cindytao

@cindytao (38)

China • Age 38

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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President of the USA

hersheyskiss @hersheyskiss (761) • United States 30 Jan 08

Who do you think will make the better president?

president

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cindytao Sorry, I take little interest in politics.

30 Jan 08

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Meat, cheese and crackers anyone?

kykidd @kykidd (6812) • United States 30 Jan 08

Meat, cheese and crackers, that's what I am having for dinner tonight. I didn't feel like fixing anything and was in the mood for a snack. It turned out to be dinner as I have been snacking on it for the last 3 hours. Ever had...

life

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cindytao I usually make a dinner more heartier.As only in the evening I have enough time to prepare it .

30 Jan 08

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do you enjoy shopping?

marketing07 @marketing07 (6266) • South Korea 30 Jan 08

i love to go shopping...i fell relax to see many things at shopping centers...although i dont buy that much that is my way to relieve my stress..how about you?

shopping

shopping centers

stress

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cindytao Yes,I love shopping very much. Every time I go shopping, I always cannot resist to buy something I don't intend to buy before shopping. These colourful packages often appeal me.I see it's not a good habit.After my shopping, I find in fact that I don't need...

30 Jan 08

What Stress you out?

SheraD3 @SheraD3 (207) • United States 30 Jan 08

What's the biggest stress in your life right now?

life

stress

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cindytao Haven't enough money to pay the load I borrowed.

30 Jan 08

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Why do battered women stay with their husband?

Thomas73 @Thomas73 (1467) • Switzerland 8 Feb 07

This really amazes me. I know several women -- one of them being very close to my heart -- who are abused physically and mentally, beaten, humiliated, treated like absolute dirt -- and this even in front of their children! -- by...

abusive partner

battered women

marital violence

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cindytao I agree that some women choosed to stay for the sake of their children.At this time, most women acted more rational than men,maybe this will largely influence their children, but at least this can keep a whole family.I just got this idea from my aunt.

29 Jan 08

do you have a phobia?

Mylot member @patrice7 (1191) • United States 12 Dec 07

according to the DSM-IV-TR phobia is a persistent, irrational fear of a specific object, activity or situation that rsults in a compelling desire to avoid it. it may be mild, moderate or severe. i personally have a phobia which...

earthworm

phobia

psychology

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cindytao Many people may feel a phobia to snakes, spiders, rabits and some creatures like this. For example, my mother fear snakes very much, everytime when she saw it, her skin will feel very uncomfortable and heart will strikly fiercely. And my brother who ever was...

29 Jan 08

Grandma

shewolf52002 @shewolf52002 (1214) • United States 20 Jan 08

I was wondering how many people miss their grand parents? My great granmother died when I was 14 and we were really close. But over the past few years I think I have begun to feel her loss even more deeply than I did as a teen....

death

grandma

missing

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cindytao The past recollections accumalated when I spend with my grandfather always remind me of him and good virtues about him. As when he died I'm already a adult and can have the ability to judge and think something with rationality.So the relationship between I and...

28 Jan 08

Are you (were you ) close to you grandma ?

weemam @weemam (13372) 19 Feb 07

My granny had 10 of a family and we used to go every weekend and the grown ups would play cards ( for matches lol ) well into the small hours , As I grew older I used to go stay overnight with her , we had some great fun and I...

loved her so much

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cindytao Yes, the condition is the same with me.I always think it's easier to chat with my grandma than my mom. My grandma is inclinded to accept to listen to me and answer my curious questions with great patience than my parents do.

28 Jan 08

My teenage daughter is pregnant

madasp @madasp (563) • United States 23 Jan 08

to be quite honest i'm sick of people judging me when I talk about it in a positive light. Don't get me wrong, this is the last thing I wanted for my daughter, but it happened, baby's on the way (in april) and there is nothing I...

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cindytao You act so rationally as a parent when meeting this thing.I see your daughter is lucky and will afford less stress.God bless you and your incoming grandchild.

27 Jan 08

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My baby turned 1 year old today,

lilybug @lilybug (21107) • United States 23 Jan 08

My daughter turned 1 today. She got to open her presents from Grandma this morning. She got some little black dress shoes, some onesies, and a Dora outfit. She was so excited to open her gifts. It was so cute. She will be opening...

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cindytao Glad to hear that, maybe some forgetful photos should be shotted to remember this meaniful day. I always feel very grateful and moved for these pictures taken by my parents when I was very very young.

27 Jan 08

Jet Li's daughter,great dance

shengwen @shengwen (18) • China 24 Jan 08

Jet Li's precious daughter,6-year-old has won two National Dance Championship,and has won many overseas competitions,she also show performing Latin dance,the audience cheered enthusiastically. Li said that his daughter likes to...

jet lis daughter likes dance

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cindytao Harmony contributes this.

27 Jan 08

your father

mscongeniality @mscongeniality (110) • Canada 25 Jan 08

what if your father left your family for another woman and it hurts you so much coz you loved and pity your mother for the pain that your father gave her and to your family. that this pain makes you hate him very much... will you...

father

hatred

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cindytao I have a perfect and harmony family.But if this terrible thing happens and father comes back after his betray,I will forgive him in a dauther's side,but cannot forgive him for the hurt to my mother.Whether accecpting him will large depends on mother's...

27 Jan 08

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My daughter is hurting and I am hurting for her (Ladies Only Please)

SheliaLee @SheliaLee (2736) • United States 14 Jul 07

I wasn't sure whether to start this discussion or not. But this has been a bad day and I need input and support from my friends. My daughter has been going for several months now to a local flea market selling her BeautiControl....

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cindytao I'm sorry to hear that.It seems that daugher always need more attention and anxiety from mother.My mother always worrys about my safety problem outside.Luckily nothing terrible happened, god bless every kind mother and lovely daughter.

27 Jan 08

Sandwich generation

JanisRemaxRealtor @JanisRemaxRealtor (432) • United States 26 Jan 08

Yesterday I took my father to the hospital to get a blood check, then to the store. As I left his house, I had an overwhelming feeling of guilt. I usually only go over there when he has a doctor appointment and almost never, just...

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cindytao Your discussion reminds me of my grandmother miles away from me.My grandparents spent almost 60 years together since they're married.But last year my grandfather died, my father and uncle advised my grandmother to live with them. But my grandmother refused for...

27 Jan 08

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daughter is close-----heart to heart

nikki0607 @nikki0607 (75) • China 26 Jan 08

I often have a talk with my boyfriend about which kid to choose, boys or girls in the future? As a result, we all choose girls . Because daughters are always smooth, and they know how to communicate with their parents ....

daughter

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cindytao I see you are not come from an Asian country,despite the mordern times, there are still feudal sense exsisting in my country especailly in the countryside. They pay more attention to boys than girls. One of my friends has many sisters, and he is the youngest...

27 Jan 08

How old is too old to be having kids?

isabelwhitaker @isabelwhitaker (10) • United States 31 Oct 07

My personal # is 35. I heard that the risk for mom and baby go up after 35. But I know that a lot of women are putting it off further and further. Is that safe?

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cindytao But there is one point we cannot deny,the risk for great aged preganant moms is higher than those young ones.So I think if you have the plan having kids.35 or a little older is a suitable age.

1 Nov 07