments cheaper over the net. But is it safe? My dad said that it's not safe because I cannot be sure that the...

listening to music

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candela88 Hmm. I live in Singapore so I don't know of any Singaporeans who are willing to auction their instruments. I've checked but the results are low. I have also found out that other countries sell their instruments at a cheaper price.. but the problem is I...

11 Feb 07

candela88 @candela88 (50) • Singapore 11 Feb 07

I'm thinking of buying cheap trumpets, guitars and flutes. And so far, I only know that I can get these instruments cheaper over the net. But is it safe? My dad said that it's not safe because I cannot be sure that the...

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candela88 actually I just want to play the trumpet and the flute in my own leisure time. So is it advisable to buy cheap instruments in this case? I don't think I really need a good quality one.

11 Feb 07

dhigambaram @dhigambaram (1132) • India 9 Feb 07

I have fallen in love do u think i should tell the girl about what i feel? There's another girl who really loves me but i look upto her as a friend. what should i do? The girl i love, she makes me feel good and im comfortable with...

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candela88 I think this option is only for cowards? You may live to regret it.. for not fighting for something you want. it takes courage to fight.. even if you fail, at least you've tried..

10 Feb 07

fabwisp @fabwisp (1327) 9 Feb 07

My friend has asked me a very strange question and i could do with some advice. My male friend has asked me to have a baby for him and his new partner. He's only been with her 6 months and wants to settle down with her. But she...

baby

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candela88 I do not blame her harsh attitude. Becasue personally I feel that it's outrageous as well. I mean, look at it from a third party point of view.. do you think you're being 'used'? will his girlfriend allow you to sleep with him? i mean.. i think it will...

10 Feb 07

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10681) • United States 9 Sep 08

I do sometimes. What I mean is when you are talking to somebody and in an instant you remember one thing in mind that you want to do, do you just leave without saying good bye or excuse to the one you are talking too? It happens...

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candela88 I do sometimes. What I mean is when you are talking to somebody and in an instant you remember one thing in mind that you want to do, do you just leave without saying good bye or excuse to the one you are talking too? It happens to me sometimes. I just walk...

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candela88 @candela88 (50) • Singapore 10 Feb 07

I currently have a job which is related to customer service; the entrance area of a local attraction. So obviously, I have to smile and provide the best service ever, right? BUT I really don't get it when certain waiters just...

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candela88 Thank you very much for your advice! If only more people could think like you.. then the world will really be a better place. =) Cheers.

10 Feb 07

davaoguy @davaoguy (319) • United States 9 Feb 07

Since it's nearly Valentine's day and I have no date, I guess I'll just start a topic about love. I think love at first sight is just best seen in movies. I think in real-life it's more of infatuation that people think is love...

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candela88 yeah i agree with davaoguy. love needs understanding and you guys have already had that understanding between the both of you when you two have met. so it shouldn't be classified under "love at first sight".

10 Feb 07

davaoguy @davaoguy (319) • United States 9 Feb 07

Since it's nearly Valentine's day and I have no date, I guess I'll just start a topic about love. I think love at first sight is just best seen in movies. I think in real-life it's more of infatuation that people think is love...

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candela88 yeah i agree that it's really very rare and it takes a lot of luck. i think love needs to be nurtured.. =)

10 Feb 07

davaoguy @davaoguy (319) • United States 9 Feb 07

Since it's nearly Valentine's day and I have no date, I guess I'll just start a topic about love. I think love at first sight is just best seen in movies. I think in real-life it's more of infatuation that people think is love...

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candela88 erm.. i'm not sure if we can call it a true fact.. because it's not scientifically proven yet. sorry. maybe i haven't experienced it so that's why I'm being skeptical. But then again, how many people actually DO get to experience it? love takes trust and...

10 Feb 07

davaoguy @davaoguy (319) • United States 9 Feb 07

Since it's nearly Valentine's day and I have no date, I guess I'll just start a topic about love. I think love at first sight is just best seen in movies. I think in real-life it's more of infatuation that people think is love...

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candela88 i think it was only attraction at first sight? coz love takes trust and understanding and you probably won't feel that at first glance, yeah? maybe both of you just decided that you're attracted to each other and want to take it further.. you know.....

10 Feb 07

davaoguy @davaoguy (319) • United States 9 Feb 07

Since it's nearly Valentine's day and I have no date, I guess I'll just start a topic about love. I think love at first sight is just best seen in movies. I think in real-life it's more of infatuation that people think is love...

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candela88 Oh my. I've never experienced something like that before.. though I bet it would be sweet. I'm really happy for you! BUT.. if everyone has a soulmate.. how can we be sure that we'll find each other? what if both parties are each at the opposite end of...

10 Feb 07

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