djaboo32

@djaboo32 (45)

United States • Age 48

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Who knows Russians?

Nikodim @Nikodim (7) • Russian Federation 10 Mar 07

What do you know about Russia and its residents? Do you really suppose, that Russia is very cold and the only animal here is white bear? If so, i can tell you that you are a victim of banal stereotypes.

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djaboo32 I was a a Russian studnet for 3 years n high school at a time when it was still the Soviet Repblic and Gorbachev was president- zdracvete! doc vi dania! -- I understand that now the society is lot more free and no longer communist-- My friends visited while we...

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Being black in America

queenajasmina @queenajasmina (449) • United States 30 Jan 07

I recently responded to a discussion on here of someone who said they were proud to be white. I felt that that was great. He was standing up for his culture and proclaiming what he felt was true. Then he went on to say how America...

america

black

black movies

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djaboo32 I do not understand why people feel like we should not have a BET, black history month,etc.... do you also want the Latino's to give up the latino channels and Cinco de Mayo, etc... or is it because there are distinction between black and white that upset you?...

15 Mar 07

Any ideas on preventing diaper rash?

GuateMom @GuateMom (1411) • Canada 8 Mar 07

My son gets the worst diaper rashes and they don´t go away for ages. They start off like a regular rash and eventually form sores that must really hurt. I´ve tried letting him run around without a diaper, using only water to wash...

diaper rash

prevention

treatment

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djaboo32 Use pure cornstarch on his bottom right after bathtime and in between diaper changes.

9 Mar 07

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Polygamy

sweetrose @sweetrose (137) • Philippines 8 Jan 07

What's your reaction about polygamy? Some religion tolerate. Do we really need sometimes to have more than 1 wife?

polygamy

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djaboo32 Just don't do it. How many men in this country or any country can be a good husband to more than one wife? I mean really, most men can't seem to do right by one wife. And even when a man has more than one wife, is his thirst ever fully quenched? Another...

8 Mar 07

Have you ever fallen asleep while at work?

Rexy_leigh @Rexy_leigh (1189) • Philippines 7 Mar 07

Ok. I admit there were really times I've fallen asleep in my workplace before, especially when I wasn't involved with mylot yet. There were even times when my colleague laughed at me coz I sometimes do some little snoring.. lol...

sleeping

sleeping while at work

taking a nap

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djaboo32 Yes, I have- I have fallen asleep at my desk, in meetings, on the phone, my boss has caught me, and I have taken the liberty to even go to bathroom and take power naps. Praise GOD for coffee- I don't do any of that anymore!

8 Mar 07

have you ever dated someone you met through text meesage or internet chat?

fianne @fianne (1057) • United States 8 Mar 07

i met my second boyfriend through internet chatting. of course we are of the same race. but since it was on internet, we felt like we knew each other for a long time. but when we are personally togethr, it felt different as if i...

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djaboo32 This would be ny greates fear- that I would really enjoy talking to the person on the internet, but then when we met- there would be sheer emptiness. This is why I fear internet dating- or any blind dates/ hook-ups.

8 Mar 07

difference between black and white in the south.....

Joey322 @Joey322 (272) • United States 7 Mar 07

i was raised in the Northern US. where i come from i had many black (african american) friends and schoolmates. there never seemed a seperation. we were all just "people" and friends. we just moved and have lived in the REAL...

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djaboo32 JOEY322- this is deep deep in the weeds and souls of the south- Blacks have been mistreated for so long in that area- and have been faced with so many injustices- they have learned to become really communal and trusting of one another only. Especially with the...

7 Mar 07

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interacial dating

blkbarbeeintx @blkbarbeeintx (22) • United States 29 Jan 07

is it for you or not?

race

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djaboo32 Definitely!

7 Mar 07

Are Biracial Relationships okay? Or should Whites stay with Whites?

AZmomof3boys @AZmomof3boys (94) • United States 25 Dec 06

Is it okay for a white woman to marry a black man? What about a white man and a black woman? How does it make you feel when you see them? What are your first thoughts? Do you think to yourself "what does she see in him"? Do...

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djaboo32 You know what-I can honestly say that I have had all of those thoughts at one point or another. But I have to also say that as a black woman- I have no color barriers- I will date/marry white, hispanic, indian, asia, etc.... As long as we are of equal mindsets...

7 Mar 07

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if your biracial do you have to pick a side?

cubano114 @cubano114 (21) • United States 29 Dec 06

a struggle that is pretty common with people today i am biracial my mother is cuban and my father is african american i constantly struggle with who i am. when i'm with my moms family i'm not spainish enough when i'm with my dads...

african american

biracial

cuban

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djaboo32 Don't choose sides- Instead BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE and that will speak volumes--enough said!

7 Mar 07

the n word

matthewgreen25 @matthewgreen25 (57) • United States 14 Dec 06

so i just read the latest issue of TIME magazine and it had a very interesteing article in about the word (keep in mind im not a rcasist by any means)n igger.now in the article which in case was written by an african-american...

african american

black

civil rights movement

racism

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djaboo32 You have not offended me. But to comment on the Huck Finn book- I don't think they should have black listed the book- it depicts the state of America at that time- We should not hide what is history and the culture of the time. I think it is educational and...

7 Mar 07

Afican Americans are NOT from Africa!

TopDawg216 @TopDawg216 (24) • United States 19 Jan 07

I'm sick of the term "African-American". If you were an AA, you would actually need to be born IN AFRICA. Unless you have dual citizenship, or if you were not born in Africa, you are NOT an African-American. Maybe an American...

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djaboo32 It's nothing wrong with the term- but I think its intent is to recognize that blacks in America descended form Africa, just as Asian Americans, Irish American, etc... they may have been born here in the U.S. but they are descendents from that region. Why do we...

7 Mar 07

are u affraid of black people in ur country?

dadynigga @dadynigga (744) • Romania 25 Jan 07

are u affraid of black people in ur country?

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djaboo32 No, and neither should anyone else.I Love black people

7 Mar 07

Beyonce Look Alikes

jeremi8807 @jeremi8807 (30) • United States 7 Mar 07

Does Beyonce look like a lot of people in Hollywood to you all. Examples Jennifer Lopez Shakira Christina Millian etc.

beyonce

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djaboo32 She has her own unique look- and so does all of the others you mention. But she does favor Tina Knowles very strongly when I think about it!

7 Mar 07

Can you get sick from lack of sleep?

dopey22girl @dopey22girl (3319) • United States 7 Mar 07

This is probably a stupid question but I'm going to ask anyways. I go to school everyday for 8 hours, and then every single night almost I work for 4-5 hours. I work 13+ hours over the weekends. Aside from working about every day...

life

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djaboo32 Of course, lack of sleep can lower the immune system's defenses. I use to be w super work aholic in my younger days- But I was sure to get my beauty sleep ---at least 8 hours-- but of course I was always late to school- I didn't get more sick because of it...

7 Mar 07

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Is it wrong to baby him???

mystic_0318 @mystic_0318 (937) • United States 6 Mar 07

This might sound funny but everyone says I need to stopp babing my younger brother. He is 23 and he stays with me and I do everything for him. I cook what he wants cooked

family

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djaboo32 It's that kind of pampering that is going to make it really difficult for the wife. How is she going to compare- He'll measure all her nurturing qualities against you. Then again, why is she even allowing all this and living with you still? I think at 23, he...

7 Mar 07

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Double standards for men and women with kids, WHY?

beaniefanatic13 @beaniefanatic13 (5076) • Grand Junction, Colorado 6 Mar 07

My brother was divorced last year after being separated for a year. He got physical custody of his 2 girls, ages 3 and 6. He joined an online dating site, and has had many match ups. Sadly most end before the ever begin, most...

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djaboo32 I am a young divorced women in my 30's and I have not had any dates or offers since (about 2 yrs.) I have custody of my kids as well and believe a lot men are afraisd a ready made family. I have not joined any dating services of course either. I have a male...

6 Mar 07

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