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Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 4 Jan 12

I have been through such difficult situation not only once...There are really times when your friend, usually a woman, will just suddenly ask you if she's beautiful...Good if she's really beautiful, but if not...it's really hard...

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Mercedes I know what you mean here, if I'm not wrong...You still think that she can be beautiful, you're right...if she has that inner beauty that comes from a pure heart and beautiful intelligent mind. Yeah...if she has already these traits, I'm sure she will soon...

5 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 4 Jan 12

I have been through such difficult situation not only once...There are really times when your friend, usually a woman, will just suddenly ask you if she's beautiful...Good if she's really beautiful, but if not...it's really hard...

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Mercedes I admire people like you who sees beauty in every person. That means, you look that something good in the heart of every human being. You're right, we vary in our standard of beauty. For most of us, physical appearance or looks is important. And there those,...

5 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 4 Jan 12

I have been through such difficult situation not only once...There are really times when your friend, usually a woman, will just suddenly ask you if she's beautiful...Good if she's really beautiful, but if not...it's really hard...

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Mercedes Yeah,"The truth will set you free..." that's true...and that applies to the one who has to accept the truth though how much it hurts. Or in some cases, to the person who is holding the truth that she or he needs to divulge. Your comment, which is also an...

5 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 4 Jan 12

I have been through such difficult situation not only once...There are really times when your friend, usually a woman, will just suddenly ask you if she's beautiful...Good if she's really beautiful, but if not...it's really hard...

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Mercedes Oh...well, carlotay, I have such great respect for your being a frank person. In fact, it takes a lot of courage telling a friend the truth, opposite to what she expects. But I know, for sure you can convey your answer to her in a way that it doesn't hurt....

5 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 4 Jan 12

I have been through such difficult situation not only once...There are really times when your friend, usually a woman, will just suddenly ask you if she's beautiful...Good if she's really beautiful, but if not...it's really hard...

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Mercedes enelym001, you were doing right in telling your friend she's pretty even if she is not, categorically speaking...It's not wrong to boost the morale of a friend. But you know, true beauty is not so much dependent on the outward physical attributes. It has to do...

5 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 4 Jan 12

I have been through such difficult situation not only once...There are really times when your friend, usually a woman, will just suddenly ask you if she's beautiful...Good if she's really beautiful, but if not...it's really hard...

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Mercedes carmelanirel, you're right that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I too believe that. But this friend of mine failed to analyze her true self because of her pride and egoistic and selfish nature...so hard to tell her something she must do to improve...

5 Jan 12

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Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 29 Dec 11

I've often heard of people in love, that there's such thing as LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. I wonder whether this is just a romantic phrase devoid of truth or it is really a possible thing to happen...and who knows out of it will sprout...

love at first sight

relationships

true love

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Mercedes Chiyosan, thanks for your eye-opening comment which I fully agree. As a hopeless romantic when it comes to love, I believe that love can come out of any situation as what you said. In a way you're saying that love can grow and develop from being a mysterious...

2 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 29 Dec 11

I've often heard of people in love, that there's such thing as LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. I wonder whether this is just a romantic phrase devoid of truth or it is really a possible thing to happen...and who knows out of it will sprout...

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Mercedes Oh...I'm so much touched and amazed with your true to life experience, AidaLily...Yeah, I know in this life there are lots of beautiful things that happen and make us realize..that life after all is not all bad, especially when true love settles deep into your...

2 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 29 Dec 11

I've often heard of people in love, that there's such thing as LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. I wonder whether this is just a romantic phrase devoid of truth or it is really a possible thing to happen...and who knows out of it will sprout...

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Mercedes Dassodils, no enough arguments will convince you to believe in the beauty and magic of a love at first sight...unless, a special man out of 'nowhere'will pop out and come and intrude into your world...into your life, and cast hypnotic glances through your eyes...

2 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 29 Dec 11

I've often heard of people in love, that there's such thing as LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. I wonder whether this is just a romantic phrase devoid of truth or it is really a possible thing to happen...and who knows out of it will sprout...

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Mercedes I know you were just kidding when you said, there is no more true love nowadays. And basing on your comment, I can tell that in one time in your life you may have proven the magical effects of love at first sight. Of course, I agree with you...love at first...

2 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 29 Dec 11

I've often heard of people in love, that there's such thing as LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. I wonder whether this is just a romantic phrase devoid of truth or it is really a possible thing to happen...and who knows out of it will sprout...

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Mercedes I like your comment, min8esign...and I don't have either the nerve to disagree with you in believing in the beauty of love at first sight...I'm a 'hopeless romantic' when it comes to love. For me, it's not impossible for love to develop from first romantic...

2 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 29 Dec 11

A friend of mine came to me the other day. She confided to me her problem. She got pregnant by her secret boyfriend who is very much a married man. She's more than five months pregnant now. After an ultrasound and a valid...

abortion

defective fetus

right to life

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Mercedes Yeah, as I have said in my previous comments, abortion is not legalized in our country...and that complicates the problem, because she is pushed to the limits, doing that which even endangers her life. In this case, I know she might already be on the verge of...

1 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 29 Dec 11

A friend of mine came to me the other day. She confided to me her problem. She got pregnant by her secret boyfriend who is very much a married man. She's more than five months pregnant now. After an ultrasound and a valid...

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Mercedes If ever the mother in this case will opt for abortion, like you...I can not also accuse her or be judgmental on her because of her action. It's just that in our country abortion is illegal, and what is more hazardous is for her to go through an illegal...

1 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 29 Dec 11

A friend of mine came to me the other day. She confided to me her problem. She got pregnant by her secret boyfriend who is very much a married man. She's more than five months pregnant now. After an ultrasound and a valid...

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Mercedes Rose, I was not in focus in looking for grammatical errors. What impressed me is the content of your comments, in a way... a very practical and humane way, without mention to its being right morally. Thank you for your analytical assessment of the whole...

1 Jan 12

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 29 Dec 11

A friend of mine came to me the other day. She confided to me her problem. She got pregnant by her secret boyfriend who is very much a married man. She's more than five months pregnant now. After an ultrasound and a valid...

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Mercedes Thank you for an enlightening piece of advice, Tina05. One good important advice I found in your comment is that she has to inform her parents about her condition. Of course, her parents will flare up to anger..but they are still her parents. They are the ones...

29 Dec 11

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 29 Dec 11

A friend of mine came to me the other day. She confided to me her problem. She got pregnant by her secret boyfriend who is very much a married man. She's more than five months pregnant now. After an ultrasound and a valid...

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Mercedes Thank you for an enlightening advice from you, Mashnn. Your comment carries in it a very good piece of advice and that of taking into consideration first the life of the mother...in this case, the life of the mother is not at risk..not until she will resort to...

29 Dec 11

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