creativemind755

@creativemind755 (400)

United States • Age 54

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Hurting so much...how do you harden your heart for good?

DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

hurt

relationships

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creativemind755 I feel your pain, Designing. I completely understand where u're coming from. I think that the excruciating pain makes MOST of us, at some point, want 2 NOT "want" anymore, because it can simply be 2 much 2 bear. But, I don't think u can ever NOT "want"! We're...

13 Sep 07

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Converting Others to Your Religious Beliefs

DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 18 May 07

Why do people do this? What is the purpose of it? Does a person gain "points" or "gold stars" on some unseen scorecard for each person he can enlist into his own belief system? Why do some religions try to do this when others...

what is the purpose for converting others

witchcraft

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creativemind755 Basically, MOST of us like 4 others 2 AGREE with our views on ANY and EVERYTHING! And so it is, with religion as well! But, even DEEPER than THAT, I feel that the ROOT of this is that most people don't fully ACCEPT themselves, and there-4, they can't really...

10 Jun 07

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would you tell your man what his mother said about him if it was bad???

Gorgeous24 @Gorgeous24 (1091) • United States 9 Jun 07

Okay my man and his mother havent been gettin along that great these past few years, so when she calls my house she always talks to me and then she rambles on about how her son is doing this wrong and that wrong BUT the problem Im...

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creativemind755 Hey Christyl, I know how it feels 2 be caught "in the middle" like this. I haven't had a woman's parent saying bad things about her 2 ME, but I HAVE had a friend's girlfriend tell me things about him that weren't so nice, and I almost felt like I was...

10 Jun 07

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Judgemental??

fallenangelteegra @fallenangelteegra (235) • United States 12 May 07

Why must we as a society be so judgemental about each other. People judge each other on looks, status, and monitary items! Why cant we all learn to just be non critical of everyone else's faults? Why don't we turn the judgement...

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creativemind755 There may be several reasons why we're such a judgemental society, but I think the MAIN reason is because MOST of us don't accept OURSELVES the way we are! I don't believe u can accept ANOTHER, WHOLEHEARTEDLY, until u accept YOURSELF 1ST! I think it stems...

9 Jun 07

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Do you believe everything you are told...

Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 8 Jun 07

When it comes to the news rather it be newspaper or television? OR do you do your own "reaserch" and look for the truth? I think a good exapmle of this would be global warming. We are hearing on the news all the time about how...

believing the media

newsstories

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creativemind755 There was a line in the movie, "The Player's Club", that said, "NEVER trust anyone ELSE's information over your OWN"! 2 ME, words 2 live by! I NEVER take ANYTHING at "face value"! EVERYONE is BIASED, so u always have 2 take THAT into...

8 Jun 07

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Why do men always have a new woman lined up before they leave current one?

DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 8 Jun 07

Maybe it is just that I have only seen a narrow view, but every man I have known as a friend, coworker, or been involved with, has had a new fling going - someone waiting in the wings before he makes the move to leave current wife...

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creativemind755 Actually, I've known women who are like this as well. I don't believe it's gender specific. Having someone ELSE "lined up", 4 ANYONE, is just a convenient way of NEVER having 2 be ALONE, and deal with whatever is going on inside of u. The fact that the...

8 Jun 07

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Why do women USUALLY blame the other woman?

djmarion @djmarion (4898) • Philippines 13 May 07

Why do women USUALLY blame the other woman when they discover their man has cheated on them? i think not all the fault are from the other party. what is you opinion?

mistress

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creativemind755 I don't think it's JUST women who do this! MEN do this also! So, I don't think it's relegated 2 just 1 gender! The ROOT of all of this is INSECURITY, and FEAR! Fear of looking at the REAL ISSUES! An insecure woman would rather be in DENIAL, and blame...

8 Jun 07

share your talents with me

AcousticSoul @AcousticSoul (1309) • United States 7 Jun 07

Everyone one has a talent and some are gifted with many... I can blow (sing) its a passion and a gift share with me one of your most gifted talents...

gifts

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creativemind755 I c we have MUSIC in common, 'cuz I sing a little myself! But my STRONGEST musical "gifts" are composing (I play keyboards, and put tracks 2-gether), and lyrics (I've ALWAYS been "gifted" with the pen)! I can also dance and ACT! People that know me...

7 Jun 07

Heart VS Mind

bluishrose @bluishrose (2289) • Philippines 6 Jun 07

There's always a debate between your heart and your mind, which one do you listen to? do you always follow what your heart says or follow what is right as what your mind dictates?

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creativemind755 I'm a very MENTAL person, so I'm always ANALYZING EVERYTHING, weighing the "pros and cons" of EVERY situation. BUT, in the END, regardless of what "logic" says, I go with how I FEEL about something, so I'm more of a HEART person! Actually, I'd say more...

6 Jun 07

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Love....

Linzelite @Linzelite (58) • United States 6 Jun 07

Ugh relationships! Me and my ex (who I have a child with) will be great for like a couple of months then we take a break, but a couple weeks later were running back into eachothers arms and doing it all over again! I love him with...

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creativemind755 U said u've been with your man 8 years, on and off, and u're only 26. Well, 2 ME, it sounds like u keep going back and 4th with this guy, because he's either the MAIN relationship u've had in your life, or the ONLY 1 (u can tell me if I'm wrong in my...

6 Jun 07

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