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citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 9 Jan 08

What a mess I am in now, a while back I posted a post thinking I had found some one who truly loved me. I had known the man for over twenty years. What I didn't know was the man was a full pledge Alcohol, with phyciatric problems...

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citygirl hi, I guess I wasn't clear enough , I have three kids but they are all grown up. I only have one living at home and she is going to be twenty in a month and goes to college and works, so I have no little ones to worry about. I probably will have to go the...

10 Jan 08

citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 9 Jan 08

What a mess I am in now, a while back I posted a post thinking I had found some one who truly loved me. I had known the man for over twenty years. What I didn't know was the man was a full pledge Alcohol, with phyciatric problems...

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citygirl prefer discussion group thanks.

10 Jan 08

citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 9 Jan 08

What a mess I am in now, a while back I posted a post thinking I had found some one who truly loved me. I had known the man for over twenty years. What I didn't know was the man was a full pledge Alcohol, with phyciatric problems...

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citygirl Have you actually read my post. I don't love him as a man, but feel sorry for him almost like a mother. He is not the person for me. He can't be improved he needs help that he won't get. I was asking for advise on how to get him to stop stalking me and leave...

10 Jan 08

citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 9 Jan 08

What a mess I am in now, a while back I posted a post thinking I had found some one who truly loved me. I had known the man for over twenty years. What I didn't know was the man was a full pledge Alcohol, with phyciatric problems...

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citygirl If you read the above you will see I have already done all of that and more just at whits end. Now know the man is crazy .

10 Jan 08

citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 9 Jan 08

What a mess I am in now, a while back I posted a post thinking I had found some one who truly loved me. I had known the man for over twenty years. What I didn't know was the man was a full pledge Alcohol, with phyciatric problems...

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citygirl Thanks , I know he is a timebomb. I have already spoke to professionals at an addiction and mental health clinic. They too think he is a time bomb and their advice is to call the police. I guess I am to soft hearted probably for my own good. You see other than...

10 Jan 08

citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 9 Jan 08

What a mess I am in now, a while back I posted a post thinking I had found some one who truly loved me. I had known the man for over twenty years. What I didn't know was the man was a full pledge Alcohol, with phyciatric problems...

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citygirl I have tryed all that, even set up an appointment, he didn't go. Got him all the AA info,he said he wanted help, then later says he doesn't need help. He is totally unstable and Idon't know what to do.I had no idea he was a simple as he is or as obsessed, or...

10 Jan 08

citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 9 Jan 08

What a mess I am in now, a while back I posted a post thinking I had found some one who truly loved me. I had known the man for over twenty years. What I didn't know was the man was a full pledge Alcohol, with phyciatric problems...

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citygirl All of the above have already been done. Even gave him copys of when all the AA meeting locally are. Have talked ,and he is obsessed ,can't get through to him no how no way. Public place, lol lol, I can't go public or even in my home,or my work as he won't...

10 Jan 08

citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 9 Jan 08

What a mess I am in now, a while back I posted a post thinking I had found some one who truly loved me. I had known the man for over twenty years. What I didn't know was the man was a full pledge Alcohol, with phyciatric problems...

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citygirl I actually have done all of that, But I just hate to have to call the cops because it makes me feel like I am calling the cops on a kid. Being drunk non stop for the last number of weeks has made his mind even more foggy than just the simpleness had. I just...

10 Jan 08

citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 9 Jan 08

What a mess I am in now, a while back I posted a post thinking I had found some one who truly loved me. I had known the man for over twenty years. What I didn't know was the man was a full pledge Alcohol, with phyciatric problems...

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citygirl First there was no hormone factor as I never slept with the man. Simply dated him and spent time with him. Out of the two months I saw him he managed to stay sober three weeks as I said and a lot of the other times he was drunk, I wasn't aware. We weren't...

9 Jan 08

foxyfire33 @foxyfire33 (10005) • United States 5 Jan 08

I just heard some upsetting and sad news. I don't know many details yet but a student at my old high school (my daughter is still at the elementary school there) committed suicide IN SCHOOL yesterday morning! He was a senior and...

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citygirl hi not sure where in Canada you live, but did you not read in the papers about Jordan Manners being shot in school here in toronto. And the one a while back out on the west coast. Nope because of the gun laws there aren't as many shootings in the schools, just...

5 Jan 08

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citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 4 Nov 06

What time is it where you live and where do you live

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citygirl Thanks lol. I was trying to find the time difference between Ont. Canada and where other my lotters were guess I worded it wrong . Happy new year to you.

3 Jan 08

citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 2 Jan 07

Do you work a combination of shift, or straight day? Do you find the changing of shifts hard ? I worked evenings for many years and found it hard to adjust to days. I now work 9 to 5 and love it now that I am used to it. How about...

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citygirl Thanks for your response. I now work straight days thank goodness. Happy new year to you and your loved ones

3 Jan 08

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citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 1 Jan 08

Help everyone advise needed seriously here. I have a person I have known for about 20 years and thought I knew fairly well. Boy was I wrong! We started to develope a romance but I discovered that I didn't know him really very well...

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citygirl Sounds like you are discribing this guy to a t. If I try to help from a far I know it is no help yet a huge part (my brain) says no way, stay a way the soft part is the heart that is foolish lol . thanks you hit it dead on with your discription.

2 Jan 08

citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 1 Jan 08

Help everyone advise needed seriously here. I have a person I have known for about 20 years and thought I knew fairly well. Boy was I wrong! We started to develope a romance but I discovered that I didn't know him really very well...

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citygirl Thanks, I know all the things and places he needs to start if he wants to stop. just not sure what action or inaction I should take.

2 Jan 08

citygirl @citygirl (1080) • Canada 1 Jan 08

Help everyone advise needed seriously here. I have a person I have known for about 20 years and thought I knew fairly well. Boy was I wrong! We started to develope a romance but I discovered that I didn't know him really very well...

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citygirl not sure that he is willing to accept help from meas a friend. yep I have known him over 20 years but was only seeing him for an hour or so , thus I had left before he got into heavy drinking. By the way he doesn't have the facial features of a heavy drinker....

2 Jan 08

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