invana

@invana (11)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 18 years ago

Stupid is as stupid does.

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Responses (9)

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"You're Fat!" said your boyfriend.

galatea @galatea (686) • Philippines 24 Apr 07

I'm 5'1, 140lbs. I do kickboxing and yoga every other day. I jog every week. I try to eat a balanced meal every day, usually skipping the meat, and piling up on veggies and fruits. Today my boyfriend tells me that I should lose...

accepting your partner

supporting your partner

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invana I feel that it's compeletely necessary to keep a good figure,not only for ur boyfriend but aslo yourself,isn't it?you will be happier ,more convenient,more welcomed by others,if you lose enough weight.However,the most important thing is health.Losing weight in...

24 Apr 07

traffic accident

jiamingzhi @jiamingzhi (84) • China 24 Apr 07

today i meet an accident.i was so scared at that time.i could not imagine what would happen if i were died of the accident.for i am so young and donot marry.more importantly,i have not repay my parents.these twenty years my...

repay

traffic accident

work hard

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invana hha,be careful with ur health.Looking around while going across the road.Life is fragile,as well as tough.

24 Apr 07

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Do you think the Asian Girl part was totally unnecessary?

Bell88 @Bell88 (370) • Malaysia 31 Mar 07

I totally feel they should have made the Asian Girl part's plot that she impacted the other families in some other way. What do you think?

babel

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invana well,to some extent,I agree with you.cause,until the last minute ,the director didn't tell us who was the real murder killing the mother.It leaves a puzzle.However,the Japnese Girl's plot also reveals the theme of the movie. I think the movie is trying to tell...

23 Apr 07

What makes someone you love never talk to you again

DOoziWoOzi @DOoziWoOzi (64) • Pakistan 23 Apr 07

I had a lot of people who I cared for but lost contact with them with the passage of time. Sometimes it was because I dint have enough time or dint care. Did you have someone you really cared for and for some reason lost touch...

people

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invana Of course yes.Don't hesitate to contact them if u want.Life is so busy nowdays,but life is short and full of unexpectation.Tell the one u care for when u have chance.For anyone,to be remebered by others is a happy thing.

23 Apr 07

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How do you find "Pretty Woman" ?

myliezl0903 @myliezl0903 (2726) • Philippines 12 Apr 07

There is no impossible in this world...these are the lines that im counting on.I know that everybody in this world deserve to have someone that will love them back and be happy up to the end..." pretty woman" is one of my favorite...

love

movies

romantic love

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invana well,it's really a romantic and amazing love story.but I insist that such thing will never happen in our real life.Life is not a story or movie,it needs repeating day after day,it's realistic.Such love relationship will be very fragile in real life.

23 Apr 07

It's true that good people live longer than bad people??

Augustta @Augustta (1850) • Poland 23 Apr 07

I heard in past that good people live longer than angry,bad people... Do you hear about this? I believe that there is a positive correlation between the goodness of an individual and his/her years of life. The good individual...

karma

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invana I don't think there will be a certain correlation between goodness and years of life.Also,I don't believe karma.But one thing I'm sure is that ,if you r always kind and do good,you must be always happy.Happiness will lead a long life.

23 Apr 07

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Is presentation really important

Myrrdin @Myrrdin (3599) • Canada 22 Mar 07

When preparing a meal do you care if it looks pretty? Why or why not? Personally I could never be a chef I can't stand all the emphasis placed on making the meal look beautiful. To me cooking is more about tastes than how it...

cooking

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invana I think the looking is really important cause before you taste the meal you can just judge it delicious or not by the appearance.Better looking makes a better appetite.Good appearance ,good smell,good taste,you can't miss any one of them.

22 Mar 07

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Bright career could lead to broken family?

hendika @hendika (59) • Indonesia 22 Mar 07

I'm quite sad today. My best friend will be divorce by end of this month. It's all started 4 years ago, when he got new job offer but have to leave his family. He asked me whether he should take the opportunity and I suggested to...

career

divorce

family

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3 people

invana well,I really think it's not your fault.Men always face two choices,career and family.But our energy is limited you can't handle all perfect at the same time.as for woman,especially for housewife,she needs not only money but aslo love.Whenever she feels...

22 Mar 07

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Young people choosing to go on welfare, instead of working.

kbkbooks @kbkbooks (7022) • Canada 21 Mar 07

It infuriates me that I now know several young people who have come to the age of "adulthood" and instead of looking for a job they go right to the welfare office and look for a handout. I know that some people need real aid in...

support

welfare

work

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10 people

invana Such thing will never happen in developing country like China.Now I am looking for a job.it's really touch and boring.what's more,I always feel frustrated cause of refusal.If there was welfare for fresh graduated in my place,I would choose that too.

22 Mar 07

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