jhartana

@jhartana (1084)

Australia • Age 48

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Improve your marriage by not complaining

pogi253 @pogi253 (1596) • Philippines 2 Aug 11

At all times say to yourself I will give you gratitude, do generous things, and complain less, even when my spouse does none of that for me. Every husband/wife wants to hear,” I appreciate the way you work hard to care for our...

marriage

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jhartana After living with my wife for more than five years, I discovered that trust, communication and understanding are the ingredients of happiness in marriage. We will have to stop complaining things and just to follow what is good for both of us.

2 Aug 11

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Talent that go wasted .....

carpediem17 @carpediem17 (1315) • Singapore 19 Jul 11

Recently in the news was a retired former top athlete (in China) who was found begging on the streets of Beijing. Apparently after a tendon injury, there were difficulties for him to find a job or maintain one and he finally have...

impart knowledge

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jhartana I think they did not appreciate potential that every people have and did not appreciate the merits and efforts too. People are God's creation and each of them is unique and also has unique abilities or potential that they should perform it.

19 Jul 11

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Looking Young A Curse?

resutaa @resutaa (144) • Philippines 18 Jul 11

Its a compliment if other people say that your looking younger than your age but on my case, I think I will think again. It happened when I was 20 years old when my former college classmates asked me to hang out with them in a...

funny

looking young

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jhartana I think it is a compliment for me if they tell me I look younger than my actual age. Most people were saying that I am about five years younger in terms of look than my actual age. However few of them did not believe when I told them of my actual age that they...

19 Jul 11

Some had an accident today :(

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 18 Jul 11

Hello Lotters I was busy mylotting this afternoon while my mom's maid was watching a Tagalog DVD Movie, when I heard a shout and a screeching sound. I thought it was just another vehicle that tries to pull of a show. Out of...

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jhartana Drivers must stop the car if they struck other people's car or pedestrians so they can render assistance. It's the road rule that we must follow here. If drivers failed to stop, they will be coward forever. What a poor situation to that lady. If I was...

19 Jul 11

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Do you expect praise for your work?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 18 Jul 11

When we work for praise, we may find ourselves disappointed. Often good work doesn't get as much attention as work that needs correction or improvement. When we set our own goals and achieve them, it can be far more rewarding. And...

disappointment

pleasant surprise

praise

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jhartana I have never expected any praise for my work. The only thing I can do is to work hard and make my boss happy. I am honored only if the praises come unexpectedly from my boss or even my work colleagues. This is the proper way that I know that I have been...

19 Jul 11

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Don't stop dreaming.

0310mg @0310mg (73) • Philippines 3 May 11

When I was 9 years old, I read a letter from my aunt to me in front of my other relatives. She did mention that she wanted to be with me in Los Angeles because I always tell her that I would want to be there or anywhere else...

dream big

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jhartana Don't be discouraged by what other people said. You have to keep believing that what you're dreaming (traveling) could be realised at one day. Traveling makes you to see the beauty of the world and to experience what you have not discovered before. You will...

4 May 11

Will & Kate . . . Really Worth Watching?

Kimberley @CynergyDiva (805) • Canada 29 Apr 11

Everywhere you look on t.v. there's some kind of report or discussion about Will & Kate; their wedding, the kiss, the after parties, the dress etc. etc. etc. I can't even listen to the radio without hearing all the same crap about...

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jhartana The royal wedding was good but it's so much glamorous. Sure they got the cheers from crowds and well-wishers and they are televised across the globe. They got the new royal title too. But for me, it's the royal way to celebrate the wedding. I think that to wed...

30 Apr 11

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why do we get angry?? Answer is amazing!!!!

jjosemadam @jjosemadam (60) 13 Mar 11

Have you ever think why we get angry? Many situations we will get angry right? My philosophy behind anger says "We are getting angry when we are not able to manage the situation" Yes it is right.You think of the situation you are...

anger

angry

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jhartana Before I got married, I am not a person who easily gets angry. Ever since we got married, I did not know why but there were lots of misunderstandings and both of us were arguing each other. Years passed, this year we're heavily concentrating on reducing the...

14 Mar 11

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My husband had his brain scan and thankfully it is good news.

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 10 Mar 11

Last Friday my husband had to have a brain scan and that was due to him being in severe pain with what he thought was head aches or migrains.With him having high bp as well as now being put on beta blockers the same as me the dr...

gym

lose weight

sleep apnea

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jhartana Glad to hear the good news. I am also in dire need to lose my weight too. Hope he can lose more weight, and he will be healthier.

11 Mar 11

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Change your name

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 9 Feb 11

When you were younger, or even now, have you ever wanted to change your name? For me, I always hated my name when I was a younger girl because of the fact that I have a very unique name. In fact, there was even a year of my...

middle name

name change

unhappy with name

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jhartana My current name was already more than good (and nice) enough. So I don't need to change my name and never will. I thanked my parents who have chose good name for me.

10 Feb 11

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Do you avoid eating butter?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15394) • United States 9 Feb 11

Do you not put any butter on bread because butter is fat? I think butter just goes so good with bread, it feels like missing something if eating bread without butter. I know it is not good for us if eating too much butter but......

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jhartana I like to eat bread with butter however I am using low fat, low sugar olive butter. Without butter I cannot eat bread. In my opinion, eating bread with butter is much better than eating bread with ham or bacon.

10 Feb 11

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Do you have problems opening interesting discussions?

Milamber52 @Milamber52 (115) • Belgium 25 Jan 11

Hi myLotters! As a new myLot user it can be hard to open good discussions. You have to make sure that you follow all the rules, give it some content and that other users are wanting to respond. I'm a relatively new member,...

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jhartana I don't have any problem opening any discussions however I believe the topics that I am going to post most likely ever done before by other members. My time spent on Mylot here are always posting comment rather than starting new threads. When I browse threads...

26 Jan 11

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Why Do Some People Just Never Accept Any Help?

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36447) • United States 25 Jan 11

and continue to always think they are right, and always want to treat everyone like they do a child? Personally this is one of my Pet peeves when you have someone constantly wanting to criticize or whatever with you and when you...

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jhartana Let her be like that. I am sure she will learn her lesson soon. You just do your own job and I suggest you not to help her, even if she asked you to help her. I did not try to be mean, but although I don't promote any rudeness in the workplace, but you will...

26 Jan 11