larissa_cai

@larissa_cai (100)

China

Joined myLot 18 years ago

for the best is only bought at the cost of great pain

Responses (42)

larissa_cai's Responses

Love or Hate

eastrologer @eastrologer (192) • Delhi, India 9 Jul 07

Love or hate, what is great, are you late

great

hate

love

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larissa_cai I don't hate. Because hating is no doubt a penalty to ourselves given by the counterpart's mistake.

9 Jul 07

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I set up my time to study but I couldn't concentrate on it..

Ploy1854 @Ploy1854 (59) • Canada 28 Jun 07

My head went blank and I just don't want to study and can't get any motivation to read sometimes. It's the only time of the day that I have to study after I got back from work. Then I started to worry if I don't study now, I will...

student

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larissa_cai Because I think your desiration for the goal is not strong enough to attain it. You may not be interested in what you are learning but have to pass it for your job or something else. I think you should put more enthusiathem, the more you put, the more powerful...

28 Jun 07

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Can you...?

CristiRoberto @CristiRoberto (9) • Romania 28 Jun 07

How many of you can write without looking at the keyboard?

internet

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larissa_cai As we here learned to type at junior school and had to get a typing certificate, I now can type without looking at the keyboard. Didn't you have to learn it at school?

28 Jun 07

My friend needs me BUT...

MorningDew @MorningDew (833) • Saudi Arabia 13 Jun 07

I feel like I can do nothing to help him. I know he is in pain and that he is hurt, yet all I can do is listening to him. He is a very pure and sensitive person. But now he is always sad, bored and depressed... My problem is...

depression

friends

need

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larissa_cai What is his problem? You should let him outlet his feelings instead of bearing it in his heart so deeply and persuade him not to take the pills. I think only when you find out the root of the problem can you help him out and tell him hedging problems is...

13 Jun 07

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how is mylot works?

motai85 @motai85 (12) • Nigeria 12 Jun 07

please am a new member in here for like one week an d i have started many discussions and responds to many too....and the i was pay $0.02..........can anyone tell me aw this work?

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larissa_cai You said you responds to many posts? But the number tells only three. And the money is paid not only for how many responds you made but also for how many words you said. Only certain long responds at least three or more sentences can be paid and $0.02 for each...

12 Jun 07

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if you could be any animal,which one would you want to be?

petitpapa @petitpapa (194) • China 12 Jun 07

if you could be any animal,which one would you want to be? for me,i want to be a swan,it is pure, noble and beautiful.

animal

beautiful

want

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larissa_cai I would wanna be a rabbit for it's also pure and lovely. Sometimes there's no reason for me to love it maybe just for a feeling.

12 Jun 07

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How to upload photo in the profile.

krantib1 @krantib1 (59) • India 12 Jun 07

Hi friends, I am new user in Mylot. It seems to be a nice site. But i dont know how to uplod my photo in my profile. So that my photo will display above my name. Plz help.

photo

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larissa_cai First click "edit your preferences" in green on the left of your home and then you can upload avater.

12 Jun 07

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Separating the Family?

snookumsnort @snookumsnort (313) • Philippines 12 Jun 07

If you were NOT in financial distress, would you take on work that would take you away from your kids? This is assuming you had relatives that you could trust to take care of them? Or would you stay with your kids while your...

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larissa_cai If I were you and were not in Financial distress, I wouldn't be away from my kids as the money you can earn in the future while the time lost with your child and your family, you can never make up for it.

12 Jun 07

Do you use goods made in CHINA? Why do you choose goods made in China?

nnxxqq1982 @nnxxqq1982 (3) • China 12 Jun 07

I work in Foreign company in Shanghai as a sourcing manager. I source many kinds of goods such as bag, luggage, cookware,garment etc. for many giant company, such as Wal-mart. I deeply feel chinese commodity fill in the whole...

chinese goods

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larissa_cai I live in Shanghai China too. So I cannot live without Chinese goods and I also think the goods are good too. Once my teacher told us that if someone come back from a foreign country bringing back some gifts and the chances are that those presents all bear the...

12 Jun 07

When you're mad at someone special, do you tell him or do you just hide it?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 12 Jun 07

If you're mad at a relative or good friend or a special someone, or you hold a grudge against him/her, do you go straight to him and tell what you feel or do you just hide it and pretend that everything's alright? A few weeks...

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larissa_cai I think if the thing won't affact me very much, I will tolerent as maybe he/she has his/her own troubles. But if it is beyond your tolerence and I feel very upset about the thing, the best way is to open up yourself and tell him/her what your feeling is seeing...

12 Jun 07

i am so happy that i have got 10 dollars now.but i am not able to get it......

laiyongjun @laiyongjun (1336) • China 10 Jun 07

hi,good evening everyone. nice to meet you again. i am so happy that i have got 10 dollars now.hehe. now i just want to say:thank you for friends who are supporting me all the time in mylot. thank you very much. but i also feel...

thanks

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larissa_cai Congratulations!! But I wonder how you do this getting lots of responses as I found it difficult for me. -.-!!

11 Jun 07

how many chinese people in mylot? could i make friends with you? thank you.

laiyongjun @laiyongjun (1336) • China 9 Jun 07

hi, good afternoo to everyone. nice to meet you.it is so hot today. i am just curious about how many chinese people in mylot. could you tell me?hehe. i am a chinese man and i also live in chinese. what about you? are you a...

chinese people

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larissa_cai Hi, I'm a girl coming from Shanghai, China. Although I like mylot very much, I don't spend much time on mylot for certain reasons. But it's nice to meet you and I'll be glad to make friends with you.

10 Jun 07

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The power of Positive Thinking - does it really work?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 6 Jun 07

This idea was prompted by something the Vet said about my beloved Lily. He said that what saved her, was not just the medical care she received, but because she was a "wilful little madam" who refused to get depressed in the...

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larissa_cai Sometimes those who hold positive views about bad things maybe those who have sufferred more than others. Because only after meeting difficulties and pulling through the difficulty, can they be more optimistic and know how to cling to such hope and views....

6 Jun 07

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what do you live for? have you thought of this question?

laiyongjun @laiyongjun (1336) • China 17 May 07

today my qqfriend ask me:what do i live for? and suddenly i did not know how to answer this question. i am thinking what i live for...... what about you? could you share with me your opinion? thank you very much.

live for what

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larissa_cai I think most people are pursuit of certain career or achieving something great, which can meet their desire. But it's quite difficult to pursue the career you are dying for sometimes. Some time ago, I am always working for my goal, doing everything to attain...

25 May 07

how to sleep well? could you tell me some advice?

laiyongjun @laiyongjun (1336) • China 16 May 07

recently, i couldn't sleep well. i don't know why. do you have any ideas to sleep well. thank you very much.

sleep well

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larissa_cai I think you may not be too tired to sleep, try to exercise a lot and regulate your sleeping habit, getting up and going to bed at a regular time and remember not to sleep too late for a long time which may disorder your sleeping patten. Besides, great pressure...

16 May 07

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What's The Meaning of True Love..??

traviz @traviz (19) • Indonesia 15 May 07

i think true love is never come to me.. all women that i know only love me from my body & my face i need someone who want love me.. only me... did you want love me..???

love

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larissa_cai Don't try to be too pursuit of something, good tings only occur to you with surprise when you neglect them.

15 May 07

which one do you choose - to be a Millionair or a peace of mind with no money

SHINE333 @SHINE333 (1284) • India 14 May 07

I would like to have a peace of mind.

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larissa_cai I wanna a peace of mind enjoying the tranquility but I don't wanna be a person with no money at all because you can do nothing without money such as the fundamental stuffs to survive in the world. I choose a peace of mind with a little money.

14 May 07