carlena1

@carlena1 (120)

United States • Age 52

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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How do you know if you've fallen in love?

ninong @ninong (110) • Philippines 12 Apr 07

How does one really know that he has moved from the "like" stage to the "love" stage? Other people are hard to understand, because we can't even really understand ourselves. But for you, how do you determine that you have already...

love

relationships

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carlena1 I think about them constantly. I start planning our future together in my head. And of course- those butterflies!

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do you have any fair weather friends?

kaperkitty @kaperkitty (1097) • Canada 12 Apr 07

First of all in case anyone is not familiar with what a fair weather friend is the type that is always there when times are good but forgets about you when times get difficult or problems crop up. I have such a friend. We have...

are you a fairweather friend or do you have one

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carlena1 She is taking you for granted, and there is nothing more painful than having those closest abandone you at the most troublesome times. Forward you message or e-mail to her explaining you need time alone to re-evaluate your real friends. And mean it!!! Don't...

12 Apr 07

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On the internet do you use your real name or an alias???

showmethecash @showmethecash (122) • United States 6 Apr 07

Unless Im buying something I tend to use an alias when talking with others. I was wondering how many other people do this??

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carlena1 I use my real name mostly. Now I am thinking it might not be a good idea. Your way is probably best-stick with it

6 Apr 07

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What's your chinese zodiac sign?

Riptide @Riptide (2756) • United States 5 Apr 07

Mine is metal dog. METAL DOG Horoscope Feb 10, 1910 to Jan 29, 1911 Feb 6, 1970 to Jan 26, 1971 Dog people are loyal and honest and obedient, guardians of the house at night. They can be counted on to keep secrets and for...

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carlena1 rat here. born june 10 1972- I am a loyal survivor. i get along best the monkey and rabbit I think. i believe in this stuff very much-thanx

5 Apr 07

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how to deal with a stupid boyfriend

saraelorama @saraelorama (264) • Philippines 5 Apr 07

if your boyfriend is stupid, how would you deal with him? share your thoughts!

boyfriend

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carlena1 Replace him with a smart one. No seriously, if the stupidity isn't intentional and he's aloving guy- Like Raymond on everybody loves Raymond- keep him around. OR tutor him!!!

5 Apr 07

donuts, anyone??

firefury @firefury (55) • Philippines 5 Apr 07

who shares my love for donuts? my special favorites are krispy kremes, available only in megamall and cello's in katipunan... krispy kremes has the best melt-in-your-mouth donuts. undisputable. they're my number one. with cello's...

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carlena1 I love krispy kremes.The only local one we had closed down last year, and I am not the same. I love it when the icing is still warm. YUMMY

5 Apr 07

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Do you SLOW your WALK if you see an OLD MAN in front?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 5 Apr 07

Here's a real situation that I encounter pretty often. Imagine: You are running late for an appointment and you step up your pace. Repeated excuse-me's volley out of your mouth as you elbow your way through the crowd. There.. you...

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carlena1 I slow down when an elderly person is walking alongside. They usually strike up interesting conversation. You should never feel bad about when you are compelled to do something thoughtful. Besides when I get older, I don't want people rushing past knocking me...

5 Apr 07

Hugs or Kisses?

djdeep81 @djdeep81 (1061) 5 Apr 07

Both is not an option.... i prefer kisses....i think

hugs kisses

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carlena1 Kisses definitely. Although, the kissee would have to be good at it. Also, hugs are more friendly than passionate, so the choice rather is how do you feel about this individual? Where there is passion there should be kissing. How about that song from Romeo and...

5 Apr 07

love or money ?

julie0825 @julie0825 (1414) • Philippines 15 Mar 07

is this a choice? can we have this both? for me i would rather have love over money. think about it,some people have all the money in the world and are not happy .love to me is the most important thing to give to someone and...

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carlena1 you can expose yourself to more love with the right amount of mony. No seriously, we all want love- sometimes we get duds though. Money is a great consolation prize when you dont have a soulmate

5 Apr 07

I almost got scammed ;(

ausnikki @ausnikki (4054) • Brisbane, Australia 4 Apr 07

I have been looking for work for quite a few months now.About two weeks ago I got an email in my inbox from someone saying they had read my resume on an online job site, and that they would like to offer me a job.Hmmm I thought...

fraud

money laundering

scam

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carlena1 those financial agent e-mail solicitations will get you felony time. forward those e-mails to security websites and never share info. the following are real work - no fee no scam sites www.untroddenedroad.com craig'slist ritterandassociates good luck

4 Apr 07

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Is a gun a protection weapon or a war item?

kynni204 @kynni204 (2031) • United States 4 Apr 07

Would you shoot someone? Why ? Has anyone pissed you off that bad? They pissed you off to the point you thanked God that you did not have a gun available. I know there have been a couple of situations that I don't know what I...

guns at home

guns for protection

weapons

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carlena1 personally, I think guns create violence. there have been times when I know having a gun in my possesion would have caused me to at least comtemplate the unthinkable.these guns have to go

4 Apr 07

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favorite italian dish??

ishaan77 @ishaan77 (32) • United States 2 Apr 07

hey everyone... it looks like that u guys like to eat italian food. !!! soo there must be dish,yor favorite one... sooo which is ur favorite dish ......???? well my favorite italian dishes are pastas... obviously...

italian

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carlena1 I love my co-worker's baked ziti. It is so fattening and addictive though. I also love chicken parm, linguini with spinach and clams,and who doesn't enjoy a good lasagna. Italian food is great. I wish there more restaurants with reasonable pricing for italian...

4 Apr 07

scam!!

hazydazy @hazydazy (783) • United States 3 Apr 07

A friend of mine is being scammed. I have tried to help her see that his guy is a total fake. Short version she is ready to pack her bags and run away to another country to be with him. He has asked for money and she sent it. I...

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carlena1 Unfortunately a lot of people use the internet for fraud. If he really loves her he should should come visit her- at least for awhile. Getting married to this guy is not a good idea/hence living with him may be just that in another country. Since she doesn't...

4 Apr 07

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What is your dream marriage proposal?

darthboard @darthboard (229) • Philippines 4 Apr 07

I dream of proposing marriage to my significant other on the white sands of Boracay. While walking, with the sunset in the background, I'll suddenly kneel down, take out the ring from my pocket and tell her how much I love her,...

marriage proposal

relationships

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carlena1 I want someone to propose while making love. You know... abruptly in the middle of lovemaking... he would stop look into my eyes and ask if this union could never end..Woahhh! I might actually take that proposal seriously.I think it is the closest most...

4 Apr 07

Women - Do you give an ugly man more of your time if you think he has money?

jennysp8 @jennysp8 (855) • United States 4 Apr 07

I want honest answers here. Because I wonder if some women will give a guy which they consider "not so great looking" the time of day if they think he's got money? Or a really nice looking guy (by your own standards) that...

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carlena1 No. I have been known to date homelier looking guys if they seem more sincere, and if they make me laugh. The sad thing is...there are a host of homely looking guys out treating women like crap. Maybe because they were scorned or fo whatever reason- which is...

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