debraacarter

@debraacarter (8)

United States • Age 60

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The tie that binds

debraacarter @debraacarter (8) • United States 25 Jan 13

We are born into a family consisting of parent(s) and possibly brothers and sister. you grow up together, experiences are somewhat similar and you all are exposed to similar things. What goes wrong when some of those people who...

bond

siblings

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Hard times teach us to be Humble

Archie0 @Archie0 (5652) 25 Jan 13

Lately i saw so many talking about how life can be even in our bad times. And reading those discussion topics, makes me feel so sunken in heart and weak in knees. And then i smile. I look back what all i have lost in my life apart...

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debraacarter Yes, hard times do humble us. I have lost people close to me, either in death or just in relationship form. It makes me sad when I see someone who has experience loss of loved ones. It is good to have good decent people whose around to comfort you while you...

25 Jan 13

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how can you tell if your friend is loyal

pachuchay @tipay26 (867) • Philippines 16 Jan 13

I have been thinking about this ever since.I have friends whom I've known since elementary and we use to go to the same school during high school.It was fun and cool we got along really well.But my question is how can we tell if...

fake friend

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debraacarter Being a loyal friend is very important. It goes both ways. Some people view friendship in different ways. Just because you are loyal in your relationship with a friend does not mean they are going to be. What you have to do is observe the person and the way...

25 Jan 13

Runaway Won't Solve Anything

shion13 @shion13 (85) • Indonesia 12 Dec 12

all of us humans must have something called 'problems' which is different from each other. sometimes we meet people with similar problems too, with different range of people. when we got hurt because of the problems we have, it...

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debraacarter Running away from problems and situations doesnt make things any better. Eventually you are going to be faced with a new set of problems. Facing them head on may be a good idea. At least you are dealing with what is troubling you. In some cases the problem is...

25 Jan 13

Reality shows are real ?

wishjui @wishjui (271) • India 8 Jan 13

Friends do you think that reality shows are real or scripted? we get carried away with these shows,sometimes catch fights between friends and family members.We start supporting different reality show characters,but is it...

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debraacarter As far as Reality shows, I feel they are exaggerated at times. But over all some of them are ok. I think that some of them are script. Maybe that is what makes some of the worth watching. Im not a fan of those programmings but I do catch a glimps of them from...

24 Jan 13

What do you think of healthy people begging for money?

pahak627 @pahak627 (4558) • Philippines 23 Jan 13

In our place, there are lots of people asking for money in the streets who look healthy and well. I observed that some people whom they asked money from won't give them with comments that these beggars should work in order to earn...

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debraacarter Looks can be deceiving. Just because a person look healthy and abled-body doesnt make it so. For instance, I wear a smile on my face a lot, even though I have things unpleasant going on in my life. Therefore, others assume I live a happy fulfilled life. There...

24 Jan 13

Me, Myself & I

debraacarter @debraacarter (8) • United States 24 Jan 13

Being yourself is the best way to be. Why? That means you are real, one of a kind, and true to yourself. If I have to be other than me, then I am who and what others want me to be. Is that being real? No, I dont think so. When I...

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How would you deal with people who are always NEGATIVE?

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 24 Jan 13

It is easy to say that you should stay away from people who are always negative but what if they are part of your family? How are you going to deal with them if that is the case? How were you able to fight and control this aspect...

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debraacarter When it comes to negative people, you have to ignore them sometimes. By this I mean let what they say go in one ear and out the other. Some may sound negative because so much is going on in their life and they feel the need to get it out. Just because...

24 Jan 13