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jainaewen @jainaewen (170) • Philippines 10 Aug 07

do you think its safe

dog

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kiwiTank my dogs keep my children safe, aswell as my house, the dogs keep the kids warm in the winter, and swim with us in the summer,our dogs are our family as well.

10 Aug 07

kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When a 14 yr old boy gets mad at being caught out doing something wrong, and attacks his Dad, Should the Dad Fight back? Even if the Dad has a heart condition and bad legs,? Yes it was me 3 days ago my son(not by blood) let loose...

child abuse against parents

fighting

swearing

volitile abuse on dad

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kiwiTank Well we would send him to boot camp but in this country boot camp is for 17 yr olds and up, there is nothing for 14 yr olds, which sucks. Tough Love we are checking out this weekend, but our comunity worker that comes to see us weekly doesn't think that will...

2 Aug 07

kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When a 14 yr old boy gets mad at being caught out doing something wrong, and attacks his Dad, Should the Dad Fight back? Even if the Dad has a heart condition and bad legs,? Yes it was me 3 days ago my son(not by blood) let loose...

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kiwiTank Well yes he is off the rails, as 5 yrs ago he watched his Dad leave his mum after admitting he was was gay and had been all his life and then 18mths ago he was molested by a fanily friend along with his sister who is 2 yrs younger than him, and both are...

2 Aug 07

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kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When us men have never been told by our Dads that they loved us? Do you think that As a Dad I should tell my 14yr old son I love him when I've never told him that before, I mean I look after him and do things with him, he should...

kissing a son

saying i love you to a son

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kiwiTank Well I told him last night that I loved him and he didn't say as I expected him to, But for someone that has never heard it from his own Dad, i still turned out pretty good, so I don't think telling my son that I loved him is going to change anything,as I...

2 Aug 07

kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When us men have never been told by our Dads that they loved us? Do you think that As a Dad I should tell my 14yr old son I love him when I've never told him that before, I mean I look after him and do things with him, he should...

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kiwiTank When you have a son like mine, its pretty hard to say any thing without him thinking everything is gay as his dad was gay when he left him and his mum, but I did try last night, and I told him that I loved everyone in the family, but everyone was loved in a...

2 Aug 07

kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When us men have never been told by our Dads that they loved us? Do you think that As a Dad I should tell my 14yr old son I love him when I've never told him that before, I mean I look after him and do things with him, he should...

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kiwiTank Well being a son and not actually knowing a Dads love, I don't know what its like for you, and its not pride that was in the way, it was the way I was brought up, But last night I walked into my sons room and as we were talking about something else I said Hey...

2 Aug 07

kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When a 14 yr old boy gets mad at being caught out doing something wrong, and attacks his Dad, Should the Dad Fight back? Even if the Dad has a heart condition and bad legs,? Yes it was me 3 days ago my son(not by blood) let loose...

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kiwiTank you know when he is staying with friends he is nice and everyone thinks well mannered and he seems like an awesome kid to have round, but when he comes home he treats his mother like sh*t and how he treats me has never been a big deal as I've always said to...

2 Aug 07

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kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When a 14 yr old boy gets mad at being caught out doing something wrong, and attacks his Dad, Should the Dad Fight back? Even if the Dad has a heart condition and bad legs,? Yes it was me 3 days ago my son(not by blood) let loose...

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kiwiTank I did ask the cops to do that but they said no they couldn't do it as he is only 14, so then I suggested putting him in a jail with a mean old con and then maybe the con would tell him what its like to be in jail as my son thinks jail is a holiday camp and he...

2 Aug 07

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kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 30 Jul 07

My wife was married to another guy sometime ago,He broke up with her after 2 kids and his admission to being gay, He said he'd known all his life he was gay, and only married her cos his parents were on his backv to get married as...

being gay

forced to marry

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kiwiTank An a**hole is being to nice to him, as I believe if he could he'd pay no money and try not to see the kids at all instead of the one day a week he's sees them and everytime my wife and I want to go away and ask him to look after the kids he finds an excuse not...

1 Aug 07

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kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When us men have never been told by our Dads that they loved us? Do you think that As a Dad I should tell my 14yr old son I love him when I've never told him that before, I mean I look after him and do things with him, he should...

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kiwiTank I always thought I'd shown him that I loved him and I've always put my kids first before me or my wife as she has done the same to them, but to actually say those 3 little words seems just so hard.

1 Aug 07

kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When us men have never been told by our Dads that they loved us? Do you think that As a Dad I should tell my 14yr old son I love him when I've never told him that before, I mean I look after him and do things with him, he should...

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kiwiTank thanks for that its a grand idea and I can see you know what I mean, espoecially since his real Dad walked out on his mum after declaring he was gay, and my son knows it and has had to suffer with it as well, and yeah I'll try what you suggested and let you...

1 Aug 07

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kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When us men have never been told by our Dads that they loved us? Do you think that As a Dad I should tell my 14yr old son I love him when I've never told him that before, I mean I look after him and do things with him, he should...

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kiwiTank Thanks for that but as of 5 yrs ago when I came on the picture his Dad before me had never done those things to him, and his dad decided that he was gay and left my sons mum, now for me to try to hug the boy is an impossiblility and I will say I have tried...

1 Aug 07

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kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When us men have never been told by our Dads that they loved us? Do you think that As a Dad I should tell my 14yr old son I love him when I've never told him that before, I mean I look after him and do things with him, he should...

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kiwiTank how do I show him I love him? why do i have to tell him as he should know by all the time we hang out together, and do things together isin't enough?

1 Aug 07

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kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 1 Aug 07

When a 14 yr old boy gets mad at being caught out doing something wrong, and attacks his Dad, Should the Dad Fight back? Even if the Dad has a heart condition and bad legs,? Yes it was me 3 days ago my son(not by blood) let loose...

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kiwiTank He's my stepson, so I'm letting his mother deal with it,I've taken away his computer, and his stereo, and his art books, and tv,playstation viewing, and it don't do much, I'm so close to charging him with assault but his mum said no, so cos I love his Mum I...

1 Aug 07

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kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 30 Jul 07

My wife was married to another guy sometime ago,He broke up with her after 2 kids and his admission to being gay, He said he'd known all his life he was gay, and only married her cos his parents were on his backv to get married as...

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kiwiTank She really checked me out before she married me again and I don't blame her as she was hurt the first time by a guy she thought she knew,He pulled the wool over her eyes and he laughs about it even now, he also promisded his kids he'd never leave them, but now...

1 Aug 07

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kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 30 Jul 07

My wife was married to another guy sometime ago,He broke up with her after 2 kids and his admission to being gay, He said he'd known all his life he was gay, and only married her cos his parents were on his backv to get married as...

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kiwiTank Hey I agree and to think her self esteem is just a puddle now, I am trying to build her up again in the esteem part but its hard as the guy really tramped on her good,He even told her after he left her that he was out and about screwing everyone, and he likes...

1 Aug 07

kiwiTank @kiwiTank (64) • New Zealand 30 Jul 07

I'm on a bunch of drugs to help with the pain in my leg, as my nerves are playing up and have gone haywire a little, I have a wound that is not healing so my doctors put me on drugs to take away the pain.. And now at 2.20 am when...

doctors dont know what to do

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kiwiTank Oh I'm sorry for your husband, I just never thought that such a small wound could give out as much pain as it is,I would think he could sit in one of those lazy boy chairs I see on tv or is there not beds that lean every which way for the back, I guess they...

30 Jul 07

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