idealisticrealist

@idealisticrealist (5)

United States • Age 42

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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I'm The Strongest Person I Know, and Sometimes That Sucks

idealisticrealist @idealisticrealist (5) • United States 13 Jun 12

I am a pretty strong, well grounded person. I handle crisis pretty well. In fact, I almost function better during major crisis than I do when things are calm. I like to think of it as a talent, one that has been very beneficial at...

shoulder to cry on

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idealisticrealist Lol... I almost said in the post that maybe there was a reason I found mylot.... I don't hold things in as much anymore & totally understand your comment that all of your friends/family would probably respond furiously. That is one of the good things about...

13 Jun 12

I'm The Strongest Person I Know, and Sometimes That Sucks

idealisticrealist @idealisticrealist (5) • United States 13 Jun 12

I am a pretty strong, well grounded person. I handle crisis pretty well. In fact, I almost function better during major crisis than I do when things are calm. I like to think of it as a talent, one that has been very beneficial at...

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The secret to living a charmed life.

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 12 Jun 12

There is a secret to being happy, to living a charmed life. You do it by causing others to live a charmed life. You must be the source of charm, of charming moments and experiences, in the life of another. Be everyone else's...

charming moments

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idealisticrealist Some people are just born miserable, or worse... raised in misery. No matter how much kindness, patience, understanding, or unconditional love you show them, they only return it with selfishness or hateful actions. It's just their nature. It would be nice if...

13 Jun 12

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I am confused

jahernandezrivas @jahernandezrivas (11288) • United States 10 Jun 12

My friend called and asked me to watch her daughter while she was at work because I am not working at the moment well I do work on line but it hardly pays anything but I told her I would do it because she is one of my closest...

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idealisticrealist I would ask her what childcare typically costs her from providers she uses regularly. Give her a slight discount from that amount, maybe 25%, depending on the amount of her usual cost, but prob no more than half. If she is not trying to take advantage of you &...

10 Jun 12

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Now I can see why her husband went with her friend

joystick @joystick (1675) 10 Jun 12

A few months ago I started a discussion about a friends husband going off with her best friend.Well to be honest after seeing that the wife, never wants to stay at home to spend time with him, like married people do, or to be...

husband went with wives friend

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idealisticrealist So, I'm totally new to mylot, & this is my first post. I know I don't have the back story on this but wanted to respond. I guess I could prob read the past posts, but I think I get the picture without doing so. Anyway... Sounds like your friend needs to...

10 Jun 12