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iluvusabado @iluvusabado (2560) • Philippines 14 Jan 13

my cousin's son was baptized yesterday morning. it's also the child's birthday so it was quite a celebration. there's a lot of food and videoke machine. some bought liquor and it wasn't long before alcohol took over. some of the...

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iva75cpb Yes, it is :) I recently changed it. I love it.Uh...

24 Mar 13

iluvusabado @iluvusabado (2560) • Philippines 14 Jan 13

my cousin's son was baptized yesterday morning. it's also the child's birthday so it was quite a celebration. there's a lot of food and videoke machine. some bought liquor and it wasn't long before alcohol took over. some of the...

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iva75cpb Yes, accepting the reality of addiction is 80% of the solution. The rest is strong will, stuborness, help and support from family, friends and specialists.

21 Mar 13

atprudente6 @atprudente6 (673) • Philippines 15 Jan 13

Lately, many incidents regarding gun firing has shock the world. In Newton America, a man opened fired in an elementary school that took the lives of 26 individual. In the Philippines, a man open fired in his town and killed 7...

gun

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iva75cpb As long as there is no one to take responsibility to take some actions to prevent, or to improve all the surrounding factors, tragedies will continue to happen. Unfortunately.

13 Mar 13

iluvusabado @iluvusabado (2560) • Philippines 14 Jan 13

my cousin's son was baptized yesterday morning. it's also the child's birthday so it was quite a celebration. there's a lot of food and videoke machine. some bought liquor and it wasn't long before alcohol took over. some of the...

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iva75cpb Or they just fail to admit it. Denial of addiction is the most common notion wide spread amongst addicts.

13 Mar 13

iluvusabado @iluvusabado (2560) • Philippines 14 Jan 13

my cousin's son was baptized yesterday morning. it's also the child's birthday so it was quite a celebration. there's a lot of food and videoke machine. some bought liquor and it wasn't long before alcohol took over. some of the...

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iva75cpb No matter how high the alcohol price is, yes, there will always be people to buy it. Sometimes it's an addiction, sometimes it's just for sports. It's a huge industry, just like the tobacco production, that takes advantage of people needs and it will never...

5 Mar 13

sweetloveforeve @sweetloveforeve (13120) • Portugal 12 Jan 13

hi guys i was wondering, what would you do if you cared for someone so much, and he stopped to act as sweet as before, and pretty much avoiding you. would you have the guts to leave him behind? for me, there...

love

past

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iva75cpb Men are simply constructed this way - they find it very difficult to share, therefore - it's difficult for them to ask how other people feel. It's all connected, that's why we are the ones to try and reach them in an attempt to better understand what's in...

5 Mar 13

AussieGal13 @AussieGal13 (377) • Australia 18 Jan 13

I like all my friends but sometimes some can get on my nerves. Like ALWAYS wanting to hang out, or coming over uninvited or one of the things I really hate is when they call, and they have nothing to say. Like we literally sit...

friend

offensive

rant

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iva75cpb Yes, me, too. Thanks

21 Feb 13

AussieGal13 @AussieGal13 (377) • Australia 18 Jan 13

I like all my friends but sometimes some can get on my nerves. Like ALWAYS wanting to hang out, or coming over uninvited or one of the things I really hate is when they call, and they have nothing to say. Like we literally sit...

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iva75cpb Yes, we try to stay in contact, because everyone needs to have friends. Besides, he and his girlfriend are soon having their first baby so I want to stay in touch with her and help her anyway I can.

13 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

Trying to be good, be positive no matter what and be a responsible wife but how could I do that if my husband is not doing his part. I woke up early in the morning to cook our breakfast and not even disturbing my husband's sleep...

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iva75cpb In that case you have to try and have a serious conversation with your husband, if you really want to stop this process while it's still a 'baby". You both need to get to the bottom of the problem as soon as possible, otherwise it can get worse and THEN your...

13 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

Trying to be good, be positive no matter what and be a responsible wife but how could I do that if my husband is not doing his part. I woke up early in the morning to cook our breakfast and not even disturbing my husband's sleep...

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iva75cpb In general notions, that have been ruling the evolution, a man is responsible for supporting the family. On the other hand, women have been growing more and more professionaly and they're not simply housewives anymore. Maybe your husband decided to take a...

10 Feb 13

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36447) • United States 28 Dec 12

and take time to respond back to them while giving a Best Response? Do they even take time to try and respond back, or what? And then do they ever check out and respond back to what others are posting here, especially some of...

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iva75cpb You're doing great, keep up the good work! Have a great day!

9 Feb 13

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dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 24 Jan 13

So, I took my friend and his son back on Monday for drop off (he is divorced and gets his son every other weekend). We hadn't even had time to get across the street from the drop off location before his ex-wife was calling and...

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iva75cpb It's all up from now on

7 Feb 13

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 24 Jan 13

So, I took my friend and his son back on Monday for drop off (he is divorced and gets his son every other weekend). We hadn't even had time to get across the street from the drop off location before his ex-wife was calling and...

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iva75cpb Yes, this is the right decision to make. I truly hope people like us, who previously made that mistake, have learned this lesson and never do it again. Our children, when young, are very fragile and every quake may cause serious traumas in the future, that's...

6 Feb 13

ctryhnny @ctryhnny (3460) • United States 4 Feb 13

Last week I had an appointment with a Vascular Surgeon and I got so upset over what he told me that I didn't think to ask him the questions that I should have and he wasn't very open about my problem. I might go for a second...

psychiatrist

questions

surgeon

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iva75cpb Let us know what happened, hopefully everything will sort out well for you!

5 Feb 13

aubrey @averygirl72 (38007) • Philippines 23 Jan 13

I'm on an endless cycle of feeling so bitter about why things in my life does not happen as I want them to be and I want to be bitter with these lists of people but as of now I accepted reality completely. Past is past and...

let go and move on

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iva75cpb Absolutely. Giving up is not an option if we want to grow ourselves as better humans so the best way to do it is to learn from our mistakes and to listen to people with experience. And, of course, to have a postivie thinking about life.

3 Feb 13

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36447) • United States 28 Dec 12

and take time to respond back to them while giving a Best Response? Do they even take time to try and respond back, or what? And then do they ever check out and respond back to what others are posting here, especially some of...

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iva75cpb This is the main point of our discussions, i.e. discussing things, getting to know people we haven't even seen, finding solutions to various issues, etc. I find it very exciting and very useful. Whether it takes an hour or a year to respond, it doesn't matter...

3 Feb 13

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math21 @math21 (184) • Philippines 24 Jan 13

It is so nice to have many real nice friends but most friend really do come and go. Time will come that you can't stick with them any longer that you have to separate ways. Friends in high school is the very first moment you will...

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iva75cpb Yes, from this point of view it's very useful.

27 Jan 13

mariaperalta @mariaperalta (19073) • Mexico 17 Jan 13

My dad has agreed to buy my home here. Funny thing is, it was his and my moms home. But my mom gave it to me when she passed. Now my dad retires at end of march, and will move back to Mexico. So he calls me and says... Id...

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iva75cpb So does my daughter to me

26 Jan 13

AussieGal13 @AussieGal13 (377) • Australia 18 Jan 13

I like all my friends but sometimes some can get on my nerves. Like ALWAYS wanting to hang out, or coming over uninvited or one of the things I really hate is when they call, and they have nothing to say. Like we literally sit...

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iva75cpb He got offended, yes, but at least he stopped coming uninvited. That was years ago, and in the past year we managed to restore this friendship to the point that we see each other once or twice a year to have some coffee and chat a bit. I hope he learned his...

26 Jan 13

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