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happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 28 Aug 07

oh my goodness. i am so upset right now. i have a part time job- i only work about 12 hours a week. for the most part i consider myself a stay at home mom. well, i think my husband is a little confused about this title. he thinks...

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happy2bmommy i wish this would work with him. he does get the boys to himself 3 days a week for 4 hours, while i am at work. the only difference is that he is more concerned about proving a point to me. while i am at work, he will pick up a little bit around the house. he...

28 Aug 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 28 Aug 07

oh my goodness. i am so upset right now. i have a part time job- i only work about 12 hours a week. for the most part i consider myself a stay at home mom. well, i think my husband is a little confused about this title. he thinks...

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happy2bmommy you are so right! i do need to tell him how i feel. he isnt a mind reader, and if i dont tell him what i feel, he might just keep on making these kind of hurtful remarks. thanks for the advise, and im happy for you that your husband is more sincere than mine....

28 Aug 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 21 Jun 07

i have been wanting to sit back and relax with a great tasting wine. the only problem is that i cant find a great tasting wine. i would prefer a red wine, but i am open to any that are enjoyable. i have tried some that are too dry...

alcohol

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happy2bmommy thanks for your response. i have never heard of this wine, but i will look for it. i hope its "the one" haha.

21 Jun 07

sandeep_2991984 @sandeep_2991984 (675) • India 5 Apr 07

i visit two or three times in a week since i dont get enough time after joining my new job. before joining my new job i spent 3 to 4 hours daily in mylot.com. i just love mylot.com.

mylotcom

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happy2bmommy i like to come on once a day. i dont always get to write as much as i would like to, but i do come on at least once per day. there are so many good discussions that i would like to participate in. there are just times that i dont have enough time to get to...

5 Apr 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 20 Mar 07

my dad owned his own little grocery store when i was born. he always jammed it into my little head that it would be my store when i grew up. being so young, i didnt think much of it. as i got older, i realized that i didnt want...

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happy2bmommy that is wonderful. if the children have an interest, the parents should just go with the flow. it isnt right to force them to try to get into something that isnt in the childs heart to begin wiht.

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 20 Mar 07

i had my husband, my mom, and my mother in law in the delivery room with me while i was giving birth. i didnt have any "rules" for my mom or mother in law, but i did have one for my husband - do not look down there when the baby...

birth

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happy2bmommy oh really? would you have wanted him in the room with you?

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 20 Mar 07

i had my husband, my mom, and my mother in law in the delivery room with me while i was giving birth. i didnt have any "rules" for my mom or mother in law, but i did have one for my husband - do not look down there when the baby...

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happy2bmommy haha, moms! gotta love them. but at least you did it your way and now she knows what a tough woman you are. i have always told my husband not to worry about me. i know myself the best and if i cant handle it, then i will know that i have to give up. but i know...

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 18 Mar 07

i was never the kind of person that had a vision of what my wedding was going to be like. in fact, i had no intensions of ever getting married or haveing a family. BUT when i met the right guy, and he proposed, all of a sudden, i...

got married

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happy2bmommy thats too bad, well, maybe this means that you can have a renewal ceremony, and make it what you dreamed of.

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 18 Mar 07

i was never the kind of person that had a vision of what my wedding was going to be like. in fact, i had no intensions of ever getting married or haveing a family. BUT when i met the right guy, and he proposed, all of a sudden, i...

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happy2bmommy yup! i think thts my regret too. i wish i had invited more people but oh well, the important people in our lives were there, and thats all that mattered to us that day.

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 18 Mar 07

i was never the kind of person that had a vision of what my wedding was going to be like. in fact, i had no intensions of ever getting married or haveing a family. BUT when i met the right guy, and he proposed, all of a sudden, i...

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happy2bmommy how memerable!!! i bet it was sooo much fun and comfortable...well, kinda :) thats good that you didnt let the little things ruin the day for you.

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 22 Mar 07

and your baby is now about a 2 years old, would you want to get your real baby back in order to make things "right"? would it be making it right because now both of the families have the correct gened child? would it make things...

birth

switched

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happy2bmommy there is no way i would be able to give away a little baby that i have loved and cherished for 2 years....even a month! there is an immediate bond that would be so hard to break, i cant imagine giving that child back. it would also break my heart to imagine...

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 22 Mar 07

and your baby is now about a 2 years old, would you want to get your real baby back in order to make things "right"? would it be making it right because now both of the families have the correct gened child? would it make things...

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happy2bmommy oh my goodness! that is so scary! i think i might be tramatized just knowing how close to a mix up there could have been!!! thank goodness everything was clear for you and your son!

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 22 Mar 07

and your baby is now about a 2 years old, would you want to get your real baby back in order to make things "right"? would it be making it right because now both of the families have the correct gened child? would it make things...

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happy2bmommy but dont you think your heart and the childs heart would be aching? i think it would hurt me too much to imagine "my" baby being scared with people it doesnt know. at the same time i think i might get really depressed because that is the baby that i raised and...

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 22 Mar 07

and your baby is now about a 2 years old, would you want to get your real baby back in order to make things "right"? would it be making it right because now both of the families have the correct gened child? would it make things...

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happy2bmommy that would make me sad too, if the child decided that he or she wanted to go back to its "right" family. but being a mom, you would only want what is going to make your child happy as long as it isnt harmful to them. so so true.

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 22 Mar 07

and your baby is now about a 2 years old, would you want to get your real baby back in order to make things "right"? would it be making it right because now both of the families have the correct gened child? would it make things...

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happy2bmommy yeah, i cant imagine giving up a part of you, because thats what the baby is at this point, a part of us. we have raised it and givin it our love. i would just hope that the children would understand why we made the choice we did.

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 22 Mar 07

and your baby is now about a 2 years old, would you want to get your real baby back in order to make things "right"? would it be making it right because now both of the families have the correct gened child? would it make things...

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happy2bmommy it did?!?! oh my goodness how terrible. i am so sorry this happend to you and that you are scarred by this. i dont even know how i would feel if i were in your shoes. i was only thinking of how i would feel, being that i am a mom. but, why do you hold it...

24 Mar 07

ZenDove @ZenDove (698) • United States 22 Mar 07

I found out recently, after being married for almost 2 years, that my husband told me a lie during our courtship. Technically, not a very big lie but one with a huge impact. We had been dating for about 2 months and I had my...

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happy2bmommy this is so true! omg. i feel the same way about the lies. i mean, yes, if the guy loves you, then why does he feel he has to lie. you are so right to say if he lied about this one thing, and there was no reason to lie, then what other, BIGGER lies has he told...

24 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 22 Mar 07

and your baby is now about a 2 years old, would you want to get your real baby back in order to make things "right"? would it be making it right because now both of the families have the correct gened child? would it make things...

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happy2bmommy this is so true. i didnt even think about the health history! wow, that one completely slipped me. but you are so right. i would hope that the kids wouldnt be unable to forgive the 2 sets of parents. i would hope that the kids would one day be able to...

23 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 22 Mar 07

and your baby is now about a 2 years old, would you want to get your real baby back in order to make things "right"? would it be making it right because now both of the families have the correct gened child? would it make things...

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happy2bmommy right, but us, as adults understand what is going on and why things are happening as they are. even though the baby is still a baby and probably wont remember it when they grow up, isnt it possible that maybe it is making a deeper impact on their mentality?...

23 Mar 07

happy2bmommy @happy2bmommy (305) • United States 22 Mar 07

and your baby is now about a 2 years old, would you want to get your real baby back in order to make things "right"? would it be making it right because now both of the families have the correct gened child? would it make things...

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happy2bmommy yes, my son is also 17 months old and there is no way on earth that anyone could convince me to switch him. 17 months doesnt sound like much time, but its enough to be completely in love wtih that child. :)

23 Mar 07

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