Benny CleF

@Fordalong (108)

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Benny CleF's Discussions

WHAT ARE THE CRITERIAS FOR GETTING MARRIED?

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 19 Jul 16

In some soceities, once a young man or a young woman reaches a certain age, enormous pressure begins to mount on him/her from family, extended family, friends and society to get married, and the question he/she begins to hear...

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DOES HEARING THE TRUTH ALWAYS HURT?

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 25 Jun 16

Severally I've heard people say "The truth always hurts", and they usually use the "truth hurts" cliche' mostly when refering to a bitter truth. but does truth always HURT? Some truths don't hurt. And sometimes lies do hurt...

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GENDER EQUALITY

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 25 Jun 16

Over the years, there have been several views to this issue of gender equality, sometimes conflicting views, Feminists views, activists, and sometimes great misundertandings and misnomer on the idea and concept of gender equality....

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NO SEX AND HE IS ANGRRRY!!

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 7 Jun 16

A lot of ladies at one time or the other, might have probably experienced the rage or great dissappointment on the face of a man when she said to him "NO WE CANT HAVE SEX". This man, having spent so much on her already and...

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KISS AND TELL

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 5 Jun 16

There are certain things both Men and ladies are guilty of [and by saying " both Men and ladies" I don't mean all Men and ladies; there is always an exception]. The 'Kiss and Tell' syndrome. Some say it is childish for a...

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OPPOSITE SEX AS BEST FRIENDS?

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 5 Jun 16

Studies have shown that there are more same gender best friends than there is opposite sex best friends. If u had a daughter, would you really mind if her best friend is a dude?[and vice versa] . Would u be totally cool with it?

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LADIES MAKING THE FIRST MOVE.

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 5 Jun 16

In some soceities, people frown at it when a lady make the first move on a guy she admires. And usually, people within those kind of soceities automatically label such a lady a 'whore', 'a flirt ' and call her all sorts of...

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REWIND THE HANDS OF TIME

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 5 Jun 16

You know, sometimes there are things we wish we had done differently if we could remind the hands of time. What are some of those things you wish u would have done differently if u could go back in time?

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MEN AND PROMISCUITY.

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 5 Jun 16

Time and time again I've heard people say "Men are promiscous in nature. But are Men naturally promiscous in nature?

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MOTHERS & THEIR SONS, FATHERS & THEIR DAUGHTERS

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 5 Jun 16

There is this saying that mothers seem to be more emotionally closer to their sons while fathers are closer to daughters; Does this always apply in every family?

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At what point?

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 4 Jun 16

A certain young lady sent in a mail during a relationship counselling session lamenting how all efforts to revive her relationship with her boyfriend has proved abortive and futile. She asked to know at what point a lady/guy...

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Which would you prefer?

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 4 Jun 16

I once listened to a conversation between two young beautiful ladies sitting beside me at the airport. One of the ladies was of the opinion that it is better to marry a Man who loves you more than you love him, while the...

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Being famous vs Being a Celebrity

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 4 Jun 16

Some people often use these two terms interchangeably: being famous/ being a Celebrity. Do u really think both terms should be used interchangeably? Whats your take on this?

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Loving our Enemies. How possible is it?

Benny CleF @Fordalong (108) 3 Jun 16

At some point in our lives, we might have heard this: LOVE YOUR ENEMIES, either from our religious leaders, or persons whom we hold at high esteem. But how easy and possible is it to love our enemies?

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