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little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 14 Sep 08

I have gotten my hopes up several times in the past weeks because I have gotten numerous job offers (I have taken a year and a half off to raise my children)but every time I have gotten an offer my husband gets an interview and I...

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little_momma We are doing just that. He is the primary income....He currently has a full time job and has the ability to get one easier than I do. That is why I cancel my plans to work when he get something....I'm only going for part time positions and I apply with my...

17 Sep 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 14 Sep 08

I have gotten my hopes up several times in the past weeks because I have gotten numerous job offers (I have taken a year and a half off to raise my children)but every time I have gotten an offer my husband gets an interview and I...

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little_momma It is hard to balance child care cost and your projected income...as a matter of fact, that is why i quit working when I did originally. I had a copay of $204 a month and was only working a few hours a day maybe 4 days a week....My paycheck covered the copay...

17 Sep 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 14 Sep 08

I have gotten my hopes up several times in the past weeks because I have gotten numerous job offers (I have taken a year and a half off to raise my children)but every time I have gotten an offer my husband gets an interview and I...

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little_momma It is horrible and it makes me feel like an idiot to have to keep turning jobs down because my husband can't seem to make up his mind as to what he is going to do. I'm sorry you can't seem to find a job...if its any consilation, I normally have to search...

17 Sep 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 23 Aug 08

Here's the bare bones of the situation: My 4 year old daughter's biological dad has basically been no part of her life. A few months after she was born he took off (not that he was around much anyway) and would only come around...

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little_momma Thanks, I don't think my daughter feels any disappointment yet...I just keep telling her that she can't meet her brother until his daddy calls but i'm not sure how much longer she is going to be patient. I don't even know how long Ryan will have her brother...

23 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 23 Aug 08

Here's the bare bones of the situation: My 4 year old daughter's biological dad has basically been no part of her life. A few months after she was born he took off (not that he was around much anyway) and would only come around...

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little_momma My child has never been told to call my husband daddy or dad. She started calling him daddy the day we got married...literally. We walked in to our apartment from eloping and she looked at him and yelled daddy! He was caught off gaurd by it but I told him flat...

23 Aug 08

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gr8life @gr8life (6251) • Malaysia 14 Aug 08

Hi All, I want to relate my experience with all of you here. Well, again...it is about my family-my husband, to be specific! I really hate his one and only attitude. He likes to make me waiting! Whenever we need to go...

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little_momma *smile* my husband and i normally end up in a heated argument if I leave him somewhere but i don't let it get to me. i just tell him that if he had any respect for me that he would kick it into high gear and not keep me waiting so long. I think the last time I...

15 Aug 08

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little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 5 Aug 08

Ok, I was really hoping that things had changed from when we were dating. About a year into our dating, my now husband, cheated on me and actually moved out on me and the kids for two weeks. We were having troubles getting along...

brandon

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little_momma Thank you. Growing up it was always family first and you can't get much closer than siblings. The way I see it, husbands can be replaced but my brother is always my brother.

6 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 5 Aug 08

Ok, I was really hoping that things had changed from when we were dating. About a year into our dating, my now husband, cheated on me and actually moved out on me and the kids for two weeks. We were having troubles getting along...

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little_momma I agree, but like a lot of young woman out there I thought he would change for us. I know its stupid because they NEVER do change but, love makes you stupid sometimes. Its just another one of life's irritating little lessons :)

6 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 5 Aug 08

Ok, I was really hoping that things had changed from when we were dating. About a year into our dating, my now husband, cheated on me and actually moved out on me and the kids for two weeks. We were having troubles getting along...

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little_momma Thank you. I started my job search today. I will be leaving as soon as I can land a job that pays good. I have to make at least $9.50/hr to cover rent and other bills so I'm applying for all sorts of office jobs and even a housekeeping job at the local...

6 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 30 Jul 08

My dad is my favorite person in the world but when he gets around my kids he is also the biggest pain in my butt! Its only a problem when my kids are on punishment for misbehaving. My 7 year old and 4 year old have my dad wrapped...

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little_momma Thanks. That works for normal kids but daughters are sooo hard headed that when I try that, they just do without. They don't care! I took half of their toys out of their bedroom last October because they wouldn't clean their room (all their favorite toys mind...

2 Aug 08

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little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 1 Aug 08

This one is for all the mommys out there. My husband takes the kids out during all the holidays to spend too much money on gifts I will rarely use or wear because he doesn't believe that the best gift he could give me is a day of...

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little_momma I'm the same way, last Christmas he wanted to get me something bigger than the $20 limit I put on his spending so I made him get me a steam mop :) I love it! He thought I was nuts and when he would tell people what he got me they were surprised I didn't kill...

2 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 1 Aug 08

This one is for all the mommys out there. My husband takes the kids out during all the holidays to spend too much money on gifts I will rarely use or wear because he doesn't believe that the best gift he could give me is a day of...

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little_momma We have only been together for about 3 and a half years and have been married for just over two years. He is really good with my older two kids and our son so handling them out and about isn't a problem for him. I don't know if he feels cheap if he doesn't buy...

2 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 29 Jul 08

Ok, here is the deal. My husband worked as a cook for a restaurant for 3 years, went in on his days off to help every time they called him, pulled doubles and trained new hires even though he wasn't a manager or supervisor....NO...

drawer

jobs

life

unfair work practices

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little_momma His record with the company was unblemished. He doesn't want anything from them now. He went in and got his final paycheck and gave them back the new jacket with the restaurants name and logo on it back to them...he was just given it the previous Friday. They...

2 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 29 Jul 08

Ok, here is the deal. My husband worked as a cook for a restaurant for 3 years, went in on his days off to help every time they called him, pulled doubles and trained new hires even though he wasn't a manager or supervisor....NO...

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little_momma Thanks, nobody else was fired, suspended or even reprimanded. The employee who was on the clock was a newbee that they pulled from the dishpit to train as a cook. It was only his second time being on the line by himself. My husbands relief worker was on his...

2 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 29 Jul 08

Ok, here is the deal. My husband worked as a cook for a restaurant for 3 years, went in on his days off to help every time they called him, pulled doubles and trained new hires even though he wasn't a manager or supervisor....NO...

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little_momma Thanks! Thats how we like to look at it right now. The job he has now pays less so things are tighter and I'm getting ready to go back to work because of it but he is happier at the job he has now and its less stress on him.

2 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 2 Aug 08

Ok, here is the scoop. I started watching a 4 and 5 year old boy from my daughters preschool about 5 weeks ago because their mom had to go back to work to afford a new car payment and rent. Their mom never wanted to talk to me...

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little_momma I've paid my little brother $50 for about 4 hours once...and that was back when I only had one! Like I was telling my husband about the situation I was in, I wasn't trying to make a lot of money off her, I wanted to help, but even when I was a teen I would...

2 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 2 Aug 08

I was watching two little boys a week or so ago (4 years and 5 years old) and the 4 year old urinated on my 4 year old daughters leg outside. I wanted to strangle him!!! I didn't however, what I did was sat him down and asked him...

children

kids

yuck

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little_momma Thank you. I wasn't sure at the time what the right thing to do was. I just couldn't believe he had done it!

2 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 1 Aug 08

With all of the new systems out there which one is your favorite or which ones to you own. At our house alone we have a super nintendo, wii, Xbox, atari, playstation, PS2 and a sega.

playstation ps2

super nintendo

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little_momma I love my sega too. I played sonic the hedgehog on it all the time...and a game that was so stupid that it was adicting called toejam and earl (two aliens, like 5 levels, and pointless...but fun somehow) I actually went and bought Sonic and the secret Rings...

2 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 1 Aug 08

With all of the new systems out there which one is your favorite or which ones to you own. At our house alone we have a super nintendo, wii, Xbox, atari, playstation, PS2 and a sega.

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little_momma I think the wii is fun and with having kids its good. My 7 and 4 year old like to play some of the simpler games. I noticed that it has quite a few of the same RPG's as the playstation systems like zelda and prince of persia. Its also a hoot getting a few of...

2 Aug 08

little_momma @little_momma (198) • United States 29 Jul 08

Ok, here is the deal. My husband worked as a cook for a restaurant for 3 years, went in on his days off to help every time they called him, pulled doubles and trained new hires even though he wasn't a manager or supervisor....NO...

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little_momma That is horrible. I am sorry to hear that.

1 Aug 08

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