churchill1980

@churchill1980 (764)

Philippines • Age 44

Joined myLot 16 years ago

dance like nobody's watching, work like you don't need money and love like you've never been hurt.

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does silence ease your pain with your partner?

wendy805 @wendy805 (261) • China 25 Sep 12

sometimes, i just dont get along well with my husband. for something. after it, i tend to have some cold war with him.. i dont wnat to make up, so say bad words or do anything. just ingore him. keep focusing on other things...

husband

igore

silence

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churchill1980 that's how i was when i and my husband just get married. i tend to keep away from him when i am angry and don't feel good about what he's doing. i would just ignore him and don't talk to him. when i am at the office, i don't answer his calls and sms, until my...

25 Sep 12

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drugs and love

jparenzee @jparenzee (7) • South Africa 14 Aug 12

I have been with this wonderful man for 5 yrs and we got engaged a month ago....My heart was broken last night when he revealed that he took drugs. All the hope of the future and dreams of a happy ever after is washed...

drugs

love

relationship

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churchill1980 in situations like that, when you don't know what you should do, i suggest, you just do the right thing. we all know that drug addiction is illegal, with that thought you could ask him to choose, whether to go to rehabilitation center or to jail. it is a...

23 Aug 12

Forgiving Someone That Hurt You

benjhusay @benjhusay (11) • Philippines 18 Aug 12

"If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart." In life there is a lesson to be learned in all of...

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churchill1980 i agree with what you've said, we should forgive the people who have hurt us in the past, it is not quiet hard to do, but forgetting is another thing. i don't want to forget the things and my mistakes in the past. so if the person is part of my mistake,i just...

23 Aug 12

Will you accept a call from the person you have broken and not in contact..?

srinivas326 @srinivas326 (59) • India 23 Aug 12

I have been in love with a girl. Due to some reasons wee broke up..:( We are not in contact for months. Suddenly i got a call yesterday from her, What I have to do.. I haven't attended the call. What to talk with her.? What will...

brak up

broken love

love

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churchill1980 if i were you, i would answer the call. in the first place you don't know why she called,it might be that she just want to ask how are you,or she might have some other things to consult with you. exchanging how are you's with an ex is just normal i think....

23 Aug 12

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Public display of affection: how can you say its too much ?

se7enthbird @se7enthbird (8307) • Philippines 14 Aug 12

As an adult i hate it when i am seeing teenagers especially wearing uniforms, kissing, hugging or sometimes fighting with each other ! It makes me mad because i am a parent also and i am like, why wont you go to school? or how...

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churchill1980 I am also a parent and like you, I really hate it when very young couple like on their high school making too much public display of affection. I mean, they should be in school and giving more attention on their life as students. I right away think about their...

15 Aug 12

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A 10mins phone conversation with ex bf...

itsmechelle @itsmechelle (114) 26 Jul 12

I had a hard time falling into sleep last night due to dizziness. While I was trying to fall asleep, my phone rang. I thought it was my co-worker calling, but then it was my ex-bf's name that appeared on my mobile's screen. I did...

call me maybe

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churchill1980 it is good to hear that you and your ex is having a good relationship despite the break up. i just wonder why he's calling you at that wee hour when he should have called someone else like her current girlfriend. But I think as long as that conversation won’t...

10 Aug 12

my girl friends happiness

buddik25 @buddik25 (21) 27 Jul 12

i love so much to my girl friend. she is so cute.i want to keep my girl friend happy forever. without crying ever. what should i do....

happy

my girl friend

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churchill1980 there is no other formula to make a girl happy than to treat her like a princess and make her feel well love and secure. love her more and she'll live a happy life everyday. never hurt her, for it will change the way she'd look at you. you may fall short of...

10 Aug 12

Art of Letting Go

itsmechelle @itsmechelle (114) 10 Aug 12

I'm no longer checking his FB account, unfriended and blocked him, no more connections with his family and I'm now thinking of changing my number. I think this is it. I just really wish that I will never ever see him with his new...

moving on

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churchill1980 Aaww, that’s sad. But I am glad that you are making ways to totally move on with your life. When I had a break up with my boyfriend in the past, I try to do what you’re doing now too. I tried everything to get rid of him, and to remember him no more. Changing...

10 Aug 12

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Why can't a mother take care of her 1-year-old son by herself?

Lee Ka @kaka135 (14931) • Malaysia 8 Aug 12

My cousin's husband is going on a business trip for two weeks, and my cousin needs her mum's help to take care of her 1-year-old son. During weekdays, the baby is being taken care of the babysitter during day time, and my cousin...

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churchill1980 I have two girls, the eldest is 8 years old and the youngest is 2 years. I was a single mom with the eldest, so I was alone in taking care of her when she was baby but when I got a job, she was 3 months old then, it was my mother and father who took the...

10 Aug 12

My husband lost his job today.

kris182_2000 @kris182_2000 (5469) • Canada 9 Aug 12

We were waiting for this to happen as the company was closing the plant and transferring to the Cambridge plant. They just weren't sure when this move was going to happen. They would have hired him on permanently, but the...

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churchill1980 i am sad that your husband lost his job. but i am praying he'll get one for good soon. it would be difficult if he won't have one for a long time. billings and food expenses won't stop coming whether or not we have job. i am praying for your family. and may...

9 Aug 12

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are you too dependent with your love partner?

missjahn @missjahn (4574) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

as to say, before when i do not want to see or to have a phone call to my boyfriend because i were resenting something towards him, but then came this necessity that forced me to communicate with him because i need this and that...

partner dependency

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churchill1980 i once become so dependent with someone, dependent with almost everything. from my work to decision making on pity things, and even on picking up a dead rat in my room. when he's gone, i have a hard time coping up with everything. i don't know where and how am...

2 Aug 12

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A second chance for a cheater?

gracie923 @gracie923 (162) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

I have a friend who has a long time boyfriend for almost 5 years. They both are like inseparable and so in love with each other.Until we knew last week the the guy is cheating our friend. She was so devastated and depressed, and I...

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churchill1980 once a cheater, always a cheater. you are right, he's capable of doing it no, he could still do it again. and more than the cheating, the torment of trust being broken is also hard to overcome. once your trust is lost for that certain person, you'll be having...

2 Aug 12

Against all odds

gracie923 @gracie923 (162) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

All of us were shocked by the decision of my friend to go live with an addict boyfriend whom she had relationships for just a month. We heard a lot of bad character of this guy but she seemed blinded by the love. Her mother...

life

love

relationship

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churchill1980 it's true that when your parents or the family do not approve of someone for you, you would just live a miserable life with that person. aside from the fact that parents' intuition about your partner are more likely to be correct, parents' blessings are also...

2 Aug 12

when you are angry and he just said nothing at all!

missjahn @missjahn (4574) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

it is just normal in a relationship to have misunderstanding sometimes. one may get angry or upset because of some reason. when he did something wrong, i will not react at first offense; but when doing it repeatedly, same or not...

emotions

love tiffs

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churchill1980 oh, that's my husband's way too when i burst out into anger!he would just keep silent. i seldom do it, because when there's something wrong, i don't nag, i just keep silent and don't talk to him. but when silence cannot do the trick, i burst out and tell him...

2 Aug 12

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What was the most romantic thing your loved one did for you?

barbiesacol88 @barbiesacol88 (202) • Philippines 1 Aug 12

Oh well, I'm always a romantic girl at heart. I gush over flowers and chocolates. Listen to mushy loves songs. That's why the book Fifty Shades of Grey was so popular to women not because or its eroticism, but because of the...

love

romantic

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churchill1980 my husband knows that i love to be surprise, and aside from giving me chocolates, flowers, breakfast in bed, and asking me for a date, surprise short trips, i think the sweetest thing he ever done was when he surprised me with flowers at the time i least...

2 Aug 12

How do you know when it's right?

altasmucker @altasmucker (13) • United States 1 Aug 12

I've been married twice and I can honestly say, both where partial mistakes. Partial cause I have 4 beautiful children I could never call mistakes as results of those marriages, however, the marriages themselves where not exactly...

true love

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churchill1980 our feelings are so changeable. it changes with our age and through times. many times i thought i was already in love, but when i think about it, and the guys i fell in love with right now, the feelings have change. i don't think about them romantically...

2 Aug 12

How many times someone has broken your heart?

velentina @velentina (891) • Mauritius 29 Jul 12

It is really painful to endure a broken heart. My friend is passing under this phase. She has a boyfriend who left her for another girl. This is the third time he has broken my friend's heart. My friend is very sad. I tried to...

heart

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churchill1980 aw, that's so sad. i had my heart broken for so many times, but each time, it only made me stronger and more mature. i look at the situation as advantage on my part. i do cry a lot whenever my heart is broke, i don't feel like getting up the bed, but it...

2 Aug 12

your big love is getting married...will u stop the wedding?^^

sweetloveforeve @sweetloveforeve (13120) • Portugal 29 Jul 12

hi guys imagine that you and the person you love broke up. some time later, you meet him again and he tells you he is getting married and you go to his bachelor party. that day he tells you he loves you and asks...

love

marry

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churchill1980 oh, i think i won't stop the wedding. he should be the one who'll decide whether or not he will pursue the wedding, this is to protect you. because saying i love is never enough, he should do something to show it and it is not only your duty to fight for the...

2 Aug 12