desty_1

@desty_1 (26)

United States • Age 50

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Do you give you kids nick names?

Lifez2short @Lifez2short (4962) • United States 29 May 07

I have 5 kids four of which live with me. In order they are Kimberly (kimmy) Eryk (bean) Emily (em) Synthia (syn-syn) and Angel (boobah).So I was wondering if anyone else gives there kids nick names? And if so do you call them by...

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desty_1 We call both our boys Bubba. My wife has two brothers and they called each other Bubba and she was called Sissie. When I get them both up close, I call them my little bear. :)

29 May 07

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Do you bring it home?

arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 28 May 07

When your workday is over and you get home.. are you still thinking about what happened at work during the day? If there were any problems or things that bothered you, do you bring them home with you and allow them to stay in your...

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desty_1 I'm a trucking dispatcher. I have to keep information in my head and recall it at a moments notice, as well as keep that information fresh for months at a time. The biggest problem that I notice is that I forget small things at home. I can remember what...

29 May 07

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poor people are happier than the rich ones. AGREE?

mskzalameda @mskzalameda (4023) • Philippines 20 May 07

Poor are more happier than the rich. problem of the poor: where will I get my money to buy food, where will I get money for the bills, where will I get money for my children's allowance, daily expenses etc.. in short MONEY is...

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desty_1 I disagree. Everyone has their own problems, rich or poor. Not being rich or poor, its hard to understand and can only have empathy. A poor person's problem may be that they wonder where the next meal for their children will come from. A rich person's problem...

28 May 07

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Bad effects of Weight Lifting and Building Shoulders?

lakshyamadhu23 @lakshyamadhu23 (2107) • India 19 Apr 07

Is weight lifting especially for shoulders harmful? cuz I saw the 'rotator cuff' in the shoulders can get damaged in shoulder exercises and stuff like bench press etc. if someone's stuff is damaged, u think it can be...

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desty_1 Like any exercise, if you don't warm up and use good form, it could hurt you. The shoulders are the most vulnerable due to the rotator cuff. Another thing that people don't really see when into shoulder training, you need to develop all three delts (front,...

25 May 07

HOW TO get a BIG BICEPS?

alpha1000 @alpha1000 (237) • Egypt 11 Feb 07

for who is intersted in weight lifting and vigorous exercises i like this sport so much but i have a little problem it is my biceps,i need to increase it in size if anyone know special exercises to make it big quickly please...

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desty_1 Try compound exercises that work your biceps. Under-handed pull downs and pullups are awesome. Pre-exhaust the biceps 1st with barbell curls, throw in pullups, then finish them with 1 arm cable curls to failure. Work them once a week and you should see some...

25 May 07

how to increase your deadlifts?

devosam5 @devosam5 (34) • India 18 Mar 07

Please Help Me. I'm Unable To Increase My Deadlifts Beyond 120 Kg. I Would Like To Recieve Advise On Increasing My Lower Back Power Too!Hoping To Get A Great Reply!

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desty_1 Where are you failing at? What part of the lift can you not get past? My grip is my weakest point, so I use straps. I go for 6 reps and use 3 sets, so when I hit the 3rd set, there are times when I can't even get the weight off the ground. Try partial reps...

25 May 07

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Calling a child by their middle name

dragonokiefly @dragonokiefly (862) • United States 25 May 07

Why do parents name their children one thing and then call them by their middle name? A friend's sister had a baby she named Destiny Taylor and called her Taylor. Why in the heck didn't they just name the child that in the first...

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naming your child

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desty_1 The darling little boy in my avatar is my son, William Matthew. Our 1st son's name is Michael Dale. We Michael goes by Michael, but we use Matthew instead of William. My wife and I wanted our son's to have biblical names. I got to name Michael (Michael is my...

25 May 07

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If you caught your partner cheating

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 25 May 07

If you caught your partner cheating with another woman or man, would you divorce or leave him/her? Would you forgive? Under what circumstances would you forgive? I know if I found my partner cheating it would devastate...

cheating on your partner

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desty_1 I'm pretty easy going, but in all seriousness, I would totally try to beat the hell out of the guy. I say try, because I really don't think I could do anything at all, I would be in shock. It would go beyond hurt. Heck, I'm kinda at a loss as to what to write...

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How did you meet your other half?

krayzee @krayzee (1160) • Romania 25 May 07

Did you know there and then that you were meant for each other or you needed more time? Or maybe he or she needed more time? :) I've always been interested in stories of how people met :) My favorite one is a story I heard of...

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desty_1 My story is strange. The 1st time I met the lady who would become my wife. I was an assistant director and actor in an alumni play at my high school. One of my roommates was also an actor and brought his girlfriend to introduce her. I had never met her, but...

25 May 07

is it true that u'll get fat when you stop from gym exercise?

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 21 May 07

im away from my home now because classes will already nearly resume so i had to stop going to the gym.im afraid i'll get fat now since mostof my friends who stpped working out now develops yucky bellies.hope you guys can provide...

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desty_1 Just because you stop going to the gym doesn't mean that you'll get fat. When you exercise, you are burning extra calories, building muscle, and improving your flexibilty. Depending on how long between gym visits, if you are into serious weight lifting or...

22 May 07

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We should learn to say "No". Its not bad if you say a "No" at times

kukkad @kukkad (511) • India 22 May 07

Some people just do not know how to say "No". I have this guy in my office who would say a yes to everything he is told to do. Give him whatever work....... he would say a yes to it......... no matter he is capable of doing it or...

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desty_1 I have to say there should be two different levels to this question. Being able to say no in general is totally different from saying no at work. I admit that I do have a hard time saying no to my wife; I'm easy going, she's strong willed. Now, when work gets...

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do you spank the little ones for their wrongdoing? is it proper to do so?

rojane @rojane (500) • Philippines 22 May 07

when your kids or your nephews, nieces or other little ones commit mistake, is it just okay to spank them? or do you just talk to them and explain that what they did is bad? i have a niece and a nephew in our house and i know...

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desty_1 I have two sons, 3 years old and 8 months old. The 8 month old is too young to correct; you take him out of the situation, pick him up, feed him, change him, or put him to bed. The 3 year old knows exactly what he's doing. I try, more times than not, to...

22 May 07

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Sanin

demonicprince03 @demonicprince03 (9) • Philippines 25 Mar 07

Whom among the three sanin do you think is the strongest? Jiraiya? Tsunade? or Orochimaru?

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desty_1 I think its a three way tie. Jiraiya could beat Tsunade, but not Orochimaru. Tsunade could beat Orochimaru, but not Jiraiya. Orochimaru could beat Jiraiya, but not Tsunade. I think it has to do with their summoned creatures and what they stand for in...

22 May 07

What do you think Sasuke will do after he finally kills Itachi?

naruto6hokage @naruto6hokage (23) • United States 22 May 07

I think that right after sasuke kills him he will splurt out a Loud evil laugh and have a great feeling of accomplishment. Then he will go on to revive his clan with Karin since she'll be the closest girl around him or go back to...

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desty_1 I think he'll wonder is that it. He's done horrible, terrible things, all to silence the demons inside. And while killing Itachi will be a short-term fix, I think either he'll kill himself over what he's done, or he'll become worse than Itachi ever was.

22 May 07

Everlasting queen - please give your views

kimmi_2007 @kimmi_2007 (7) 9 May 07

I am only 17 years old and i absoulutly love queen. My favourite all time song by queen is 'it's a kind of magic.' I would love to hear other people's views about Queen so let me hear from you!!!!

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desty_1 Hate to say this, but I discovered Queen back when Wayne's World came out. I couldn't believe that there was a song like Bohemian Rapesdy (spelling?). I got the Classic Queen albumn and the Greatest Hits. I was hooked. Great songs all around. We Will Rock You,...

22 May 07