cassaleo

@cassaleo (32)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Be the best person you can now and stop the crazyness!

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Let me pray for you

Paraluman @Paraluman (98) • Philippines 25 Jun 09

hi! do you believe that prayer changes things? this is my very first time to start a discussion here in mylot. If you have anything that you want to pray for, let me pray with you and for you.Its my joy to pray for other people. I...

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cassaleo Hello, Thank you for praying for people on here. I think that people often forget the power of prayer is so powerful! If you can will you just pray for my family. You don't have to respond to it on here. But we have been going thru things. My friends have...

25 Jun 09

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Still looking for new friends?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 9 Jun 09

I have a question pertaining to how you decide if you are going to look for new friends. Do you ever have friends that have been there for a while but then you decide that it is time for some new ones? Would you ever ditch the...

new ones

old friends

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cassaleo I am always looking for new friends but have the darndest time finding them. For some reason people just will not approach me. I would love to have new friends that I could chat with on the phone from time to time. People I meet are either in other countries...

10 Jun 09

Do you like to have many brothers and sisters or you like to be only one?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 10 Jun 09

How many brothers and sister do you have? Are you in good relations with they? You are elder brother? Will you help your brothers and sisters if they need? Or they help you if you need? Or you just don t like to be in...

questions

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cassaleo alright now this is going to be a long one. I have five brothers and four sisters. In addition to that group I have two step brothers and four step sisters whose parents are neither married to any of my parents! I speak to all of my siblings and most of them...

10 Jun 09

Ghosts

eileenleyva @eileenleyva (27560) • Philippines 10 Jun 09

My daughter told me that in her class the lesson dwelt on the topic that for every two hundred people two are ghosts. How true could this likely be? Must we start counting, say in a mall or a train coach?

ghosts

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cassaleo I do think that it is possible to have ghosts among us. If you think about it, some people have unfinished business on earth and some just never leave. It actually makes me nervous to hear stuff like that because anything can happen. I watch some of those...

10 Jun 09

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What is the abundant Life?

manayonboy @manayonboy (511) • Philippines 9 Jun 09

The dictionary defines the word abundant as meaning more than adequate, richly supplied, plentiful. Jesus said, "My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life." (John 10:10). So the abundant life is one that is richly...

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cassaleo I think a lot of times people get so caught up in the world and what they are supposed to do that they cannot see past it. I know we all are guilty of it, but in today's society you have more glitz than realism. You do not see people being real anymore and...

10 Jun 09

What is the best solution for Writer's Block?

ragenepalma @ragenepalma (166) • Philippines 10 Jun 09

I'm a freelance writer and amateur journalist, and pressure gets to me a lot of times. Have you experienced Writer's Block? I have, and not just once or twice, but a lot of times. It even happens to me during times when I have to...

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cassaleo Hello, Well I have writers block as we speak! What I normally do is to clear my mind and think of something silly to just write about. Sometimes I just write anything that comes to my head no matter how simple it might be. I can almost always get something...

10 Jun 09

ladies...do you regularly have your pap smear?

ckyera @ckyera (17331) • Philippines 9 Jun 09

pap smear is very important for every woman, it helps us to detect early if there is something wrong to our reproductive organs and so we can do something to prevent a more severe disease...and i believe it should be done...

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cassaleo Hello I started at about 18 around the time I started being active. I have gotten it every since. I had a scare a few years back of cervical cancer and I am thankful that I got it checked and taken care of. Having anything that messes with your reproductive...

9 Jun 09

How many guests is too many for a wedding?

leyisa @leyisa (486) • Canada 9 Jun 09

Ok - So in the past couple of months, I've attended 3 weddings....Now, in the old days, if you had approx. 100 ppl at your wedding, then it was considered a "big wedding"....OFcourse, I thought that this was still the case. But...

guests

wedding

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cassaleo I think that over 300 is way too many. I mean when you get to friends of the parents that is just way too much. You can have more friends of your parents than your own guests. Most people cannot afford to feed that many people. I cannot imagine having 750...

9 Jun 09

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How early in advance should the save-the-date sent out?

sexyposh @sexyposh (575) • Philippines 9 Jun 09

We finally decide to get marry, and we're really really excited. So we announce our engagement to all of our friends. But when we came to planning stage we decide to have it at the beach... 2hrs flight from Metro Manila. We wish...

destination wedding

invitations

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cassaleo Well I am not in the same boat as you but similar. We are juggling where and when! We settled on our date and it is just a matter of how! I would send out your save the dates now. Let them know in the save the date that you will be having a destination wedding...

9 Jun 09

Discussions on Phobias.

jezzmay @jezzmay (1845) • United States 9 Jun 09

I have a discussion on phobias,that I did not get a response on 2 years ago.I trying to clear up my unresolved discussions.Could someone help me out?I thank you for all the answers I do get.

discussions

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cassaleo I am very scared of bugs. It is pretty crazy that I can kill them but can in the same hand turn and run from them. I cannot even tell you how much I hate bugs. All I can think about is bugs crawling all over my skin as I walk. I hate walking in the parks...

9 Jun 09

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Who Has Touched Yours?

saw2207 @saw2207 (1359) • United States 9 Jun 09

I have read . that Happiness is for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives... Who has touched yours?

happiness

special people

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cassaleo Well the person who has touched my life the most is my brother. He died when I was 2 years old. Even though I never met him in my life of remembrance, I know him through so much more. I have a picture or two of him and so many unanswered questions. He is one...

9 Jun 09

Do you think its wrong to spank your kids?

ronward24 @ronward24 (9) • United States 9 Jun 09

I hear this all the time that its wrong to discipline your children by spanking them or making them eat soap. I was raised that way and I actually think it would make the world a safer place. By sparing the rod, your sparing a...

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cassaleo I cannot speak for everyone, I can only speak for myself and my family. We believe in spankings. We are not abusers or beating on kids, which I believe there is a difference. To pop your kid on the butt or tap them out in public if they get out of line that...

9 Jun 09

Have you ever.....

x_Jo_x @x_Jo_x (1040) 9 Jun 09

...Found love through one of these dating websites? Like Match.com or something? I was just wondering if it had ever actually been successfull. An advert for one came on tv and it just made me wonder how many people actually use...

dating websites

love

relationships

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cassaleo I do not know if this counts but I found my soul mate on yahoo.com personals! It was a weird story but to sum it up. He messaged me and at that time I was talking to various people. He lived in a different state and that seemed doomed from the jump. We were...

9 Jun 09

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What is the difference between boys and men?

MsAshley @MsAshley (39) • United States 9 Jun 09

What determines a boy from a mam? I think that it is all in how a man carried themselves, because you could be thirty years old still living with you mother and that doesn't make you a man. Then on the other hand you can be 18...

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cassaleo I know what you mean exactly because I know a few people who pretend to be grown but do everything but what they are supposed to do. It is so funny that you see fifty something men playing video games. Now i am not saying that video games are childish, but at...

9 Jun 09

If you had to define love in only 1 sentence, what would you say love is?

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 7 Jun 09

If I had to do this I would say: To me, real love is when you care about another persons welfare as much or more than your own. How would define what love is using just one simple sentence? Karen

define love

define love in one sentence

love

what is love

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cassaleo love is an expression from one person's heart to another in many ways throughout a lifetime that the two share that is unwavering and unconditional to a fault.

8 Jun 09

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Do you think that you should forgive and forget ? Is it really that easy?

latsmom @latsmom (824) 8 Jun 09

Many people have said that we should forgive and forget but I would like to know how far my fellow mylotters feel we should take this, I think that there are definately circumstances where we cannot do this or may even end up in...

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cassaleo Hello, Well I think it is always better to forgive and forget, but there are exceptions to the rule. I think that if someone does something to you once depending on how bad it is there are different ways to handle them. Like if someone steals from you. I...

8 Jun 09

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If you won huge amount of money in lottery, what are you going to do with it?

chikadee21ph @chikadee21ph (438) • Philippines 8 Jun 09

have you heard of individuals who won lottery? Those people who are poor but then became an instant millionaires because of winning in lottery or sweepstakes? Well, I heard a lot of them on tv. I also noticed that most of them...

investment

lottery

making money

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cassaleo Well I guess I am a bit different. I am one of those recycle freaks so I would definitely recycle a lot of it among family and charities. Although, I would keep a nice chunk for my family and my children. I think it is all about being wise with it. I am sure...

8 Jun 09

Should a second marriage be big or small

YaYaMom @YaYaMom (70) • United States 7 Jun 09

I have been thinking about a second marriage and wondering if I should have a big church wedding or a small intimate one with just family and friends. What about just two people running off for a day and getting married in front...

second wedding big or small

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cassaleo Hi, I think that it would be really cool to have a decent sized wedding for the second time around. It doesn't have to be a whole lot of people there to have something really nice for your 2nd time around. I know alot of people who do not have the big wedding...

8 Jun 09

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