margareta

@margareta (59)

India • Age 46

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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how do you talk to your daughter regarding boys?

Nhea G. @nhea0327 (20) • Las Pinas City, Philippines 26 Jun 07

I used to be a single mother. My first marriage did not work out. Now, I'm afraid that my daughter will make the same mistakes I did. I want to have a good conversation with her without hurting her feelings. And by saying the...

daughter

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margareta you have to be a friend to her more than a mother to discuss certain things. so try talking to her like a friend and explain her what you went through. tell her how you feel and what you feel about her now. i am sure she will understand.

26 Jun 07

When you sleep

keepermykitty @keepermykitty (2573) • Canada 25 Jun 07

is it arestful sleep ? Do you toss and turn ? Do you wake up all hours of the night ? ME ? I wake up all hours , I never get a good night sleep . I do toss and turn even if need to roll over I wake up to do so ... I have...

do you get a good night sleep or

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margareta My situation is not same as your but yes, if i dont have a hectic day then i too cant sleep like you. i do toss and turn and i m awake till 5-6 in the morning. Next day i make it a point i do quite a lot of work, cleaning the house. take care of baby and then...

25 Jun 07

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Do you find it easy to forgive?

fightingistheonlyway @fightingistheonlyway (2658) • Canada 25 Jun 07

Do you find it easy to forgive?

forgive

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margareta We can forgive a person, but its not that easy to forgive anybody depending on the situation. Its very easy to forgive only if we have not got hurt. if we have got hurt and its in your heart always then thou we say we have forgiven, its difficult to forget. It...

25 Jun 07

marriage and family

aizsahsia @aizsahsia (13) • Philippines 30 May 07

i am just wondering if the 4 year itch and 7 year itch is observable in marriage? there are sayings that these stages are critical in a married life cause this will test whether marriage will survive or eventually die.....im not...

marriage and family

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margareta why do you have to be afraid if its 4yrs or 7yrs of your married life. you dont have to listen about all this, which may remain in your mind and create problem thou everything is fine. so far its fine right, hope its the same throughout life. If you are...

30 May 07

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Do you Like Silence?

jaywhiting @jaywhiting (560) • Australia 30 May 07

Silence, its one of those rare things, especially with loud cars, bused and trucks ripping down the street, dogs barking e.t.c But is it a rare event that you like or do you find it too different and too weird? I dont like...

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margareta True,silence is necessary not only to read a book,sometime for ourselves to relax our mind and think.everybody cant read with mp3 on. every individual is different so some may need silence or some may need music. now a days especially in cities because of the...

30 May 07

Do u try to look at those discussions that have a great number of responses?

go4amitshah @go4amitshah (1005) • India 28 May 07

In mylot, while browsing through the discussions, do u try to look at or answer those discussions that have large no of responses already? I want to say that is there is anything in ur sub concious mind that compelles u to look at...

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margareta i look at the heading or topic of the discussion and then respond. Most of the time i find interesting questions in no response section. so i try to respond them. sometime nobody would try to respond the necessary question. i think we should try to respond the...

29 May 07

Frustation at highest.. help!

go4amitshah @go4amitshah (1005) • India 28 May 07

I think its better to share with fellow mylotters. My depression has reached its higest peak. So many reasons behid it. One month back i attended an interview withn a good comapny. i am trying for new jobs as i don't like my...

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margareta Relax, dont get frustrated. when you relax you can think and you can get solutions for your problem. These kind of things will happen not only to you but most of us. Dont get disappointed that you didnt get a job. Keep trying you become strong and get to learn...

28 May 07

do you talk alone sometimes?

napatu @jogie_bien (1103) • Philippines 26 May 07

sometimes when i talk alone, especially whne i think something.how about you?

people

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margareta i do talk alone sometimes. i heard most of the people do talk alone sometimes. when people are alone most of the time they talk to themselves. they talk when they think or when they feel lonely. even when they are happy.

26 May 07

see how cruel life can be!! don't miss

san_here @san_here (207) • India 11 May 07

spare a second! see how cruel life can be It's all about how an end can be! see the picture at http://www.shareapic.net/content.php?gid=67492&owner=saj123 and think a moment,

end

life

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margareta i thought a moment, but really dont know what to say. In which place was this snake found?

11 May 07

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life

sachin1 @sachin1 (25) • India 11 May 07

what do u think about life

life

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margareta Life, thou its four letter word, there is lots hidden in it. Life is not so easy to be described. Life for me is like a puzzle. Every time we try to accomplish some work. once done. there is something next to do. we can choose the way we live. there are ups...

11 May 07

Am I a bad daughter?

arvee17 @arvee17 (730) • Philippines 2 May 07

A couple of hours ago, my youngest sister called up and was asking me to go to my dad's house to check up on him. My father and I stopped talking to each other for like months now. My family is a quite complicated one. My...

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margareta anybody in your situation would react the same towards their dad.Since you know your father better. You took a right decision.You are not a bad daughter. I am sure if he was in worth situation then you would do something as human being not as a...

2 May 07

what is S.A.P

the_style_ikon @the_style_ikon (137) • India 23 Apr 07

do u know what is sap

computer

sap

software

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margareta SAP stands for "Systeme,Anwendungen, Produkte in der Datenverarbeitung" in German. This is translated in English as " systems, applications and products in data processing" SAP is a suite of integrated applications, known as an enterprise resource planning...

2 May 07

Something about SAP????

vikas_cs03 @vikas_cs03 (12) • India 1 May 07

Hi Guys!!!I want to know about SAP.Please tell me whatever you konw....Thanks!

sap

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margareta SAP is a Enterprise resource planning full suite of software functionality for self-services, finance, analytics, human capital management, operations and corporate services.

2 May 07

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Is anyone out there a single parent also??????

liyan97 @liyan97 (2127) • Northern Mariana Islands 2 May 07

I am a stay at home mom with three kids, I attend Anthem College Online. At times I find it hard just trying to get through the day....Are you a single parent who also feels the same way?

struggling parent

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margareta Even i am at home with one baby. i am not a single parent but i understand how it is to get through the day. Especially when we are involved to do more than one thing. I am sure one day you will be happy about this experience in life.

2 May 07

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dealing with senior citizens inlaw

nangkasuy @nangkasuy (83) • Philippines 17 Apr 07

my father-in-law is a difficult man. He always wants to be number one in everyone's priority list. He doesn't listen to explanations, or reasons. When he gives you a task, he expects you to drop everything and do his bidding. When...

senior citizen

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margareta Most of the senior citizen are difficult to be handle, they have their own views which they feel they are always right. You should give little attention to him. Try to understand what things he likes and don't like . If you can try to do things which he like...

2 May 07

what will you do if you know that your an adopted daugther?

jbelle @jbelle (912) • Philippines 2 May 07

I believe that my mom gave me birth and i am not an adopted child. For instance your'e parents will tell you that you are an adopted child? how woul you react? For me i can't figure out i love my parents too much maybe i will cry,...

what would you do or feel if you find out that you

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margareta First thing if the child is adopted, then parents will never let the child know, unless there is a situation where in the child should know about it. If i would be in that situation then i may start feeling that they are doing some kind of favour on me. Then...

2 May 07

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Have you ever fought against corruption?

smileyDevil @smileyDevil (271) • India 29 Apr 07

In todays world, you and I know that in most of the countries, that without corruption, works never happen. Have you at any time encountered a situation where in you had to go through the route of corruption for having your...

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margareta this was 4 months back.i was travelling by autorishaw to my mother's place, before we start of the auto guy puts on the meter to run which indicate the amount per kilometer. After reaching certain distance normally at that distance it should show around Rs 50,...

1 May 07

Why are you looking for "make money online" sites?

HeavenUnaware @HeavenUnaware (1757) • United States 28 Apr 07

Hi! I'm just curious why other people are looking for work at home sites to make money online. I know we all have our own struggles and I'm very in 'touch' with my own struggles to make money to help my family but I want to...

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margareta Hi, I have quit my job to take care of my baby. Now that my house expense is going high, would like to contribute little atleast.Well i have no hope that online business works. Tried many dataentry jobs but nothing worked.

1 May 07