jo_chidim

@jo_chidim (22)

Philippines • Age 38

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the person you are right now

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 29 Jun 07

Never bitter over someone from your past that once became a big part of your life instead cherish those moments because you can never be the person you are right now without the bittersweet past. Whatever we've gone through in...

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why?

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 29 Jun 07

love not because you like that person, nor because you care love not because you know that you can't live without that person instead just love and forget about why

Do you ever really get over your "first love"?

KaraLee @KaraLee (460) • United States 28 May 07

I am curious to hear what people think about this? Do you ever really get over your first love? For me it has been tough at times, Im happy where I am in my life, but if I see his photo or someone talks to me about him, I seem to...

getting over it

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jo_chidim i guess it depends on the person and to the people he/she meets in life. In my case im still in love with my first love, well i'm still young and might still be able to meet a lot of men, and i really hope i'll get over him soon. i don't even know why i love...

29 Jun 07

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what are the things you've done to get over the person you love?

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 29 Jun 07

have you ever thought that you're over a person yet with the smallest stimulus everything comes back. its hard to move on when you're stuck with you're past if you think you've done everything but it still seems that everything...

depression: sudden attack of preconscious (part II)

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 24 May 07

Have you ever felt you are over a person but after some time you realize that you still love that person. That no matter what you do he/she is still the only person you want to be with?? What are the things that you think are...

MeMoRiEs..

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 17 May 07

The reason why people hold on to memories is beacuse memories are the only thing that don't change when everything else has changed. When we've moved on with our lives there are still times that we tend to look back to our...

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jo_chidim These memories wether good or bad are the factors that shaped us to become the person who we are today. we can't deny the fact that the painful memories are actually the things that made us stronger.

17 May 07

iF i you could go back in time... would you change the things you did?

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 17 May 07

(This goes to a very important person to me, if i could go back in time, there are things i'd like to change and things i'd like to re experience) If i could just turn back time, i'd really want to take back the words i've said...

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What time in your life do you have the happiest memories of?

lynpreety @lynboobsy11 (11343) • Philippines 16 May 07

The happiest memories of my life is my high school yrs. I will never forget my friends hangouts "gimiks" my first chrush, my activities in schools coz I'm popular in school I used to join lots of school activities. Aside from my...

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jo_chidim I think my happiest memories was the time i first fell in love.. we didn't become a couple due to a hundred reasons i wasn't even sure if he really felt something for me but all my friends even his friends told me that he did like me.. anyway it really felt...

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MeMoRiEs..

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 17 May 07

The reason why people hold on to memories is beacuse memories are the only thing that don't change when everything else has changed. When we've moved on with our lives there are still times that we tend to look back to our...

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WASTED TIME: one thing you can never recycle

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 16 May 07

we seldom realize the true importance of time. life has become a routine. we wake up, take a bath, have breakfast (@McDonald's or no breakfast at all), go to work, go home, have dinner, go to bed and that will be the same for the...

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2 important things in life

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 16 May 07

1. Don't make any decision when you're angry 2. Don't make any promises when you're happy Emotions can control our thoughts. that is why there are times when we are avle to say things that we actually don't mean. When the...

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Love what an irony

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 16 May 07

Isn't it funny to fall in love with a person you least expect to fall in love with? Especially when you already have this predetermined list in your mind on how the person you should like would look like or what his/her...

express your love

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jo_chidim I think there is no such thing as ideal when it comes to love.. even we, behave odd when we're with that person and i think no one would be able to completely describe love.. because there aren't enough words to describe the feeling when you're with that...

16 May 07

Love what an irony

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 16 May 07

Isn't it funny to fall in love with a person you least expect to fall in love with? Especially when you already have this predetermined list in your mind on how the person you should like would look like or what his/her...

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jo_chidim I definitely agree. Love simply moves in mysterious ways...

16 May 07

Do you believe in love?

stdrst @stdrst (471) • Bulgaria 16 May 07

Do you believe in true love between people?

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jo_chidim Yes i believe in true love and i think true love can be expressed through selfless love. Wherein you would think first about the needs of the person you love before your needs. Don't you ever wonder why out of the many people you meet each and every day there...

16 May 07

Love what an irony

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 16 May 07

Isn't it funny to fall in love with a person you least expect to fall in love with? Especially when you already have this predetermined list in your mind on how the person you should like would look like or what his/her...

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4 hugs/day increases immune system

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 15 May 07

HUGGING your mom, dad, brother, sister, other relatives and loved ones is healthy. Since we were children, it was taught to us that Vitamin C boosts the immune system and its true.. But in addition to that receiving 4 hugs a...

lower anxiety and pain

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FRIEND: a second self

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 15 May 07

Have you heard of the saying "tell me who your friends are and i'll tell you who you are". People tend to go out with people with whom they have similar interests, for the simple reason that they enjoy the same things that we do....

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selfless love

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 14 May 07

The best kind of love that person can give is selfless love. The kind of love weherin you put your needs aside to give way to the needs of the person you love. Some may call it dumb or as the Filipino's call it "katangahan". But...

selfless giving of oneself

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jo_chidim I am very happy that there are people who share this kind of love.. I think people like you can handle any problem as long as that person is by your side.. I hope you would continue loving your wife selflessly and wish that she would do the same too...

14 May 07

selfless love

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 14 May 07

The best kind of love that person can give is selfless love. The kind of love weherin you put your needs aside to give way to the needs of the person you love. Some may call it dumb or as the Filipino's call it "katangahan". But...

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Weight Phobia

jo_chidim @jo_chidim (22) • Philippines 13 May 07

Anorexia nervosa is an eating disorder wherein the person has distorted body image. The person thinks he/she is thick (or in some instances perceives that he/she is extremely fat) whereinin fact he/she is thin or extremely thin...

anorexia nervosa

eating disorder

weight lose problem

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