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maxwell12 @maxwell12 (40) • China 22 Jul 07

Today is my birthday and it is my first birthday in Beijing,I came this new city for the first time do I have not any friend here. Fortunately my girlfriend had lived here for some years so she asked some her friends to celebrite...

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maxwell12 Maybe that is my beat choice to stay with my girlfriend,we live together,cook together,watch TV together and go out together. I think she must have realized my loneness and be happy with me , she love me and I love her so much ,I have talked to her that I will...

22 Jul 07

maxwell12 @maxwell12 (40) • China 22 Jul 07

Today is my birthday and it is my first birthday in Beijing,I came this new city for the first time do I have not any friend here. Fortunately my girlfriend had lived here for some years so she asked some her friends to celebrite...

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maxwell12 Thanks for your advice,but I am shy and the major people I face everyday are my classmate because I am very busy and often go out on business. Evertime when I come home I am very tired and I JUST want to sleep.I have not enough energy to make new friends ,the...

22 Jul 07

maxwell12 @maxwell12 (40) • China 21 Jul 07

I am student,so often when my exam scores is not satisfying I may become depressive. For different people,there must be differemt reasons for their depression,shall we share them and communicate the good way you overcome it .

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maxwell12 Today is my birthday but I was not happy because I was lonely,I came to this new big city seveal days ago and has not found any friend.I am 22 year old now and I should live by myself.The loneness brought me much depression and I want to make some new friends...

22 Jul 07

maxwell12 @maxwell12 (40) • China 21 Jul 07

I have heard too many notice that smoking is bad for your health and I think I believe that because when I smell the smoking I feel terrible, moreover, some scientific experiences have cetified its harmness. However ,in my...

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maxwell12 Yes,I know every year thousands of people die from diseases caused by smoking. But I think there are always some questions which are controverial ,I also can see my grandfather,who has been smoking for nearly 50years,but almost no diseases happened on...

21 Jul 07

maxwell12 @maxwell12 (40) • China 20 Jul 07

working in big city is not a easy thing...high pressure...quickly life rhythm...so many boring things... all of us have to choose by bus/subway or drive your pwn car to go to work...and most of us are boring for by bus...there...

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maxwell12 Thankd for your comments.You mentioned a good point.That also depents on how the transportation works.For example ,in my living city, there are millions of cars on the road especially in rush hours,drvining a car seems to waste your time ,instead, public...

21 Jul 07

maxwell12 @maxwell12 (40) • China 21 Jul 07

most of us experience anger in some form or other almost every day. Anger is a negetive emotion, it can cause violence, it can ruin relationships, it can lead to serious illnesses and it is known to kill. Yet, few make the effort...

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maxwell12 I admire you that you can control yourself in public because I cannot do that .Whenever and wherever if something made me unhappy, I maybe angry.Sometimes I even have words with my friends ,I know it's not right,but I always find myself easy and happier after...

21 Jul 07

maxwell12 @maxwell12 (40) • China 21 Jul 07

Here are my collections!look at the photos!

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maxwell12 Actually I have many beautiful 3D crystals and their pohots .However ,what a pity that I can only paste one photo below my post.

21 Jul 07

maxwell12 @maxwell12 (40) • China 20 Jul 07

those days my sleeping period became shorter and shorter, six hours or less per day... But I didn't feel sleepy.I have no idea...Because I usually sleep at least 8 hours or more and get a nap at noon.Has my body something...

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maxwell12 don't you feel sleepy or tired when you are working in the daytime if you only sleep for six hours?you must have a strong body ,how I admire you ,can you tell more ways to control myself?

20 Jul 07

maxwell12 @maxwell12 (40) • China 20 Jul 07

I lived in a big city which I like very much but my girlfriend live in another big city which she likes very much but I donot like .She asked me to come to her city and live with her, but I think I cannot give up my career in my...

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maxwell12 I have asked her for reasons but she said no ones, I am quite confused .I am young and I believe I would prefer my job to love ,because I think success in work can bring me sense of pride, even I was happy staying with her at most time,but to me ,my own future...

20 Jul 07

maxwell12 @maxwell12 (40) • China 20 Jul 07

I lived in a big city which I like very much but my girlfriend live in another big city which she likes very much but I donot like .She asked me to come to her city and live with her, but I think I cannot give up my career in my...

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maxwell12 Thanks for your comments. I have hesitated that for a long time ,there two reasons for living here, one is I love her indeed,the other is she said and I think she cannot leave me ,but...but I really cannot find pleasure in this city.I have asked her to move to...

20 Jul 07

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anousha @anousha (406) • Mauritius 20 Jul 07

I live in a bilingual country with English and French as the official languages. So I've never had problems dealing with 'em. Do you encounter difficulties learning French??

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maxwell12 I learnt French for 2 months long ago but now I nearly cannot speak one word out.Personally I think when you want to learn one kind of language ,you must have two questions for yourself,1,do you need this language or does it make use after learning...

20 Jul 07

maxwell12 @maxwell12 (40) • China 20 Jul 07

As English is the most popular language in the world,Chinese has been accepted by more and more people. In recent years, more and more foreigners have come to China for their interests or other reasons, it is a upward trend that...

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maxwell12 I agree with you, but I insist that language should be just a tool for communication. In current society,especially in China where I live, many people of different ages strive to learn English, some of them even regard it as what makes their life and if anyone...

20 Jul 07

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