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inked4life @inked4life (4224) • United States 11 Feb 08

Well, after promising to be around here again, I vanished for a bit to sort out some personal stuff. My wife and I are seperating, very amicably, after 10 years of marriage and I move into my own apartment on March 1st. It's a...

marriage

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jvanfray01 Well buddy, I can honestly say that I feel your pain. I myself am going through the same sorta situtation. I screwed up with my husband and now I am in the spot where I will be the one having to leave my kids. By the way there's another one on the way which...

12 Feb 08

switchblade007 @switchblade007 (35) • United States 12 Feb 08

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jvanfray01 Well, when I married my husband almost 7 years ago, I became a Detroit Red Wings fan by marriage. LOL.

12 Feb 08

jvanfray01 @jvanfray01 (14) • United States 9 Feb 08

Well, this is the first time I am statring a BLOG. I really am not sure of what to do but here I go. I am a mother of 3 ages 7,5,and 3. I just found out that I should be expecting baby #4 sometime early in October. I don't know...

pregnancy

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jvanfray01 I wish that I could move closer to my family but that won't be possible. I have to stay in Tn unfortunately. It gets easier with each kid I think. The hardest transition was going from 1 to 2.

12 Feb 08

jvanfray01 @jvanfray01 (14) • United States 9 Feb 08

Well, this is the first time I am statring a BLOG. I really am not sure of what to do but here I go. I am a mother of 3 ages 7,5,and 3. I just found out that I should be expecting baby #4 sometime early in October. I don't know...

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jvanfray01 I feel that this child was sent to us for a reason. As a reason to put aside our differences at this time and regain our focus back on our family. I wish and pray everyday for happiness. Thanks for your thoughts.

12 Feb 08

jvanfray01 @jvanfray01 (14) • United States 12 Feb 08

How do you know when to call it quits in a marriage? How do you know when to just let go and say enough is enough? I have made my fair share of screw ups but nothing compares to my last one. It was the final straw for my husband....

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jvanfray01 I know I shouldn't have dont that. Believe me I know. I feel that we should try for these kids. They didn't do anything wrong and it's unfair to punish them for my screw up.

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jvanfray01 @jvanfray01 (14) • United States 12 Feb 08

How do you know when to call it quits in a marriage? How do you know when to just let go and say enough is enough? I have made my fair share of screw ups but nothing compares to my last one. It was the final straw for my husband....

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jvanfray01 Thanks. I appreciate it. Praying is the only thing I know to do. I am desperate.

12 Feb 08

jvanfray01 @jvanfray01 (14) • United States 12 Feb 08

How do you know when to call it quits in a marriage? How do you know when to just let go and say enough is enough? I have made my fair share of screw ups but nothing compares to my last one. It was the final straw for my husband....

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jvanfray01 I had an affair. No, I am not proud of that. I would divorce myself if I were him. I don't condone what I did but we need to put forth an effort for these kids.

12 Feb 08

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jvanfray01 @jvanfray01 (14) • United States 12 Feb 08

How do you know when to call it quits in a marriage? How do you know when to just let go and say enough is enough? I have made my fair share of screw ups but nothing compares to my last one. It was the final straw for my husband....

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kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 11 Feb 08

Our greatest source of joy is our children. I have three, 18, 11 and 9 and naturally wouldn't change that for the world. I'm at an age now that I won't have anymore, but even if I could I wouldn't. Even though I love them, three...

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jvanfray01 I have three wonderful kids ages 7, 5, and 3 and a half. We are expecting number 4 here in October. This one was definitely unexpected but I wouldn't change anything about why it was sent to us. I feel that it is a blessing in disguise but I suppose we will...

12 Feb 08

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jvanfray01 @jvanfray01 (14) • United States 9 Feb 08

Well, this is the first time I am statring a BLOG. I really am not sure of what to do but here I go. I am a mother of 3 ages 7,5,and 3. I just found out that I should be expecting baby #4 sometime early in October. I don't know...

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jvanfray01 At first my husband said he would go to counseling but since then we have worked through all other problems we had except for the major one on the front burner. I did the unforgivable in his eyes and he says he will never look past it. He will always see me...

10 Feb 08

jvanfray01 @jvanfray01 (14) • United States 9 Feb 08

Well, this is the first time I am statring a BLOG. I really am not sure of what to do but here I go. I am a mother of 3 ages 7,5,and 3. I just found out that I should be expecting baby #4 sometime early in October. I don't know...

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jvanfray01 I made an extremely wrong choice for my family and now I have to pay the consequences. Yes, the vows are till death do us part but in this case he has more than likely decided to part.

10 Feb 08

jvanfray01 @jvanfray01 (14) • United States 9 Feb 08

Well, this is the first time I am statring a BLOG. I really am not sure of what to do but here I go. I am a mother of 3 ages 7,5,and 3. I just found out that I should be expecting baby #4 sometime early in October. I don't know...

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Capri07 @Capri07 (2) • Philippines 2 Feb 08

When did u realize that you are truly a sister? Or have you done your part yet?What If your younger sister got pregnant before you?

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sister

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jvanfray01 My brother is 5 years older than me so I always was picked on. He never really did anything with me when I was younger. Then he got married and we became a little bit closer except for the fact that I absolutely hated his wife. Now that they have been married...

3 Feb 08

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