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Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 25 Jun 16

Over the years, there have been several views to this issue of gender equality, sometimes conflicting views, Feminists views, activists, and sometimes great misundertandings and misnomer on the idea and concept of gender equality....

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Benny CleF Thats a Fantastic analogy. But does this apply in every context of human relationship, societal perceptions and Gods view on gender equality ? Could you kindly expertiate. Thanks

25 Jun 16

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 25 Jun 16

Over the years, there have been several views to this issue of gender equality, sometimes conflicting views, Feminists views, activists, and sometimes great misundertandings and misnomer on the idea and concept of gender equality....

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Benny CleF Absolutely!. It sure means different things to different people.. in different contexts like marriage, social relationships, intelligence, Gods perception of it, Soceities perception amongst many other contexts.

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Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 25 Jun 16

Severally I've heard people say "The truth always hurts", and they usually use the "truth hurts" cliche' mostly when refering to a bitter truth. but does truth always HURT? Some truths don't hurt. And sometimes lies do hurt...

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Benny CleF But does that cliche' apply to all truths? Some truths don't hurt, have u thought about it? Sure there are bitter truths which many may not want to hear sometimes, and there are also sweet truths which don't hurt.

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Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 7 Jun 16

A lot of ladies at one time or the other, might have probably experienced the rage or great dissappointment on the face of a man when she said to him "NO WE CANT HAVE SEX". This man, having spent so much on her already and...

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Benny CleF Exactly, that's another point there;.. maybe the lady is just not into it at that moment and would want the man to understand that there would be plenty of other nights. If a man wishes to lavish gifts on a woman, let it not be pre-conditioned the idea...

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Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 7 Jun 16

A lot of ladies at one time or the other, might have probably experienced the rage or great dissappointment on the face of a man when she said to him "NO WE CANT HAVE SEX". This man, having spent so much on her already and...

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Benny CleF You're absolutely right dear, some men need to begin to realise that there is more to the worth and value of a woman than to be perceived as a sex object and not a person. And you're also right that money can't buy love, contrary to the misleading views of...

8 Jun 16

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 7 Jun 16

A lot of ladies at one time or the other, might have probably experienced the rage or great dissappointment on the face of a man when she said to him "NO WE CANT HAVE SEX". This man, having spent so much on her already and...

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Benny CleF That's lovely and impressive. Yes every lady demands more respect than to be bullied into having sex against her wish. It's one thing to spend on a woman from the niceness of Ones heart, which may naturally make the lady appreciate you and want to please...

8 Jun 16

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 7 Jun 16

A lot of ladies at one time or the other, might have probably experienced the rage or great dissappointment on the face of a man when she said to him "NO WE CANT HAVE SEX". This man, having spent so much on her already and...

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Benny CleF It's really sad and unfortunate that some men would condescend so low as to demand for a refund from a woman for saying no to sex. Sometimes it could be that maybe the lady in question was in her period as at the moment he wanted it. Or maybe she needs just a...

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Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 7 Jun 16

A lot of ladies at one time or the other, might have probably experienced the rage or great dissappointment on the face of a man when she said to him "NO WE CANT HAVE SEX". This man, having spent so much on her already and...

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Benny CleF You're absolutely right dear, and i am glad that you've never met such men, and may you never meet them I pray. But the unfortunate fact is that there are a lot of men out there who behave in this manner. Some of these men have even gone to the extent of...

7 Jun 16

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 7 Jun 16

A lot of ladies at one time or the other, might have probably experienced the rage or great dissappointment on the face of a man when she said to him "NO WE CANT HAVE SEX". This man, having spent so much on her already and...

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Benny CleF Hello dear, i concur. But in the aspect of the man or woman spending money on someone just for the sole purpose of having sex, dont you think there are people out there who feel that their gifts and money could make up for their "romancelessness", and may not...

7 Jun 16

DJ @Daljinder (23236) • Bangalore, India 5 Jun 16

...of my grandparents. This Sunday, June 5, 2016, was their 60th wedding anniversary. We didn't have any party planned because my grandparents had planned a trip to their hometown in Punjab. The place where...

marriage anniversary

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Benny CleF Yes it is such a wonderful news!. And to think that they both got into an arranged marriage at such very tender ages makes it even more interesting. All over the world there have been lots and lots of arranged marriages that never made it this far ; some...

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Babygirlrae @carebear29 (31971) • Wausau, Wisconsin 5 Jun 16

So one of the members here on Mylot made a blog about how to have MyLot on your phone home screen. I finally figured it out and now it is like an app on my phone. It is so awesome. I had to go through the Safari on my iPhone...

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Benny CleF @just4him oh i see. Now i get it; You are not too keen about mobile phone technological advances. But talking about mobile phones and its technological complexities, is your challenge more of not being interested in mobile phone technologies generally, or...

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Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 5 Jun 16

Studies have shown that there are more same gender best friends than there is opposite sex best friends. If u had a daughter, would you really mind if her best friend is a dude?[and vice versa] . Would u be totally cool with it?

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Benny CleF Yes same gender sometimes is a lot easier as you said, and i also like what you said about keeping it mere friendship and nothing more than that. Atleast it goes long way to show that the lady [you in this case] has some commendable level of discipline in...

6 Jun 16

Babygirlrae @carebear29 (31971) • Wausau, Wisconsin 5 Jun 16

So one of the members here on Mylot made a blog about how to have MyLot on your phone home screen. I finally figured it out and now it is like an app on my phone. It is so awesome. I had to go through the Safari on my iPhone...

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Benny CleF Not to worry, i have no doubt in my mind whatsoever that hopefully it will also become a reality on other devices just as it already is on iphones. Just stay hopeful and celebrate in advance because i can perceive that bigger breakthroughs are certainly ahead...

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Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 5 Jun 16

There are certain things both Men and ladies are guilty of [and by saying " both Men and ladies" I don't mean all Men and ladies; there is always an exception]. The 'Kiss and Tell' syndrome. Some say it is childish for a...

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Benny CleF It sure is a visible display of childishness, immaturity and untrustworthiness. Although most people who are guilty of this may try to hide under one or two excuses to justify their action as simply borne out of excitement resulting from the experience, but...

5 Jun 16

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 5 Jun 16

In some soceities, people frown at it when a lady make the first move on a guy she admires. And usually, people within those kind of soceities automatically label such a lady a 'whore', 'a flirt ' and call her all sorts of...

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Benny CleF Wow your story is such a beautiful one. I must commend your courage in making the first move towards your husband, and i am glad he thinks that the move was the sweetest thing. And i must say your husband has won my respect for choosing to appreciate that move...

5 Jun 16

Hazel mariquit @Mariquh (91) 5 Jun 16

Its the word of God and reading it daily day and night would be the best for all Christians, its the food of our soul and through which we have this relationship with God, to know Him more and more daily. Joshua 1:8King James...

bible

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Benny CleF Sometime when we try to interprete the scriptures with our human efforts we get dissappointed except by the help and guidance of Gods Spirit who throws light on the Scriptures and makes it come alive in our hearts and mind, granting us understanding of The...

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Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 4 Jun 16

I was outside this morning, minding my own business. I had a cup of coffee in my hands while I was letting the dog out to use the bathroom. All of a sudden there was a buzzing noise so I quickly moved away from the noise. Then...

wasp

sting

afraid

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Benny CleF Aww. . If prior to the wasp attack she had had a premonition that she was going to spill a cup of coffee all over herself while running from the wasp , she probably would have opted to finish drinking the coffee indoors before coming outside.

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