goldie77

@goldie77 (166)

Age 63

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Working life makes me too stressful, should I quit?

sdas86 @sdas86 (6076) • Malaysia 13 Sep 11

I am too stress with job and the tasks are too much that I can't even handle anymore. I am always sick due to overwhelming tasks. Should I quit? Or should I stay?

job

life

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goldie77 you should definitely quit if it's making you feel this way but it depends on your financial situation as to when you should quit. Having no money is also stressful but being constantly stressed is bad for your health and happiness and no job or money is worth...

14 Sep 11

I am confused that almost cried this New Year.

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 31 Dec 10

I was able to attend the mass for the New Year's Eve with my family. I don't know the feeling that there is something that makes me upset but I think it is because when I fought with my former friend who have cheated me in the...

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goldie77 sometimes we have to let go of friendships because they are no longer good for us. i had to do that with a long time friend who was nasty to me once too often.I didn't see her for nearly 4 years but in the end I saw her and we are friends again but she is more...

1 Jan 11

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91 year old drive hits and kills a 81 year old man on his scooter.

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 13 Sep 10

It happened this weekend in our little city. A 91 year old woman driving her car hit and killed a disabled man on his scooter as he crossed the street in a pedistrian crosswalk. She said she never even saw him. I know the woman...

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goldie77 yes, they should be retested every year courtesy of the government. An old person's ability to dtive safely can change pretty quickly.

14 Sep 10

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your relationships with sister/s... good or bad?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 12 Sep 10

I am the only girl in the family. i have 2 brothers and i grew up to be the only girl here, i have no sisters... and my cousins are not that close to me either... i sometimes feel that things would be better if i have a sister...

relaationship

siblings

sisters

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goldie77 I have 2 sisters and none of us are close which makes me very sad -it's =just the way it is in my family -we weren't brought up to be close or taught to be nice to each other or care for each other -I have on eof the coldest, most uncaring families imaginable

13 Sep 10

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Children with long names

ip5217 @ip5217 (1655) • Philippines 12 Sep 10

I am 7 months pregnant now. I'm excited to see our little angel, not just a little angel but an angel with an awesome name. My husband and I have thought of an awesome name- three names. Her name is Elle Beatrice Antoinette. We...

baby names

children

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goldie77 are you sure you're having a girl? I think Elle is lovely and should be her first name and the other two can be middle names only used for things like official documents and getting married " Do you Herbert Wally Angelico Oswald Johstone take Elle Beatrice...

13 Sep 10

I am not a good mother, because I left my daughter

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 6 Sep 10

It is said that women is the great mother in the world. For have 2 years old of my daughter, I am not a good mother. For my life and family, my hubby and I left my hometown and came to another city to work, with sad left but no...

family

mother

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goldie77 I don't condemn you or judge you for what you did because I know you must be hurting really badly, missing your daughter so much but I just hope you made the right choice because for me -no job or amount of money could tear me away from my child -I lived on...

7 Sep 10

Do you always give second chances? or never?

ivygrey @ivygrey (550) • Philippines 27 Jul 10

have you ever felt that there were times that you really had to give somebody a second chance? Maybe not just in relationships but in many many ways. I posted last time about my father-in-law who is trying his best to go back to...

second chances

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goldie77 I gave my mum a second chance after not seeing her for 3 years and I'm glad I did but it takes a lot of forgiveness and you have to forget what they did to hurt you in the first place. Sometimes it's hard to forget

28 Jul 10

How do I not take it personally?

lilangelspreschool @lilangelspreschool (1129) • United States 25 Jun 10

I have my own Preschool that I teach in my home. When people come and don't put their child in for whatever reason, I often take it personally. I feel like they didn't like me or something. I am a very, very sensitive and...

business

feelings

sensitive

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goldie77 yeah it's tough being sensitive - I am the same but you need to understand that all parents are different and they are all looking for something different for their kids -when my son was 2 I took him to 3 pre-school places and the one I chose was the least...

26 Jun 10

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Do you feel that God loves you?

knicnax @knicnax (2233) • Philippines 24 Jun 10

Can you feel that God loves you? How does God manifest his love for you? For me, I feel God's love when I see trees, flowers, anything that is bursting with life. I feel so blessed that God made me to enjoy these things. Seeing...

god

love

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goldie77 yes,I feel God loves me.I am a single parent and by natural laws should not be able to live the life that I lead-not that I'm wealthy, don't get me wrong -but God enables me to work part-time,spend a lot of time with my children and do what I love the most...

24 Jun 10

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Just joined Bukisa... Any suggestion?

getbiswa2000 @getbiswa2000 (5544) • India 2 Jun 10

Hello dear members, I finally joined and started writing in Bukisa. Though I heard about it before, I got to know about it in more details from one of my fellow myLotters whom I call sister. She helped me much in knowing about...

bukisa

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goldie77 if you're a good writer you could also join hubpages. I hardly make anything on the other two but make more on hubpages

23 Jun 10

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Becoming the person you once were!

med889 @med889 (5941) 20 Jun 10

How to become someone who once were before being in a relationship? I want to become myself as I was in the past before knowing someone whom I once loved. I want be "me" now and giving myself the only importance instead of letting...

past

present

way

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goldie77 I know what you mean -I was a much more cheerful, happy go lucky person before my ex ran me down so much I lost all my confidence and now I suffer intermittent depression but I'm slowly becoming my former self

21 Jun 10

I am Broke! I need to make some extra money online, any suggestions?

gunsirit @gunsirit (90) • Malaysia 18 Jun 10

I got myself into a serious financial problem due to a very bad money management. I had a couple of bank loans which I used to invest into the Forex market. Since I don't really have a solid background on Forex trading, I ended...

bad money management forex trading loose money bro

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goldie77 I am also in a bad financial situation and trying to earn money online but with a realistic idea that this will take several months of hard work to earn something worth having. I spend hours a week writing and linking articles -you need to work very hard to do...

20 Jun 10

Being your own boss

chipesterkhan @chipesterkhan (2925) • Philippines 13 Jun 10

Hello, So you've entered the entrepreneur world there's only 2 ways to go... do it half way or plunge head first all the way which one will you pick? There will be a lot of obstacles along the way... money...

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goldie77 I agree completely. I have written an article about much the same thing although foe me, sitting at my desk all day isn't the best thing for me. I do sit at my desk for about 4 hours a day but I also sit other places with a wireless laptop-such as my garden or...

14 Jun 10

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Sitesthat have paid me,and what others are using to make money online

bryanwmc @bryanwmc (1051) • Malaysia 13 Jun 10

PTCs== incentria , donkeymails ,neobux , Upbux (before they dissappeared) Buxmatrix ,wordlinx, Low risk means to earn Adsense..need to start a blog or blogs.More the better,more adds to display,but must be versed in generating...

earning online

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goldie77 I like to write so I write for Triond and Bukisa and Hubpages. Hubpages seems to pay far more than the other too so far but it's still early stages

13 Jun 10

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