efarmer

@efarmer (184)

Age 42

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Has this happened to you?

efarmer @efarmer (184) 29 Nov 08

Whenever I think about something that I want to discuss, and I come here, I find that somebody has just started that discussion. It is quite freaky for me becuase it has happened to me a few times now. I just responded to a...

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user names

efarmer @efarmer (184) 24 Nov 08

I was looking through the discussions and I suddenly started focussing on the usernames. You can find all sorts of usernames here. Some are outright while some are simple and some are so abstract. How did you select your...

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Do you keep promises?

efarmer @efarmer (184) 22 Nov 08

There are some who rarely mean what they say, are you one of them ? then again there are some who always manage to do what they say and mean what they say. I try most of the time to only say stuff I mean but I also to be honest am...

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Intelligence and foolishness

efarmer @efarmer (184) 20 Nov 08

Why is it considered very wise and intelligent not to believe in anything, be skeptical about everything and foolish to believe in something ? How would you rate yourself to be then, intelligent or foolish? Be honest

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Do your moods change with the weather?

efarmer @efarmer (184) 20 Nov 08

My mood often changes with the weather. When it is sunny I am all happy and good but then when it is cloudy then I tend to become depressed. What about you? Doe it happen to you too?

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Why do we need to question the Bible?

efarmer @efarmer (184) 18 Nov 08

I am new to this whole mylot and I have been going through some discussions now. the thing that I found is that so many discussions are focussed on God and that He doesnot exist or something relating to the Bible that it is wrong...

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Changing your name

efarmer @efarmer (184) 15 Nov 08

I have recently got married and it is very traditional to take your husband's surname. It was very difficult for me initially to accept his surname as my own. however, I am over it and am ready to accept his surname now. but what...

changing your name

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Things children do

efarmer @efarmer (184) 15 Nov 08

Recently my niece who is 3 years old was insisting to her mother, my elder sister, that she wanted to pee standing. My sister tried to explain it to her that she could not do that but she wont give up. so well she finally let her...

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Vocalising your beliefs

efarmer @efarmer (184) 14 Nov 08

Is it ok to always be speaking about your beliefs? This is what I think that what you believe is something personal. there are some people who take it upon themselves to propagate their beliefs and look down upon those who donot...

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men and women

efarmer @efarmer (184) 13 Nov 08

these are the times when talking about women liberation is out of date. the average modern woman has finally come into her own. but do you think it is ok to be chivalrous on the man's part? or would be degrading to show special...

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Love and expectations

efarmer @efarmer (184) 12 Nov 08

I love my husband very much and I know that he does to also. I do many things for him. I write nice little romantic notes to him and place them where he finds them. I also email him cute messages and cards. I tell him always how...

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closeness with family members

efarmer @efarmer (184) 12 Nov 08

I live with my husband's family. My brother in law and his wife and kid and my husband and I live together. there are no problems as such. but How close do you think family members should be? How often should they interfere with...

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things you do when in love

efarmer @efarmer (184) 12 Nov 08

hey what do you think, is it ok to do everything that your lover wants you to do? does that cause your lover to esteem you any less?

do anything

in love

lover

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