fiarby

@fiarby (105)

Philippines • Age 54

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At the end of our life, what do you want to be remembered for?

adoremay @adoremay (2065) • Philippines 25 Jun 08

Honestly, I haven't thought of it. I have never wanted to be a saint or something, and I am not also applying to become also. But when my end time comes, I am not hoping for the whole world to remember me, but what is enough that...

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fiarby I want to be remembered as a mother, friend and a teacher. I am not perfect but I know that I was able to live the expectation of the parents of my student as their child's teacher; of my friends for being a friend in every sense of the word; for being a...

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Why do people marry at an early age?

m18j7crystal @m18j7crystal (184) 23 Jun 08

I'm kinda bothered.

kinda

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fiarby There are reasons why people marry at an early age. Some because the girl is already pregnant, some because they think that they are sure of their relationship and wants to start their own family. Before, I plan to start my own family at the age of 25 to enjoy...

25 Jun 08

do you like requiring to your child reading books in the morning ?

owntuilp @owntuilp (422) • China 25 Jun 08

i had recall one of my teachers told me that you shoud read a book,especially classics books , in the moring when i entry the elementry school.unfortunatelly,i had hardly read any books in the morning from monday to friday,as i...

morning

reading books

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fiarby Reading is really good. It helps our children increase their vocabulary and at the same time their comprehension. I believe it does not necessarily be in the morning as long as we instill in our children the love of reading, we can do it anytime of the...

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Go ahead BRAG!! Tell me all about them!!

ebsharer @ebsharer (5515) • United States 24 Jun 08

Alright so heres your chance to brag all about your kid or kids. Tell me what does he or she do that you are so proud of? How old is he or she? Every mom and dad wants to brag but they don't want to sound like they are bragging...

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tell me more

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fiarby My eldest is girl and is turning 8 this October, she loves Science and I am proud of her as she is very good in school. My 2nd will be 5 this September, he just started school this June and I can see that he too is doing good. I really hope though that they'll...

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Dairy Queen favs

megumiart @megumiart (3771) • United States 22 Jun 08

So I went to Dairy queen with my mom the other day, for the first time in a looong time. I'm a big fan of milkshakes and ice cream so I had a really hard time picking what to have. My favorite candy is KitKats, so I settled on a...

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fiarby Love Dairy Queen soooooooooooo much! Love their butterfinger blizzard....when I discovered Dairy Queen in Singapore, it made my few months stay truly memorable as me and my friend really went out of our way (even late at night) just to have one, this is one of...

22 Jun 08

Do we have a right to hate our own mother?????

baleleng2008 @baleleng2008 (917) • United States 13 Jun 08

What you do,guys if your mom make a story to you so you have to send her money something like that and then you found out she lied to you.What if you forgive her and then she do it again and again??? Are you going to hate...

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fiarby I believed that there are reasons why the mom did it...making stories....i think that its best to talk and let the mom know what you feel about it and that you as well know that she's just making up stories...communicatiion is still the best way to sort things...

22 Jun 08

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Is it the right time for marriage

smartraz @smartraz (128) • India 20 Jun 08

For sometime now i've been under constant pressure from my parents for getting married. They've also found a beautiful bride for me too. Even though i like her,i'm just confused- is it the right time for me to marry. Since my...

love

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fiarby I actually don't know much about your culture in marriage but I believe the question of being the right time is not the issue.. it should be, is she the person you want to spend your lifetime with...success in marriage doesn't just happen to couples who...

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Can someone advice me on which girl i should get in a relationship with?

koharukusumi @koharukusumi (1539) • Malaysia 18 Jun 08

Girl A : An engineer. Earns 2k per month (i am not sure if monthl salary should be taken into consideration but i'm just putting this info just if it might help ou guys). High school love. First love. Busy with her work. Not so...

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fiarby Well, first you have to know what love is...love is such a strong word to say and it has different depth of feeling...you see, we can always say that we love a person but has no real feelings or whatsoever...but just to help you out....love the person that you...

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Is there such a thing as Faithfulness in Love now?

poohgal @poohgal (6845) • Singapore 18 Nov 07

Hello there. Recently I had a conversation with my male friend. He made this comment - 'more than 90% of attached men will go into infidelity if given the opportunity and chance" I was appalled by this comment. He said the reason...

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fiarby I believed that man by nature is polygamous but this doesn't justify their actions of infidelity. I too believe in the law of karma so i guess, whatever they do that will hurt somebody will just be thrown back at their faces sooner or later. As the saying...

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What do you think is our purpose in this life?

argelo @argelo (65) • Philippines 11 Jan 07

I would like to hear your inner insights about the purpose of our existence? what is our purpose in this world?

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fiarby Our life is a gift from GOD. We didn't plan to be born in this world, it was HIS plan. From the book of Genesis, it was all about how man came into existence. From there, I think the purpose why GOD created man is to procreate and so as to have life on the...

4 Apr 07

Mothers, be good examples to your children!

myklaire @myklaire (437) • Philippines 17 Mar 07

One day a little girl was sitting and watching her mother do the dishes at the kitchen sink. She suddenly noticed that her mother has several strands of white hair sticking out in contrast on her brunette head. She looked at her...

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fiarby We can not hide simple things in life from our children. Children are very inquisitive and they deserve the right answers. They can understand things, just level with them and explain to them how and why things happen.

17 Mar 07

what type of book would u get stuck with on a rainy day??

maxxine @maxxine (610) • Philippines 17 Mar 07

me. i prefer horror stories...... whether its a rainy day or a sunny day ehhehehehe

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fiarby I love reading. In whatever kind of weather condition, I prefer to read love stories. Reading not only helps us widen our vocabulary but it also helps us to further widen our knowledge and at the same time to have an open mind on things that is happening...

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Would you rather stay single or get married?

bluemestizo @bluemestizo (429) • United States 17 Mar 07

Depending where your life is at right now -- Do you plan to stay single or plan to get married? Are you happy where you are at right now?For me I'm planning to go back to live and marry the woman I love back in Bicol.

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fiarby I am a single parent with 3 kids, I am the one who decided to be separated with my husband. I am happy with my life now with my 3 kids, with my work, with my friends. In my present situation, I am contented, but as a human being, I do sometimes think about...

17 Mar 07

How Many Chances Would You Give Your Boy/Girlfriend before you say its OVER?

jay_em93 @jay_em93 (99) • Philippines 17 Mar 07

My girlfriend has been cheating on me and i caught her once flirting with someone else, she said sorry and i gave her a chance to work our relationship out. Then my friend told me that she's spreading words that our relationship...

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fiarby Love is a two way process. Relationship will not work if both parties are not on the same wave length. It is really hard to have a perfect person to be with because for one thing, nobody's perfect. With your relationship, maybe you can tell your girlfriend all...

17 Mar 07

Do mothers always know best?

steney @steney (1418) • Philippines 1 Mar 07

I caught myself saying this line a lot lately when I'm talking to my five year old: "Mom, knows best!" Sometimes children can be so inquisitive that they load you with the why? questions that never end. So when I run out of...

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fiarby There are times that mothers are just being too knowledgeable with their kids. Of course, we are older than them and we'll say that I know more than you do, but our children are in a different generation and what we think is good for them might not be...

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Whats the Best Thing of Being a Mom?

Deelicious @Deelicious (362) • Philippines 28 Feb 07

I remember my mom saying that the best part of being a mom for her is the part when she goes home from work and we would run to her and giver her a kiss and hug. She said, it takes all the day's trouble away.

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fiarby Nobody in this world can beat mom's. Mom's are just the harworking people in this world. They may not be working in a company or elsewhere but still they are working mothers because whatever they do at home is still work, it's just that they put a different...

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Recently I Just Stare At Mylot!!

sirwillyam @sirwillyam (625) 1 Mar 07

i dont know if its just me, but i have found that recently i just read the discussion titles, then read the discussions, and then think nah i wont reply to that! i dont know wether im becoming incredibly picky or just really lazy...

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fiarby This is my first reply on a discussion after two weeks of absence caused by work. Before my absence, I am being picky also on what discussion to reply to. For me, some of the discussions are almost of the same topics and some are putting discussions just to...

2 Mar 07

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How do we know we have given enough quality time for our children?

ciriaca07 @ciriaca07 (14) • Philippines 9 Feb 07

I am a mother and an 8-5 worker and sometimes have to go home very late at night because of things need to be done. But when I'm home I spent all my time taking care of my 4-year old daughter. Sometimes she wants me to stay with...

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fiarby I know how you feel. I am a single parent, I also have the same predicament of not spending quality time with my three (3) children. I believe that the time we spent with our kids are quality time. This is because we are giving them this few hours and...

9 Feb 07

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