erwin009

@erwin009 (66)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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What will you do when you are lonely

jingke @jingke (106) • China 4 Aug 08

I hate loneliness.I want to get out of it.could you give me some reference.

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erwin009 play game, read some biographys, or go to swim

7 Aug 08

An old saying about Mothers and their children...

tsgirl01 @tsgirl01 (900) • United States 7 Jun 07

I recently read about an old saying..."Mothers raise their daughters but love their sons...What do you think about this? I have a son and and daughter and they are night and day. My son is very respectful and just comes over to...

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erwin009 If my parents don't like my ways, I think it will be ok if they respect my ways and talk with me about that frankly and friendly.

19 Aug 07

Finally my online photo album finished:)

youless @youless (112496) • Guangzhou, China 21 Jul 07

I have been less active here because I am busy with making my online photo album. Now it's just finished and I'm so glad to it:) If you are interested in it, please check http://youless1.photo.163.com

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erwin009 Thanks for your sharing.Best wish to your family.

21 Jul 07

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The more than man (woman) loves, more he (she) suffers.

ssh123 @ssh123 (31073) • India 20 Jul 07

Is it an illusion or a saying based on experience, or is it an universal law.

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erwin009 I think it's a saying based on experience,not an universal law.For example, the more that we love life, more we will be happy.

21 Jul 07

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Do you have a fear for driving?

chenvstony @chenvstony (365) • China 15 Apr 07

I don't know when I started to have a scare about driving.I found myself pessimistic,I always think about accident. When I was in my childhood,my brother had a serious accident,when I saw him bled.I couldn't help crying.Until...

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erwin009 I think everyone has his or her own scared things.but, there is always a way to conquer our scared things.Enemy is our friends,so,scared thing can also be our friends as long as we could learn from what we scare and why we scare.You are not alone when you...

21 Jul 07

Do You Have a Favorite Saying?

derek_a @derek_a (10874) 6 May 07

Helen Keller said, "We could never learn to be brave and patient, if there were only joy in the world" I find this saying very powerful and inspiring and teaches one that if you suffer over anything at all, it is not for...

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erwin009 I like your question.I don't know which saying is my favorite,but I learned a lot from your question and the responses to your question.

14 Jul 07

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If you can have unlimited money supply and the goal to make the difference,

polachicago @polachicago (18716) • United States 19 Jun 07

What would you do? This is about humanity, not personal goals. What would you do to make a difference for millions of people? What would you do for our planet?

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erwin009 First of all,I would take some money to pay somebody or some institutions who can figure out the most reasonable and practical plans of making world better, although the money you have is unlimited, it still should be spended efficiently. Secondly,I would...

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In what age can we make the strongest friendships? And how can it be strong?

Dolcerina @Dolcerina (3376) • Hungary 17 May 07

I am not the kind of person who make friendships easily. I realized that those friendships I made after my schoolyears got over soon. I do not know why. I have to say that they never get so close to me. EVen if I speak a lot with...

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erwin009 Age doesn't matter.Some time, we don't want people know about ourselves,we want to keep distance from others,and that's because we don't trust somebody and we don't want to get hurt.But what I said above wouldn't make friendships stronger. To entreat your...

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DO YOU PREFER TO LIVE IN CITY, SUBURB, COUNTRY SIDE?

ssh123 @ssh123 (31073) • India 22 Oct 06

What are the advantages of living in such places? one or two advantages may please be listed here please.

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erwin009 City: convenient traffic system,more recreation facilities,library,more delicious food,but too noisy,and air condition is worse than the other two? Suburb:near to city,and it will be easier to get or use the resources of city than country side,quieter than...

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Do you like eating the fruit called lychee?

youless @youless (112496) • Guangzhou, China 28 Jun 07

I'm from Guangzhou, China. It seems that lychee is the unique from our province. It tastes so sweet and juicy. It's much more tasteful if you put it into fridge. It's a nice fruit in summer. Have you eaten it before?

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erwin009 This summer is a summer of lychee for me.It's the first time I have eaten so much lychees in one month.

28 Jun 07

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It is said a pleasant companion is as good as a coach.

ssh123 @ssh123 (31073) • India 21 Jun 07

Do you have any such companion. I have a couple of them. I get greatly inspired in their company which generates enthusiasm and drives me at amazing speed in my work and activities.

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erwin009 I can't agree with you more.I have a such friend.I am very glad to have a such friend.

21 Jun 07

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As the purse is emptied, the heart is filled - so goes the saying by Victor Hugo

ssh123 @ssh123 (31073) • India 21 Jun 07

There is another theory: the more you give away, the more you get. How far in the present day context, people have faith in such statement. I would like to give away the things which I really do not require, but someone who is a...

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erwin009 In my opinion, we should not just give away what we really don't require,maybe it would be more helpful to others and ourselves when we give away something that others really need and that we can afford.

21 Jun 07

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Re-Evolution of Education system

ramthegreat @ramthegreat (36) • India 9 Jun 07

Hi Friends I have strong feeling that education system must be evolutionized(not revolutionized). The system of education should help us to go explore new horizons rather stopping with facts and figures. You can give your...

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erwin009 I can't agree with your more.But we can't wait the system of education to help us explore new horizons.so,how should we learn to explore new horizons by ourselves?Do you have any idea?

13 Jun 07

Do you consider action of a person as a proof of his ability?

ssh123 @ssh123 (31073) • India 25 May 07

I believe Action (mostly positive) is a measure of proof of ability of a person.

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erwin009 Action is a measure of proof of ability of a person,further more,I think it's the most important measure.By the way, I like your topics.

13 Jun 07

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Do you tend to reply to your friends' discussions?

youless @youless (112496) • Guangzhou, China 12 Jun 07

When I can't think out any interesting topic, then I will reply to others discussions. First of all, I will reply to my friends' discussions. How about you? Please share your comment here.

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erwin009 It's no doubt that the friends' discussions is the first choice when I would browse discussions.

13 Jun 07

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insecurities

luisivy @luisivy (68) • Philippines 11 Jun 07

We cannot please everybody even how nice we are as a person. Is it true?

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erwin009 I had ever try hard to please everybody,but finally I realized that it can't work and it's unpractical.May be that we can't please everybody is a good thing, because it can make us to find the differences between different people and see how other people...

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