fenela02

@fenela02 (30)

Philippines • Age 42

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How long does it take for you to "move on"?

blitzkiba @blitzkiba (641) • Philippines 24 Sep 08

Well if you just broke up with someone how long does it take?and what are the things you do to forget the hurt?

moving on

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fenela02 Only time will tell when. But for me the only way to move on is to keep myself busy all the time so to avoid thinking and reminiscing. The pain will cut you deep for as long you want it to. Dont be harsh on your self though. Its ok to cry once in a while but...

24 Sep 08

how do you handle and angry person

knightrider @knightrider (1083) • India 24 Sep 08

i have tried different means,but the best so far has been to give back more than what he or she can throw at you, knowing very well that you are irritating the other person more, but it works

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fenela02 You know i have learned that when someone vents out anger, they have this FEAR inside them which instead of saying straight out they cover it with being angry. So dont be surprised with the yelling and all the bad words that can come out, instead focus on...

24 Sep 08

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Sweet 17 And Never Been Kissed!

OhMyDayz @OhMyDayz (157) 16 May 07

What age was your first true kiss. I am still waiting for mine!! Are you still kissing those same lips??

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fenela02 I was already 19, funny huh! But yes im still kissing the very same lips. He's my husband now for 3 years;)

19 Jul 07

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How old were you when you had your first kiss???

golfproo @golfproo (1839) • Canada 18 Jul 07

Hi everyone, Lately I have been thinking about the past a lot. It is amazing the things that come to mind when you start to do this. One thing that came to my mind was when I actually had my first kiss. I remember it clearly,...

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fenela02 Beleive me or not but im already 19! Is that something i should be embarrased(laughing)? But anyway it was awesome. He was my husband for three years now;)And when he kiss me, its still feels like my first kiss:)

19 Jul 07

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How did you meet your current partner (bf / gf / husband / wife)?

michecu @michecu (637) • Philippines 16 Jul 07

Well, i know there are amazing stories about how people meet. So i wanted to share with mine and you may share yours too... I met my current bf through a friend of mine. my friend and me were supposed to meet for a movie, but...

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fenela02 I met my husband when i was 11 years old. Though i did not know he was going to be my husband that time(funny). I was just a one of their customer in their business...and he was 5 years older than me and obviously he wouldnt notice me because i was so young....

17 Jul 07

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would u go for an extra marital affair if u really like that person??

trulyphyzio @trulyphyzio (13) • India 14 Jul 07

its hard to resist our instincts.When you are committed,and if things start goin wrong..you might find someone else interesting.Would you pursue the new relationship??

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fenela02 When you are committed and things go bad. Like your hurting and suffering in pain for almost 6 years like me, its really tempting to just runaway with the other guy. BUT when you value commitment so much and you know in your heart the very essence of it, you...

15 Jul 07

letting go of a relationship....

007Bond1974 @007Bond1974 (881) • Philippines 19 Jan 07

im 32 now but and im in a relationship(only my second)...my girl is in dubai right now working there as we prepare for our planned marriage....she was away for 2 years now.couple of days back my ex girlfriend called me up,i really...

letting go

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fenela02 You dont want to tell her because you dont want to hurt her OR you dont want her to go and leave? Settle the war inside you first okay;) And telling someone straight out is never rude, your just being honest..to her....and to yourself.

14 Jul 07

He wants to get married...they have only known each other 3 weeks...

tinamwhite @tinamwhite (3252) • United States 13 Jul 07

My son who is 26 years old...he is a firefighter and an EMT...he is a very responsible young man and I am very close to him.... A couple of days ago, he informed that he plans to get married to a young woman whom he has only...

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firefighter

getting married in a hurry

plans to wed

rushed plans for the future

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fenela02 I was with my boyfriend for four years before i got married. And yet i wish i had spent a little more time before plunging myself in marriage.Im not saying that they should also get more time before getting married. Im pointing out ENJOYING one another.You...

13 Jul 07

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How to stay Married?

rdougl @rdougl (469) • United States 12 Jul 07

I've been happily married for 7 years. I absolutely love my wife. Everything seems fine. But when I look at the ever growing divorce rate I start to get a bit scared. I would hate to lose my wife. Especially over some trivial...

divorce

marriage

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fenela02 I can say your a loving husband there but dont worry. A few tips from a wife like me..try to appreciate her in every way. Try not to go to bed mad at each other.In other words never take communication for granted cause women like to talk about their...

13 Jul 07