confusedheart

@confusedheart (207)

Philippines • Age 35

Joined myLot 17 years ago

longing...for you

Responses (137)

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Do you like or hate backstabbing someone?

lonely_f16 @lonely_f16 (2146) • Philippines 23 May 07

I personally do not like it especially when the person is not doing anything bad but if I am just sharing my view of that person with another person then that's really different from backstabbing isn't it? How about you? do you...

backstabbing

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confusedheart i hate backstabbers. if i have a problem with someone or if i noticed that the person has an irritating attitude, i try to confront him and resolve the problem privately. backstabbers are unworthy of trust. i hate and will never be one

23 May 07

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do you brush ur teeth

neelampatel007 @neelampatel007 (771) • India 23 May 07

do you brush your teeth daily? which toothpaste do u use? i use colgate

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confusedheart i guess everybody should. i mean, it is a part of our daily hygiene right?

23 May 07

If you can get anything from "Doraemon", what will you want most?

jib1977 @jib1977 (43) • Thailand 14 May 07

Only one thing. This can tell what you really are...

magic

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confusedheart a time machine! that way if i did a blunder and wish to correct it i will be able to. there are so many things in the past that you know, i regret and if only i had the power to take it back

14 May 07

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do you still believe in courtship?

zer0charly @zer0charly (5614) • Philippines 9 May 07

its funny to hear my grandmother and my parents stories when they were still young..they always told me that if a guy likes a girl,he should first court her and made some sacrifices..(serenades them,doing some household...

courtship

tradition

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confusedheart i do believe in courtship too. it's one way of knowing if the guy is sincere and honest. plus you get to know each other and with this you can decide if you want each other or not. it is a way of developing a good relationship kaila

10 May 07

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valentines what did u do tht was diff from last years valentines

go4amitshah @go4amitshah (1005) • India 10 May 07

me i cud nt celebrate it with my gal as she is abroad

love

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confusedheart my last valentines day was slightly different from the last because during that day I cried so hard. my boyfriend and I decided to call it quits 4 days before valentines day and it was so painful for me. before my valentines were just lonely because no one's...

10 May 07

Hardest Decision?

go4amitshah @go4amitshah (1005) • India 10 May 07

What is the hardest decision you have ever had to make? I studying module in Social work and i dicoverde that in the profession of Social Work, we have to make difficult decision everyday such as abortion, adoption, difficult...

life

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confusedheart the hardest decision that i made was to choose between my mom and dad. they got separated see and i have to choose on which side to stay. it was really difficult because i love them both and i feel that one will be angry if i choose the other. i was really...

10 May 07

What do you want your best friend to do for you?

dsuesue @dsuesue (180) • China 8 May 07

I hope she will encourage me when I'm at a hard time, that's enough.

people

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confusedheart if she can, i want her to open her problems to me so that i can help her

8 May 07

guys vs girls as friends

justnikkihere @justnikkihere (107) • Australia 8 May 07

I have always been more prone to being friends with guys for the simple fact that they are straight up with you. I love my girlfriends but i hated the fact that if they had a problem with you, they would go behind your back and...

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confusedheart i like guys as a friend too than girls. mainly because they are much fun to be with since they have thrills in life. you know whenever girls hang out they just go to mall gossiping or talking about the latest fashion. when boys hang out, they do exciting stuff...

8 May 07

What made you decide to have (or not to have) a tattoo?

mylesnarvaez @mylesnarvaez (5451) • Philippines 7 May 07

Do you have a tattoo? Which part/s of your body has/have a tattoo? Who/What influenced you to have a tattoo? I know that several discussions on tattoos have appeared in mylot already. But I'll ask this one anyway coz i just dug...

butterfly image on henna

henna

tattoos

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confusedheart i love tattoos but since i am still a student i can't have a permanent tattoo. i have always been fascinated by tattoos, piercings and other 'boyish' stuff even though i am a girl. maybe it is because of my father's appreciation to art that he rubbed some of...

8 May 07

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If ever you had a chance to NAME yourself, what would it be?(",)

lani0529 @lani0529 (1722) • Philippines 29 Apr 07

I'm just curious, do you like your name or would you rather change it? Since, we are not the one who named us but our parents and other relatives, this is your chance to share what name you would like to have.(",) I like my...

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confusedheart my name is kaila and somehow i feel that my name is too simple. somehow i like it though. i find out that people can play with my name and give different nick names depending on how they perceive me to be. i love it when a person calls me 'kai' because i found...

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How did you get your first name?

jbelle @jbelle (912) • Philippines 8 May 07

My real name is Joan Belle it was given by my parents, my dad's name is Jun and my mom's name is Isabelle they combine it so i was then given a name which is Joan Belle. And my nick name is beauty, Im not that beautiful but when...

name

nick name

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confusedheart my real name is kaila milos. people think that milos is my surname because it is not a common name here in the Philippines. my initials K.M were from an activist anti-government here back in the 70's. my first name kaila is from a song that was quite famous...

8 May 07

Anger Management

miamilatte2006 @miamilatte2006 (231) • United States 8 May 07

Have you ever reached a point where things and people in life have upset you so much until you feel like you have totally lost control? How beneficial do you think anger management is for a person that has a really bad temper?

anger

mad

management

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confusedheart there was one time when my parents were in the process of separation my emotions got so strong and i forgot to control the anger that build up inside me. my parents were having a confrontational fight back then on who will keep us. because of my anger,...

8 May 07

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choose: SHOULDER BAGS or BACKPACK?

nengs10 @nengs10 (3180) • Philippines 7 May 07

When you were still in school, what do you prefer? Why?

backpacks

bags

shoulder

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confusedheart i still prefer shoulder bags because it is small and compact unlike big bulky back packs. now in college i don't use shoulder bags often. i use sling bags

7 May 07

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what do you remind of your first crush?

uditrastogi @uditrastogi (34) • India 1 May 07

here i want to know and share with all you guys about your and mine first ever crush in life. for me it was a girl living next door to me. i remind that we were good friends and she was too beautiful but now i don't know where she...

love

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confusedheart it was my classmate back in kindergarten. i remember he borrowed a pencil from me then. i let him borrow my extra pencil but then my own pencil broke and i had to take back what i lent him. so i went to his seat and i demanded that he give me back my pencil....

6 May 07

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WHITE ROSE or RED ROSE?

blue_gemz @blue_gemz (107) • Philippines 4 May 07

if you will going to recieve from your especial someone wt would it be? a red rose, an all time fvorite... or white rose? and why? other people say that that if someone gave you white rose it means the he/she has a good...

special someone

white rose

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confusedheart red roses for me are more passionate in a sense. 'cause that's love for me, see? passionate in a sense that you have this overwhelming surge of emotion that burns inside you every time you look into the eyes of your loved one... and the pain that you feel...

6 May 07

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What's true love??

aseemkhan @aseemkhan (218) 5 May 07

What's true love and how does a person really know when their in love?? I found this topic interesting, cause like they say, love attacks all ages, not only adults....

love

true

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confusedheart true love for me will never be selfish and never be ashamed. no matter what happens you will give what is needed by your partner even if it means you have to sacrifice the things that will make you happy. it will never be ashamed to tell the world of its...

6 May 07

Have you try loving someone who doesnt love you back....

cheenlly @cheenlly (3476) • Philippines 5 May 07

i have seen this happen from movies and tv series. Does it really happens in real lives? Do you know someone who have tried loving someone who doesnt love you back? or is it you have experienced it? How does it feel? What did you...

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confusedheart it happened to me once. he was my friend before but my feelings developed for him. i was totally, madly, head over heels in love with him. i did everything that he asked me to do even though he did not appreciate those things that i did for him. worse, he...

6 May 07

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