happy2bmommy

@happy2bmommy (305)

United States • Age 45

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Would you allow your husband to have a woman friend?

kimberlydax @kimberlydax (35) • United States 28 Aug 07

Would you allow your husband to have a woman for a friend? Would you allow him to see her for drinks, if he said they were just friends? Would about go to dinner or travel?

husband has woman friend

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happy2bmommy in the very beginning of our relationship, i might have been ok with it. i had guy friends, and it was just that, friends. it wasnt until our relationship got more serious that he (he was my boyfriend at the time) said that he didnt like me having boy-friends....

28 Aug 07

How soon is too soon to have another child?

kimberlydax @kimberlydax (35) • United States 28 Aug 07

I am now pregnant with my second child, I already have a 20 month old. Some people get pregnant 2 months after they have a baby. Is this too soon to have another? I say it all depends on if the second pregnancy was an "opps" or if...

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happy2bmommy in my opinion, this is all up to you and your husband. this is nobody elses business and nobody should make negative remarks about your personal choices. its your life, not theirs. if you and your husband feel that you are ready for another, all the best to...

28 Aug 07

Would you exchange your being a mother with another role in life?

Arice @jeanne94668 (478) • Philippines 14 Jul 07

I would not, though being a mother is hard, I love being a mother. I love watching my kid grow up and learn that she has learned a lot from all my hardhips in raising her. Cooking for her, preparing her lunch pack to school....

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happy2bmommy never. i wouldnt even give it a second thought. after i had my first baby, i realized that being a mommy WAS the meaning of my life. i love seeing my boys grow and develope intellectually. i take pride in how fast they are learning and in how they behave. yes,...

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Do you think your partner is smarter than you and does it bother you if they are

chileman @chileman (967) • Australia 15 Jul 07

I have a good job but didn't really get a chance for any extra education after school as my parents back then couldn't afford it. My wife did secretarial studies and I believe is smarter than me anyway in many things. Doies it...

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smarter

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happy2bmommy i wont say that my husband is smarter than me completely. ther are topis that he is more informed on that i am. yet, there are things that i am more educated on than he is. there are times when i feel that he is trying to test my intelligence...but actually it...

15 Jul 07

Birth Control after having a baby

tiffthone @tiffthone (193) • United States 15 Jul 07

Which is the best to take while breastfeeding? I got the depo shot, and it messed me all up! I was on my period for a solid 7 months straight. I only got the shot one time. After 3 months, I switched to ortho tri cyclin. I also...

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happy2bmommy oh you poor thing! i would hate to be on my period for so long! for me, things work the opposite. once i am on the shot, my period goes away. i knew that after i had my second son, that i wanted to get back on the shot. my life is so hectic already, i dont...

15 Jul 07

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do your kids love bath time

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 11 Jul 07

my 4 year old can spend an hour and a half in the bath every night. when she gets out the water is freezing. she really loves playing in the water. are your kids the same way or do they hate bath time?

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happy2bmommy when my son was younger, he loved bath time. he would go around chanting the word "bath" just about all day. when i would be getting him undressed to get into the tub, he was already trying to jump in even though he was still wearing socks and a diaper. now he...

11 Jul 07

How much sleep should toddlers be getting during the day?

daniellegldn @daniellegldn (255) • Australia 11 Jul 07

I know it would most often depend on the child but I just cant seem to find any answers on the net or from other parents.My little one is only 16 months old and he sleeps 12 hours during the night but every 3 hours during the day...

parenting

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happy2bmommy i think you are right, every child is different. my son, who is now 20 months old, has always (and still does) hated, and i mean HATED, to go to sleep. he is never willing to take nap even though he cant stop yawning, and his eyelids are bright red from all of...

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Chocolate for a Womens Soul Volume 2

jess368 @jess368 (3368) • United States 21 Jun 07

Have you read any of these books? I just finished it, and most of the stories made me so happy! I cant wait to read another one. Do you love them as much as i do? Which one has been your favorite? Do you have any recommendations...

book

chocolate

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happy2bmommy no, i have never heard of this before. now i am intersted in reading it though. are they anything like the "chicken soup for the...(fill in the blank)...soul"? if so, then i really want to read these stories. the stories from the chicken soup books are so...

21 Jun 07

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Do you have any good book recommendations?

ma_belle @ma_belle (1357) • United States 20 Jun 07

I have a long flight coming up soon. Do you have any good books that I can read during this flight? Thanks

long flight

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happy2bmommy i just finished reading "the five people you meet in heaven" by mith albom. it was very interesting and it really makes you think about all the people you encounter in your everyday life. i guess it just made me open my eyes and realize that the five lessons...

21 Jun 07

Is it really cheating if you've only dreamed it?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 21 Jun 07

Do you think it's cheating if you dream about having a romantic relationship with someone other than your spouse or partner. I'm not saying that you would actually have an affair with another person. But, do you think a...

relationships

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happy2bmommy no, i wouldnt consider this cheating at all. i dont even think it means that you necessarily want to cheat either. i think there is a hidden meaning behind dreams. i would say to think about who that person was that you are cheating with. what do you really...

21 Jun 07

Song you love to hear during your wedding....

olyngurl @olyngurl (149) • Philippines 21 Jun 07

What soing would you love to hear when you will be walking in the aisle to meet you partner forever.. Mine would be "To Have And To Hold".. I really love this song.. It is not too popular but the lyrics and m,elody of the song...

relationships

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happy2bmommy well, i am already married, so i have already heard my song. i went the traditional route. i had a quartet play "canon d" as my bridal party and then me with my dad, walked down the aisle. the song that played when we walked into the reception hall was by...

21 Jun 07

do you mind if your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend send message to him?

angela2006 @angela2006 (1845) • China 4 Jun 07

yesterday is my boyfriend's birthday,I did not bought any gift for him,which made me feel guity.like every commen day,we only went out to have a dinner.after that,we went home.then he received a short message,which was sent by his...

boyfriend girlfriend message mind

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happy2bmommy ok, i can kind of relate to you. if i had found out that an ex had sent my husband a message, i would have been a little upset. it is not his fault that she sent that message. BUT i would have got very mad if he has responded back to her. the only difference...

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Would you go for someone you're not physical attracted to?

ifinallyfoundmybaby @ifinallyfoundmybaby (1742) • Philippines 4 Jun 07

Physical looks fade away with time, but the goodness of the heart will always remain.

relationships

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happy2bmommy yes, and i did. i even married him. even though i didnt find him physically attractive, i loved the way he made me feel when he was with me. he made me feel so special and loved. he would go out of his way to show me a good time. i knew he loved me. i didnt...

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Do you wear a ring around your finger?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 4 Jun 07

This discussion is for both males and females (amoebas pls refrain), young and old, married and single (whichever stage). The concept of wearing a ring is certainly not a new one. It stretches far back to the year XYZ (pls do...

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happy2bmommy oh i am so pround to wear my 2 most important rings. the first one is of coarse my wedding ring. how much more can i symbolize that i am so in love with him? the only time i take it off is when i am cleaning with harsh chemicals. the other ring i wear is on my...

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Do you tell her she should leave him?

killahclaire @killahclaire (3665) 31 May 07

If you had a friend who was in a relationship that you odn't think is worthwhile would you tell her? If you felt that she was being mistreated but was in love would you tell her? How involved in your friends relationships do...

people

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happy2bmommy i do have a friend who was in a very abusive relationship. but i already know that as much as other people tell you that you should leave that guy, you are going to stay with him until your heart tells you to leave him. i would always tell her that she would...

4 Jun 07

How often do you talk/communicate w/ your mother? (if she doesn't live with you)

ladymoonstone143 @ladymoonstone143 (1507) • United States 31 May 07

I just spent an hour talking to my mother on the phone earlier. She is back in my native country and I never fail to call her every Saturday night for the past 6 years. I call and talk to her too during special occasions....

communicating with your mother

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happy2bmommy i am so surprised that my husband hasnt got upset with me yet, because i talk to my mom so often. i would say that i talk to my mom at least once a day. even if its just for a few minutes, we talk every single day. she only lives about 20 minutes away from me,...

2 Jun 07

bored stay at home mom

pajmaz @pajmaz (134) • United States 1 Jun 07

This is for all the stay at home moms(or dads). I get so bored with the everyday routine of playtime, lunch time, nap time, and clean up time. Often while the kids are watching the cartoons and I'm cleaning up, I'll dance and sing...

bored housewife

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happy2bmommy that is so funny. i also do this. i dont really do it to entertain myself though. i do it to see if i can get my son to dance with me, or to see if it will make him laugh. if either of those two things happen, then i am entertained. haha. i love to see him...

2 Jun 07

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Stressed out over my 2 yr. old...

warriorsdaughter @warriorsdaughter (791) • United States 1 Jun 07

The past few days have been awful here! This child is driving me nuts! I was doing the dishes yesterday and he snuck into the fridge and got a dozen eggs out. How I didn't hear him I am not sure, I must have been in la la land....

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happy2bmommy oh no!!! this sounds so scary! my son is 19 months and is starting to act out. we also have a 2 month old, and it seems like each day, our older son keeps testing his/our boundries. he tries to poke at the babys eyes, throwing things at him, and pulling his...

2 Jun 07

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