elemental13

@elemental13 (34)

United States • Age 38

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Abortion. Allow or forbide? Does woman have right to choose?

scorpiostar @scorpiostar (971) • Lithuania 19 Apr 07

To hang on or refuse?My opinion is that woman have right to decide abort or not. Coz it can happen that pregnancy was undesirable for woman. Others will say - she must use protection..., but what if she become pregnant after she...

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elemental13 I think it is something people have the right to choose as well. It is not an option I would personally consider (barring of course an extreme circumstance such as rape) but I do not think it is my place to pass judgment on others and decide how they govern...

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What are you craving?

mflower2053 @mflower2053 (3223) • United States 18 Apr 07

I'm craving a banana split with nuts. I don't even really care for nuts. Our snowball stand doesn't open until 1pm. So I asked my husband to stop at Mcdonalds and get me a hot fudge sundae with the nut packet and when he gets home...

banana splits

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elemental13 I'm 9 months pregnant and I usually crave ice cream lately. In the beginning of my pregnancy though I craved fruits and berries. Typically I eat what I crave, because like you it is the only time I am not on a diet and my doctor is not concerned about weight...

18 Apr 07

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How much weight did you gain when you were pregnant?

sunup13 @sunup13 (420) • Canada 13 Apr 07

I was recently talking to soem of my friends about how much weight we gained when we were pregnant. I was 110 when I got pregnant and although I didn't get weighed the week of, I think I gained 20-25 pounds. I have a really hard...

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elemental13 I'm due any day now (due date is 4/14) I've gained 21 lbs. I worked really hard not to gain more than around that as I was already overweight when I first became pregnant.

13 Apr 07

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Anyone else here pregnant?

countrylady28 @countrylady28 (153) • United States 3 Apr 07

Okay - are there any pregnant mylotters or expecting dads? Due date? Do you know the gender? Names picked out? How many kids do you have, what are their ages? Any other info, feel free to share... I'll start! I'm due...

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elemental13 I'm pregnant with our first child and both me and my husband are very excited. Due date? April 14th Name? Will be Roxanne Alexandria Other children? None We're planning on a hospital birth. I would ideally like to attempt it without drugs but...

7 Apr 07

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I Need A Vacation! If you could travel ANYWHERE - where would you go?

keithandlisa @keithandlisa (192) • United States 29 Mar 07

It's been a long day and I could really use a vacation. I dreaming of white sands, blue water and lots of sun! If you could get away and go anywhere you want, where would you go?

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elemental13 I've never been on a vacation in my life. Pathetic I know. I've always wanted to go to Greece. From what I've seen the scenery is just beautiful.

29 Mar 07

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Do you have a pet name for your partner?

diablouk @diablouk (598) 29 Mar 07

I always call my bf sweetheart when I am sending him an SMS. Do you have a pet name for your partner? If so , what is it?

pet name

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elemental13 I call my husband the usual pet names, honey, sweetie, babe, etc. I also call him "Fluffers" (don't ask how that came about). He calls me either babe or princess.

29 Mar 07

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Pregnant?

xlyingxwhispersx @xlyingxwhispersx (721) • United States 28 Mar 07

well, I am month late now. Dont get to shocked! I am ushally late, but never a month. 2-3 weeks max. Its a month today. Now, I was pregnant before, and had a miscarriage. I took so many home pregnany tests and all said negitive....

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elemental13 When I first became pregnant my breasts were very tender and sore, I had a decreased appetite and of course morning sickness after the first month or so. Why don't you try going to a Planned Parenthood or a place like that for a more accurate test? The fees...

29 Mar 07

what was the worst part of your prgancy

davis123 @davis123 (507) • United States 26 Mar 07

well i was just wondering well thanks for reading

pregnancy

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elemental13 The morning sickness (or all day sickness in my case) for the first trimester was pretty bad. I've had a pretty easy pregnancy though with no complications. Now that the morning sickness is gone the only thing that really bothers me is not being able to sleep...

28 Mar 07

My boyfriend is having difficulty in finding a good job.How do I support him??

hotchilli4 @hotchilli4 (17) • India 28 Mar 07

My boyfriend has just completed his MBA and is looking for a job currently in the finance industry..He has been trying for a long time now but not much success..There are not many openings for freshers in the finance industry..How...

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elemental13 I was in a similar boat recently. My husband was laid off right before the holidays. He works in HVAC but was having a lot of trouble finding work because it had been unseasonably warm for the winter and there just weren't many openings. It took him 3 months...

28 Mar 07

what is the most annoying habit in ur partner??

aissha @aissha (2036) • India 27 Mar 07

no body is perfect in this world and everyone has some annoying habit which is ok for some and for some "oh i can't tolerate this..." i like to do things immediately as it comes,piling is not i like ,my hsband is very laid back...

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elemental13 My husband does little things that annoy me. Mostly though its just how he procrastinates with household chores that annoy me. It's amazing how the man's dirty laundry will end up on the floor right next to the laundry basket but never actually in the basket....

27 Mar 07

Till death do you part.

Mshell @Mshell (62) • United States 26 Mar 07

When is it time to give up? What reasons do you see fit enough for divorce?

divorce

family

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elemental13 The only reasons I can see myself getting divorced from my husband would be if he cheated on me, or in any way harmed me or our future child. But I suppose that in some relationships people grow apart and begin to desire someone/something else different than...

27 Mar 07

does living in together work??

sithlord @sithlord (167) • India 13 Feb 07

In today's world guys and gurls who are in a relationship tend to move in together and have a kid without getting married.i find nothing wrong with that.but the fact is according to christian religion and others i think...such an...

not married but living together

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elemental13 I lived with my husband before we got married, it gave me a chance to experience life with him and get to know some of his more annoying habits and how to cope before we made the big leap. It also gave us a good amount of time to figure out how to work our...

21 Feb 07

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do you choose the kind of friends your husband go out with?

sevnthjuly @sevnthjuly (913) • Philippines 17 Feb 07

i do sometimes. my hubby's got a lot of circles of friends. so, when he goes out with friends that i dont trust, i usually tag along.

get married

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elemental13 Not really, my husband hangs out with whomever he wants. But then again I know all his friends and they're all responsible and mature, they still do stupid guy things of course but where else is he supposed to do that? I certainly don't want to sit around...

21 Feb 07

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What is/was your favorite part of pregnancy?

thunderofsins @thunderofsins (738) • United States 6 Feb 07

I love when my daughter kicks! Especially when I can feel it from the outside and let my husband or my little sister feel it. Its just so cool to know that its her tiny little hands or feet doing that. She got the hiccups for the...

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elemental13 That's my favorite part as well. I'm 32 weeks along and my husband was getting depressed because he had yet to feel the baby kick, (not for lack of effort), she would always stop when he went to feel it, lol. He finally felt her kick the other night and got so...

21 Feb 07

Automatic Cashiers versus Human Cashiers

spiderman05 @spiderman05 (851) • Canada 20 Feb 07

Many grocery stores around Montreal started replacing cashiers with machines. For those who are not familiar with the concept, these are machines that allow you to scan the items you bought, yourself, then you put your items in...

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elemental13 I used to work in a grocery store and I wouldn't mind them except for the possibility that it may eventually take away the cashier jobs from the people that need them. But it's cheaper for businesses to pay for a machine then employees I guess.

21 Feb 07

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To the married one's do you still have crushes?

kris2080 @kris2080 (157) • Philippines 13 Feb 07

Do you sometimes feel like you are attracted to someone?Not to the point that you are going to split up with your husband or wife?Is it ok to feel that way?

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elemental13 I'm physically attracted to other people yes, but not anything more than that and it's certainly nothing I would act on. I know my husband does the same thing. We're both secure in our relationship and trust the other to never let things get past the harmless...

21 Feb 07