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ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

the husband or the wife? In our situation, me and my husband share the money we earned, we have a cash box so when we need to pay something we put money in the bank. And whoever needs something we just tell each other how much we...

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ezekiel71 the key thing here is as long as the couples have mutual agreement on how to handle their finances then that will work. thank you

20 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

the husband or the wife? In our situation, me and my husband share the money we earned, we have a cash box so when we need to pay something we put money in the bank. And whoever needs something we just tell each other how much we...

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ezekiel71 thats good, you have a clear communication regarding your finances and it works for both of you and that is what is important for every marriages. As long as it is both agreeable for both of you then that works for me. thank you

19 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

the husband or the wife? In our situation, me and my husband share the money we earned, we have a cash box so when we need to pay something we put money in the bank. And whoever needs something we just tell each other how much we...

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ezekiel71 thats good to hear that even he is the breadwinner he still ask you if he can buy this or that, which means he respect your ability in handling the budget.thank you

19 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

the husband or the wife? In our situation, me and my husband share the money we earned, we have a cash box so when we need to pay something we put money in the bank. And whoever needs something we just tell each other how much we...

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ezekiel71 thats fair enough. how about the unexpected expenses like emergencies?

19 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

the husband or the wife? In our situation, me and my husband share the money we earned, we have a cash box so when we need to pay something we put money in the bank. And whoever needs something we just tell each other how much we...

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ezekiel71 i think that works if the woman is not working like the stay home wife. and just give the husband a budget for his everyday espenses, thank you

19 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

the husband or the wife? In our situation, me and my husband share the money we earned, we have a cash box so when we need to pay something we put money in the bank. And whoever needs something we just tell each other how much we...

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ezekiel71 as long as it was agreeable to both of you then think that is fine, coz you will be both accountable to each other. thank you.

19 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

the husband or the wife? In our situation, me and my husband share the money we earned, we have a cash box so when we need to pay something we put money in the bank. And whoever needs something we just tell each other how much we...

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ezekiel71 thats pragmatic, thank you.

19 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

the husband or the wife? In our situation, me and my husband share the money we earned, we have a cash box so when we need to pay something we put money in the bank. And whoever needs something we just tell each other how much we...

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ezekiel71 so its true that what we see and learned from our parents is what we tend to do, which in your case theyre good example to follow. Wish you luck. thank you.

19 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

the husband or the wife? In our situation, me and my husband share the money we earned, we have a cash box so when we need to pay something we put money in the bank. And whoever needs something we just tell each other how much we...

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ezekiel71 handling budget is not easy as it seems , it needs discipline and you need to be wise where and how you spend your money. it doesnt matter who is handling the money as long as the one who is holding is responsible enough.

19 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

there are people, friends or family members that always say theyre doing this because theyre concern about you or your family. Like sometimes you are minding your own business and somebody walks in and tell you what to do or how...

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ezekiel71 i agree with you completely, boundaries are important, sometimes we have to draw the lines to avoid misunderstanding in the family. thank you

19 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

there are people, friends or family members that always say theyre doing this because theyre concern about you or your family. Like sometimes you are minding your own business and somebody walks in and tell you what to do or how...

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ezekiel71 i guess it depends on how old how are you then. Because if you are an adult then you have your own mind set and you know how to care of yourself.

18 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

do you?have you ever experience it? i havent experience it so i dont know if ill believe other people when they say they they fell in love at first sight. How could that be?is that possible?will the relationship last? you know...

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ezekiel71 thats interesting. im happy for both of you and your kids. thank you

18 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

do you?have you ever experience it? i havent experience it so i dont know if ill believe other people when they say they they fell in love at first sight. How could that be?is that possible?will the relationship last? you know...

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ezekiel71 i cant blame you, its hard to believe it when you didnt experience it yourself. but who knows in the near future you will. thank you

18 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

do you?have you ever experience it? i havent experience it so i dont know if ill believe other people when they say they they fell in love at first sight. How could that be?is that possible?will the relationship last? you know...

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ezekiel71 so do you still date the girl that you like? because you said you date them not because you like them but bec. they look good.

18 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 18 Jun 09

do you?have you ever experience it? i havent experience it so i dont know if ill believe other people when they say they they fell in love at first sight. How could that be?is that possible?will the relationship last? you know...

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ezekiel71 i guess its all case to case basis. lets see how it will end. i wish you both all the best and everything work out good. thank you

18 Jun 09

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ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 14 Jun 09

I've known people who got married just because the girl is pregnant. and some stayed in live-in relationship because they dont want commitment or lets say a legal paper that binds them together. But isnt marriage is security? and...

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ezekiel71 wow thats a long year,i always admire couples who stays to each other no matter what, coz i know everything is not a bliss in marriage. congratulations!

14 Jun 09

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 14 Jun 09

I've known people who got married just because the girl is pregnant. and some stayed in live-in relationship because they dont want commitment or lets say a legal paper that binds them together. But isnt marriage is security? and...

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ezekiel71 so the only difference then is just a piece of paper. thank you

14 Jun 09

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