chayen

@chayen (90)

Philippines • Age 37

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Memories on Memorial Day

ryzach @ryzach (1544) • United States 25 May 09

Today I am thinking of family members who are no longer with us and remember all of the wonderful memories of them. Both my parents are gone and I miss both of them very much. I don't just think of them today but often throughout...

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chayen I missed my grandmother. She is so special in my heart, I guess everyone had someone to miss. There is life and there is also death. Even though i miss a lot of people who passed away in my life but i had to keep going. Thanks for sharing this

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Guests complain, how do you handle it??

smooch091784 @smooch091784 (973) • Philippines 25 May 09

I've been working at a premier spa, called "The Spa", I've been there for roughly 2 months.. I like my job as a Front Desk, but there are certain time that I get guest complaints which unavoidable in every service type of...

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chayen How about your boss ? Did he/she like to yell at you as well ? Handling customers complain is the requirement in the customer service line of business If you are not comfortable with it , i guess you'll just need to change your job. But i am not saying that...

25 May 09

Movies you don't like.

karpatzio @karpatzio (106) • Israel 22 May 09

I like movies, but don't you just hate it when a movie is stuffed with movie cliches, doesn't live up to the buzz/hype around it or after 90 minutes you are thinking "what the heck have I've just been watching" ? These are some of...

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chayen For start, I hate wolverine . Syria - full of well known actor but the movies is so disappointed. Epic movie - i expected to be like scary movies but it is not even close. Also i don't like WANTED , the movies just to boring for me.

22 May 09

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***How do you persuade someone?

diamania @diamania (7011) • Netherlands 22 May 09

Since I am mostly losing discussions in real life i'd like to know what methods you use to persuade people that you're right.

communication

persuasion

talking

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chayen Hello diamania, I thing it depends to who am i going to convince that i am right , if you are talking about my boss. Than OMG , he is really hard to persuade. But if you are talking about my friends, I'll just give them something that they want, And they are...

22 May 09

i always afraid someone stand back of me

fwangaa @fwangaa (3057) • China 22 May 09

i always nervous when i writing somethings in mylot and i am afraid someone stand back of me. so i always look back of me .and confidence there is no one behind me. do you feel the same? do you afaind some one behind...

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chayen I don't quite understand. Do you mean real people behind you ? or in virtual world people ?

22 May 09

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at what age do you plan to get married?

xannebull @xannebull (1793) • Philippines 22 May 09

when i was still single, i used to plan on getting married at the age of 25, and have baby at the same age. But i was married at the age of 24. 1 year before planning to get married. i thought that being 25 was the right age of...

married

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chayen I want to enjoy my single life as long as i can. I'll get marry around 30 i think, but first i need to find the groom. I dont like to rush think up, i believe only need to marry once in our life finding the right man/woman must be really difficult.

22 May 09

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Why can't people ever find true happiness in life?

karpatzio @karpatzio (106) • Israel 22 May 09

Why can certain people find it though? can you find it at all? i believe that there is a downside to almost everything you do in life. if you think about it, there is usually more than one. most people, on my standards, can only...

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chayen Hello karpatzio , Life is a complex thing,sometimes i can feel that today is my happiest moment in my life.Then tomorrow is the opposite site, we can not always expect everything go smooth as we planned, but always expect the unexpected in life, be prepare...

22 May 09

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i don't like to argue!

ckyera @ckyera (17331) • Philippines 21 May 09

im a type of person who don't like arguing, whenever arguments arise i always choose to keep quiet coz i think the talk would not go anywhere especially when both of you are intense. even if i think that the other one is wrong,...

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chayen Hello , I don't like to argue as well , i really find that arguing with other people is really a waste of time. Because it is just not in my nature , to change people state of mind , or to make him believe what i do. People who like to argue with others is...

22 May 09

How often do you defragment your computer?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 22 May 09

Computers need defragmentation and i do it every sunday using some new free to use defragmentor and its very essential to do so otherwise it gets slow

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chayen i did defrgment my computer every week, before i almost done that every day. Then i realize that it is not that very useful to do very often. Starting this year i almost forget the last time i defrag my computer.

22 May 09

Lliving without checking mails or surfing for couple of weeks.

babshish @babshish (1387) • India 22 May 09

Hi All, how many of you think it is possible without accessing internet / checking mails for couple of weeks. We all are so used to it now a days, that it has became part of our routines, So can you think of taking a break or...

internet

surfing

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chayen I am that really addicted to internet , though i have a dsl connection. Well i cant resist that internet is really affect my life but somehow there are also other things in my life that more important than this virtual world. There are people out there who...

22 May 09

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Are you satisfied with download speed of your Internet?

ravusri @ravusri (5) • India 22 May 09

Hello friends, I get download speed of around 300Kbps at peak time and I think at times this is slow enough, for ex., when I download any movie. How fast is your internet and how much satisfied are you with the current speed

download

internet

speed

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chayen Hello ravusri , i don't know how the exact speed for my internet connection because sometimes when you subscribe to your ISP, you wont get full speed because a lot of factor can affect that. And if you try also to measure your download speed through...

22 May 09

Dont you think Global warming is Global warning?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 22 May 09

The tempratures going up and rise in industrial and traffic pollution our planet has become much more warmer and the environment is at threat from our own resourcesl it seems unperdictable whether europe would have a intolerable...

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chayen It is our job to save our planet, and yes it is true He is dying. And there are a lot of campaign about it, people started to realize that they are trying to destroy their home. I don't have an idea where to help, Or what should i do to prevent it, The only...

22 May 09

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What is your pet's name?

Phyrre @phyrre (2317) • United States 21 May 09

I'm always very curious about this one. Right now we have a bunny named Mephistopheles (Staphi for short), named that way because he's evil and has the blackest eyes ever (even though he's absolutely adorable). But I always get...

animal

name

pet

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chayen I named my dog brown, because when the first time i bought him his color is brown. when he getting older, i don't understand why but his color start to change become black. Well , thats the thing i learn about naming my pet, never named them from their...

21 May 09

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Were you ever scared of Ghosts when you were a kid?

ebook_freak @ebook_freak (1511) • India 20 May 09

I was. Infact I always got scared when I heard a voice at night. And I used to get freaked out pretty often! My cousins played a wonderful role in sustaining the myth. They used to say there was a SandGhost that...

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chayen Yeah , My sister used to scary me with the story of The who will eat my stomach if i stayed fat. Well it took me 12 years to realize that it is against the law for the man to eat any other man stomach. It is not a ghost story though i think she just trying to...

21 May 09

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How do you eat your food..slowly or finish as soon as possible?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 21 May 09

Do you always Enjoy your food slowly or Eat them up as soon as possible? I like eating slowly, all time when i eat with others, i am last who finish to eat. Is good for stomach, is good to feel food taste, and why not people...

enjoy life

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chayen I like to enjoy the deliciousness of the food. I taste and eat it slow, as it enter my mouth i chew it like any doctor recommended than swallow it. Maybe it is not healthy if we eat to fast, or as a recommendation i would like to encourage you to drink water...

21 May 09

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How to enjoy ones's weekend while he is single and not so young?

Leonma @Leonma (57) • China 21 May 09

Ten minutes late the new Friday would came again, and after one day work there came the weekend. For now I am single and working alone outside, I don't have many friends here so I used to play games and view novel in internet...

weekend single enjoy

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chayen Hello Leonma , i would recommended for you to go out , find some nice restaurant or hangout cafe and enjoy the night there. Well even if you are single it doesn't mean that you also lonely, right ? Just fill your life with some colors, or maybe go out and try...

21 May 09

do you tell your true age whe someone asks you "how old are you"?

jheLaichie @jheLaichie (4438) • Philippines 21 May 09

im proud of what my age have accomplish this past few years. i may be older now but still young at heart. and i dont have to feel ashame of it. im even proud that people would say "really you are already 29? you didnt look your...

age

mylot

people

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chayen Hi jheLaichie , i never lied about my age to people. why would i lie . I am proud of my age and my physical things that goes with aging process. Thanks for posting this and have a nice day.

21 May 09

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are you also concerned about the future of other family members?

spoiled311 @spoiled311 (5500) • Philippines 21 May 09

Hi all! I recently heard about ethical hacking and I got excited with the concept. However, I may be too old and too busy as a new mother to learn this but I thought that I would definitely refer this to my brother who is a...

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chayen I cant argue with you , i totally agree. I watched a MIT lecture videos about computer, the professor said that before in programming everything was about modularity, but now in 21 century everything is about security. There are high demand of ethical hacking...

21 May 09