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lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 25 May 10

My brother and fight, as any siblings do, and when we do, sometimes... or everytime nowadays.. things get very heated, very fast. It seems to get worse and worse every year and I have been hoping that it was just because we live...

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lucyland Yeah, Mom's tend to do that. Just don't go shopping with her. Or you could try telling her that she's being hurtful. I highly doubt she continue to be so persistent with criticism if you tell her how much she's affecting you by her criticism. I had to tell my...

26 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 25 May 10

My brother and fight, as any siblings do, and when we do, sometimes... or everytime nowadays.. things get very heated, very fast. It seems to get worse and worse every year and I have been hoping that it was just because we live...

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lucyland I understand that. He had asked me if things were ok or not. I said no, and was trying to explain why. I did try to word my phrases as to be the least inflammatory, but he still got enraged. There comes a point of closeness with people that a certain...

26 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 25 May 10

My brother and fight, as any siblings do, and when we do, sometimes... or everytime nowadays.. things get very heated, very fast. It seems to get worse and worse every year and I have been hoping that it was just because we live...

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lucyland I live with my brother and my sister, no parents. I am moving out in June so yes, hopefully that will resolve a lot of things. I understand it's very unlikely that I'm actually the only person who can make him see red ultimately. But, I suppose, right now, I'm...

26 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 25 May 10

My brother and fight, as any siblings do, and when we do, sometimes... or everytime nowadays.. things get very heated, very fast. It seems to get worse and worse every year and I have been hoping that it was just because we live...

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lucyland I didn't start showing fear until very recently but I will bear that one in mind. Thanks

26 May 10

Lxandra79 @Lxandra79 (1535) • United States 25 May 10

When my mom and I fight, we exchange words that we don't mean, and it lasts for a couple of days. Now that I don't live with her no more its sad, because when we did live together we fought and we made up the next hour or the...

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lucyland Yeah, I know. It does hurt both ways. My Mom is incredibly religious and some things....sadly just have to agree to disagree. But she hates this. Luckily, it means the subjects to avoid have got a bit easier to sense. I hope your mother gets better about the...

25 May 10

cheatedaphrodite @cheatedaphrodite (810) • Philippines 25 May 10

Just want to make this short. A man together with her daughter was traveling home in a deep narrow steep-sided road. His dad was tired driving all day while his 4 year daughter sitting beside him was playing with her doll....

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lucyland Seriously! I love my Daddy. He'd pushed people who hurt me of a cliff...

25 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 25 May 10

My brother and fight, as any siblings do, and when we do, sometimes... or everytime nowadays.. things get very heated, very fast. It seems to get worse and worse every year and I have been hoping that it was just because we live...

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lucyland Yeah, I can sadly see that happening a bit in our family. My mother's family has 13 and this happens a LOT more in her family. We have 8, 5 girls and 3 boys, (just your opposite). The girls in our family get along much better as we get older, and only one guy...

25 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 4 May 10

So, I was talking to my boyfriend about stripclubs. I really don't care if he goes to them or not because I've been to them before and, at least in Canada, there's not much to be threatened by. Sure they can do crazy things while...

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lucyland :) I guess. I suppose part of me is still being young and idealistic, but truthfully, there will always be someone hotter than you and I would rather he come home to me. I suppose the fear is that it takes away from your attraction or even feelings towards...

25 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 3 May 10

So I have had a few of problems with sustaining my male friendships. I find that as much as I think we have an understanding that the friendship is platonic, either our signals will get crossed or something. Next thing I know, I...

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lucyland Thanks ybong007. I think I was seeing it as negative because I was afraid it would ruin our friendships. Nice to know otherwise.

25 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 1 May 10

Would it challenge terrorists? Simply offend the whole Islamic culture? Or finally express that freedom of speech does exist for every topic? I recently came across a new Facebook group that is challenging terrorism. The...

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lucyland I think this newscast might clarify a lot of the whole discussion. www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPKNyysrDkE&feature=related

5 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 1 May 10

Would it challenge terrorists? Simply offend the whole Islamic culture? Or finally express that freedom of speech does exist for every topic? I recently came across a new Facebook group that is challenging terrorism. The...

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lucyland Ok, but it is impossible not to offend everyone. You will always offend someone. If you do nothing but try to tiptoe around people constantly, it ends up isolating them more because you are afraid to let your guard down and be honest and familiar with them....

5 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 1 May 10

Would it challenge terrorists? Simply offend the whole Islamic culture? Or finally express that freedom of speech does exist for every topic? I recently came across a new Facebook group that is challenging terrorism. The...

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lucyland Hi Momof3kids! I'm afraid we will have to agree to disagree to the power of a religion to offer the death threat to offenses. I know most major religions used to have that power: a) the Jews - most famous example would be Jesus (don't get into the...

5 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 1 May 10

Would it challenge terrorists? Simply offend the whole Islamic culture? Or finally express that freedom of speech does exist for every topic? I recently came across a new Facebook group that is challenging terrorism. The...

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lucyland YAY!!! THANK YOU!! You actually watched the episode! Wanna hear what Bill Maher had to say: www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmpM-b-IsYY&feature=related.

5 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 1 May 10

Would it challenge terrorists? Simply offend the whole Islamic culture? Or finally express that freedom of speech does exist for every topic? I recently came across a new Facebook group that is challenging terrorism. The...

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lucyland Ok, Divineathena, I understand the argument of underlying issues. You've mad that part very clear. And yeah, they are part of the problem. But all we're saying, is that even underlying factors that promote animosity between whomever (groups of people,...

5 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 4 May 10

So, I was talking to my boyfriend about stripclubs. I really don't care if he goes to them or not because I've been to them before and, at least in Canada, there's not much to be threatened by. Sure they can do crazy things while...

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lucyland :) Noted. It seems like it's more of a thing that the guys at his work are into. Thanks though. It's good to hear from a guy's perspective. And no don't worry, he won't get into trouble over it. He's very trustworthy.

4 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 3 May 10

So I have had a few of problems with sustaining my male friendships. I find that as much as I think we have an understanding that the friendship is platonic, either our signals will get crossed or something. Next thing I know, I...

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lucyland :) Thanks. You're right, and it's great to be hearing that from a guy as well. Cheers!

4 May 10

lucyland @lucyland (54) • Canada 3 May 10

So I have had a few of problems with sustaining my male friendships. I find that as much as I think we have an understanding that the friendship is platonic, either our signals will get crossed or something. Next thing I know, I...

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lucyland Oh this hasn't happened with ALL of my guy-friends. There are the ones where all the boundaries are understood, just like BettyBOOSH. To be honest, I only started having this problem when I moved to Ireland for school. In Canada, I never really had to think...

4 May 10

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