miatantra

@miatantra (8)

Philippines • Age 48

Joined myLot 18 years ago

I am a woman in process.. i take every conflict and every opportunity as experiences worth learning

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Pay yourself first....

miatantra @miatantra (8) • Philippines 23 Feb 07

Lately, i just realized that I spent beyond my takehome money for the past month (through my credit cards), and that my credit card bills are topping up, thus i barely have enough to get by for the current month. I started reading...

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miatantra good for you for starting to save early. at 30 sometimes i feel that i have wasted a decade not having even a cent in the bank. starting a culture of 'saving' is a choice i have to make and a habit i have to follow.

25 Feb 07

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Pay yourself first....

miatantra @miatantra (8) • Philippines 23 Feb 07

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What's your username mean?

tictac714 @tictac714 (975) • United States 15 Jan 07

Just for fun...what's your username mean, where'd it come from, how'd you come up with it?

mylot

username

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miatantra I have been using my username for four years now. whenever i register to some online membership, i use mia tantra. Mia - a diminutive of Amelia (Amelia Earhart). I have always been a fan of Amelia, whose death still remains a mystery to us. Despite the...

23 Feb 07

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Do you hate your name?

certified_alice @certified_alice (1854) • Philippines 23 Feb 07

I do sometimes because they my playmates often tease me a "tomato" when we were young and maybe I just envy those one that have especial names given by their parents and it really sounds good. I live with it for 23 years so I...

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miatantra In my case, i do not hate or like my name but instead i wish it isn't too ordinary or at least have some meaning attached to it. When i was in grade school i graduated with almost 2000 kids in my school and when i scanned the list of all the students who...

23 Feb 07

When people put others down

writerx1 @writerx1 (805) • United States 10 Feb 07

What do you feel the reason is for people making other people feel bad and saying mean things to them?

mean

people

pressure

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miatantra the very reason why some people say 'mean' things to other people is that these people have low self-esteem. when a person has low self-esteem three things usually happens - he/she becomes (1) jealous, (2) envious, and (3) bitter -. When all these three are...

12 Feb 07

WHAT are the secrets of a PERFECT relationship...?

totalearnings @totalearnings (1603) • India 12 Feb 07

i was thinking on the secrets of perfect relationship be it your wife or lover. i could just think of four 1. it’s important to have a woman who helps at home, who cooks from time to time, 2. it’s important to have a woman who...

relationships

secrets

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miatantra Perfect relationship? There's the golden rule which says "Do unto others, what you want others to do unto you" So, if one partner wanted the other to respect and be truthful to him/her, it is a must that he/she will emulate respect and truthfulness towards the...

12 Feb 07

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