lbenjamin21

@lbenjamin21 (155)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Students in Mylot?

arkramesh @arkramesh (129) 20 Sep 09

Who are all students in mylot? Share ur college life here? if u r interested.

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lbenjamin21 i am a new student this semester i will be attending cardiff university UK in a masters of engineering program realy excited about it. i am already in the united kingdow but classes dont start untill sep 28th

20 Sep 09

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How to overcome depression?

rajeev69 @rajeev69 (17) • India 2 Jan 09

If you need to find support to help stop depression you can find all the guidance in self hypnosis. For more details visit : http://www.happinesswithhypnosis.blogspot.

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lbenjamin21 i am a firm believer of pare and positive thinking. i think that depression is a result of stress, and negative thinking. we all find our self in a state of depression from time to time, and yes i would agree that in some cause professional help is necessary....

2 Jan 09

Would You Agee to Be A Guardian.

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 28 Dec 08

Right before I left work one of my co-workers sister passed, and she had to take her sister children, she is the legal guardian over these children, I don't know what happen to the father. It is 3 children the youngest is 2 years...

guardian

the guardian

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lbenjamin21 i think i would step up to the plate and take on the challenge if needs be it is important for children to be parented by good people and if i think i can be a good roul model and a ray of hope or an inspration to someones child i would do the best i can as...

29 Dec 08

What is the very most important thing in friendship?

celticeagle @celticeagle (167070) • Boise, Idaho 29 Dec 08

Is it having someone to talk to? Do things with? Someone who knows your history and loves you anyway? Some one to talk to?Having someone in your corner? What is the most important part of friendship.

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lbenjamin21 as humans we have a need for companionship and that could be found in a love relationship or a friend relationship and because of this need i think we are drawn to other people. without friends or lovers we would feel lonely. i think all of your questions are...

29 Dec 08

Do you work with your spouse?

Rocketj1 @rocketj1 (6955) • United States 28 Dec 08

My husband is the Managing Editor for our local newspaper. I will often go in and help him with proofreading at night so that he can get the paper out earlier. I am not a paid employee and only volunteer to help out. We get along...

editor

employee

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lbenjamin21 currently i don't but its defiantly something i would like to do if we had a family business. i have a few ideas in mind just waiting for the opportunity to make there ideas a reality. now the question is will we make a good business team i not sure but i...

29 Dec 08

Where Does the Time Go?

jsitko @jsitko (1169) • United States 29 Dec 08

Have you ever noticed that the time spent in front of your computer is totally different than the time away from the computer? It seems that an hour on the computer is way shorter than an hour off of it. I just looked at the time...

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lbenjamin21 well i think its the oppiset for me when i am on the computer at home its as if time never moves fast enough. like this morning or todat rather i am home on vacation and to me it seemed like time was not moving at all. then when i am at work in the office its...

29 Dec 08

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do u believe our everyday life is controlled by GOD

vicky22101984 @vicky22101984 (573) • India 29 Dec 08

do u think our everyday life's activity is controlled by GOD.When we say that all we do is by the order of almighty so isnt it possible that all our everyday actvity is preplanned. It could be like thinking something abnormalm but...

life

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lbenjamin21 i think that God has plans for all of us and i think that he guides us daily, yes he already knows our daily activities but he don't controlled what decisions we make before we engage in these activities. although he might send people our way to inform us on...

29 Dec 08

How many jobs have you had?

CRSunrise @CRSunrise (2981) • United States 29 Dec 08

I've had 8 different jobs in the last 12 years. I know that seems excessive, but there were two different time periods where I had 2 jobs at once. Once was when I was just out of high school, and the other was when I was pregnant...

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lbenjamin21 well in the past 12 years i have had about 5 different jobs. two of which i worked while i was i college and the other 3 were before college one was only a summer job i dint know if that should count but then again i did that same job for about 3 years every...

29 Dec 08

I met this girl on a game.....

Zerric @Zerric (72) • India 16 Dec 08

and she totally broke my heart.....like totally..... i wasn't really into a real life relationship from the game....but she led me on..... and then she found another guy....and she left me....... and now she won't even talk...

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lbenjamin21 sorry to hear about your situation but i think the best thing to do is to move on and let her be. someone better will come along, its not good to lead people on but some people get a kick out of it but remember what goes around comes abound her day will come...

29 Dec 08

Do you live your life based on what people think ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 28 Dec 08

Or do you only live your life the way you want to and do anything that you like. Maybe you try to you best to make your parents ,teachers ,teachers or other members of your family proud. Would you think twice about doing something...

living your life for you

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lbenjamin21 we have to remember that what ever we do will have an effect on persons around us and to make some decisions without considering the effect that it will have on persons close to you is kinda selfish to me. i think there is a difference between asking for...

29 Dec 08

Are you going out for New Years or having a party at your house?

crazydaisy @crazydaisy (3896) • Canada 26 Dec 08

I not sure what I am doing yet but I been envited to allot of partys so I not sure which if I staying home or what. cd

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lbenjamin21 well i am from the Caribbean and on new years day most of us good to church for what we call an old years night church service. the church service normally starts December 31 around 10.00pm and runs until about 1.30 - 2.00am new years morning. this might be my...

26 Dec 08

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Need your opinion, guys?

journey314207 @journey314207 (171) • United States 26 Dec 08

I was woke up late in the morning and really felt depress co`z i really miss my family but i never showed to my husband I dont want him to worried and pity on me what I felt. I tried to hide my feeling all the time, I dont want...

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lbenjamin21 i think its important that you communicate your feelings to your husband or he may never understand how you truly feel. why dont you want your husband to see you as you truly are. its ok to be soft and its ok to let him know that you miss him and need him. i...

26 Dec 08

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Boxers? or Briefs?

Preeton @Preeton (33) • Canada 26 Dec 08

which do you prefer boxers or breifs?

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lbenjamin21 good question, i think i would have to go with the breifs because thats what i wear most of the time. other times its the boxers and yes the freedom is good sometimes but i guess i am all for controuling the situation. think about going to the gym and looking...

26 Dec 08

Would You Be Ashamed To Receive Charity?

grumpybear @ShortyAkbar (384) • United States 26 Dec 08

When I was in high school, they used to have can food drives for Christmas and Thanksgiving. They'd collect all of the can goods and put them in a box with along with a turkey or ham and bags of fruit. They also would take lists...

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lbenjamin21 i think when persons say that they would be embarrassed to receive a charity box, its because they have never been in the position were they really needed help. for me accepting a charity is no problem when i know i have a wife and 2 kids at home that have not...

26 Dec 08

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what are you spending your money on?

MAHESH2008 @MAHESH2008 (844) • India 26 Dec 08

Hi friends my top money drains are tea, milk, mineral water,internet,vehical maintainence,eating out, interest charges on credit cards etc what are your top ten money darins. What are you spending your money on?

credit cards

drain

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lbenjamin21 well my wife is not woking right now so all the money i make goes into food and and bills. we dont have much extra money this year so we plan to stay low key for the season. we did not even buy any gifts this year for friends nor family but hopefully next year...

26 Dec 08

do u expect a gift from ur friends and family?

gaylalou690 @gaylalou690 (361) • Philippines 25 Dec 08

it was my memorable christmas today. cause i did lot of things new to my life. i greet my parents thru kissing them to their cheeks.it was just i was shy but because i was drunk las night i have a guts to greet them. ok this...

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lbenjamin21 no i dont expect gifts but i still intend to have fun today. the family is getting together for a lunch dinner kinds of thing to thats good enough for me but i assume a gift or two will me sheard.i agree with you all that matters is the qulity time spent...

25 Dec 08

when is it too early to start dating again

xxcrimson @xxcrimson (24) • United States 20 Dec 08

me and my girlfriend just got out of a relationship today on our 5 month anniversary it sucksreally bad. but im alright about it and i mean i love her but i mean she broke up with me and says she needs tim eto think about things...

dating

lost

love

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lbenjamin21 this one is on you my friend you got to know if the person you got to know for the pass five months is worth waiting for. from looking in on the outside i could tell you anything but thats because i dont know the full detail of the situation. so in all...

25 Dec 08