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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 18 Oct 11

My son is shy. Whenever someone (adult) speaks to him, he hides behind me and doesn't respond to the person. A lot of other children may also be like this but I'm afraid there might be something wrong with him. It took two...

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maximax8 I am a primary school teacher and a parent of three children. I think that your son has severe shyness. My sister has four children. Her younger son is an elective mute. He is not able to talk at all. He only talks to people he knows very well. Like he doesn't...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 18 Oct 11

My son is shy. Whenever someone (adult) speaks to him, he hides behind me and doesn't respond to the person. A lot of other children may also be like this but I'm afraid there might be something wrong with him. It took two...

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CelticSoulSister Is it at all possible that your son may be suffering from mild autism, or alternatively, could perhaps an adult outside of your family scared him in some way such that it's made him feel extremely nervous of meeting other adults? He sounds like a very...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 19 Oct 11

That's how I feel. I'm annoyed, irritated and tired. Hubby has been quite busy at work. Can't even talk to him without getting a far away look and monosyllabic answers. Children have been a bit of a handful. Just want a little bit...

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lilblondiemjd I'm so sorry you're going through such a rough time! I have a short fuse, so I can't imagine having one on top of having children and a household to take care of! Not to mention a husband that is having trouble communicating. :( Are your kids young enough to...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 18 Oct 11

My son is shy. Whenever someone (adult) speaks to him, he hides behind me and doesn't respond to the person. A lot of other children may also be like this but I'm afraid there might be something wrong with him. It took two...

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Pushhyarag2000 Hello. It is not clear how old this boy/son is. If I can distinguish the behavior from what you describe here, the boy is not shy but has developed inhibitions. Kids who are shy don't avoid exposure but just that they hold back from responding. Either they...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 18 Oct 11

My son is shy. Whenever someone (adult) speaks to him, he hides behind me and doesn't respond to the person. A lot of other children may also be like this but I'm afraid there might be something wrong with him. It took two...

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Swaana Yes, its definitely a question of concern. I have faced similar thing with my daughter. She is a very bright kid, she will do all show offs to me, dad, grandparents and all those who she knows, when it comes to crowd or when she comes to do any stage...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 19 Oct 11

That's how I feel. I'm annoyed, irritated and tired. Hubby has been quite busy at work. Can't even talk to him without getting a far away look and monosyllabic answers. Children have been a bit of a handful. Just want a little bit...

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Heather Echola Mylot is a very therapeutic place to visit. It does keep us from saying things we should not at home. I think it is much cheaper than a Psychologist as well.

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 19 Oct 11

That's how I feel. I'm annoyed, irritated and tired. Hubby has been quite busy at work. Can't even talk to him without getting a far away look and monosyllabic answers. Children have been a bit of a handful. Just want a little bit...

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kaeirole hello mimm45..i feel the same way too, about feeling better to talk things here..that's why i joined myLot..i feel better when i'm sharing my sentiments here, which i cannot do in facebook... well i hope you and your hubby will have that moment together...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 18 Oct 11

I've decided to start a discussion on the five things I like about where I live. Obviously I'm not originally from here but it's been five years since I moved here that I thought it would be good to start this discussion.There...

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greenline Sounds like quite an ideal place to live ! Very good for you. I like the feature that there are lots of things to do on the weekend. Otherwise, it would be boring. After working hard during the whole week, there has to be good ways to relax and refresh over...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 18 Oct 11

Have you tried to google your name or any variations of it that you use? I have. I was bored and had nothing else to do online so I thought "Why not?". What did I get? Well, if I use my full name, I don't get anything. There's...

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Patsie Hatley hi mimm oh yes out of curiosity and as I was on a lot of genealogyu sites for a number of years I showed up all over the place and was amazed that every place I have ever gone searching for myikin for the family tree I have been named.So yes I am all over...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 18 Oct 11

Have you tried to google your name or any variations of it that you use? I have. I was bored and had nothing else to do online so I thought "Why not?". What did I get? Well, if I use my full name, I don't get anything. There's...

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WakeUpKitty That you can't find your name doesn't mean it is nowhere. It depends on where the name is registered and what kind of policy the site has. Will is hide your name or make others able to see you joined it. Perhaps you are lucky. Googling someone's name or email...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 18 Apr 08

Childbirth is the most amazing experience I have ever felt. It is also the most painful. During my pregnancy I read all the materials I could find about pregnancy but always skipped the section on labour and labour pains. My...

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sunshinelady I had one child and one miscarriage. When my boy was born 34 years ago I had plenty of advice and telling me how horrible it was when you gave birth to the child. I was actually petrified to go in when it came time. Now let me tell you that yes there was hard...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 18 Apr 08

Childbirth is the most amazing experience I have ever felt. It is also the most painful. During my pregnancy I read all the materials I could find about pregnancy but always skipped the section on labour and labour pains. My...

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mmiller26 My first birth wasn't really that bad. I too read all of the pregnancy books I could get my hands on. I knew that labor pains were going to be like really, really awful period cramps. Luckily (or unluckily, I guess), I have had a lot of experience with really,...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 18 Apr 08

Childbirth is the most amazing experience I have ever felt. It is also the most painful. During my pregnancy I read all the materials I could find about pregnancy but always skipped the section on labour and labour pains. My...

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faith210 Hi mimm45! I completely agree with you that childbirth is the most amazing experience a woman could ever have. Just imagine bringing forth a lovely baby onto this world. Congratulations to you and all the mothers in the world. Unfortunately, I...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 9 Apr 08

A friend of mine told me that as soon as she got a job her parents expected her to take care of the household expenses and to give them money. I told her that this should not be the case and that she should only give what she...

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wisedragon I believe in helping out parents, but you don't need to give all of your money to them. Abuse is a different story. It's so much better if the parents would not depend on their children for their retirement.

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 9 Apr 08

A friend of mine told me that as soon as she got a job her parents expected her to take care of the household expenses and to give them money. I told her that this should not be the case and that she should only give what she...

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maddysmommy Well I don't think it's the childs responsibility to pay the bills, but it does happen in our culture. As soon as one gets a job, they are often asked to bear the brunt of a lot of finances and sometimes don't get anything for them to keep for themselves...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 9 Apr 08

A friend of mine told me that as soon as she got a job her parents expected her to take care of the household expenses and to give them money. I told her that this should not be the case and that she should only give what she...

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dragon54u It's not right for the father to quit working and expecting his daughter to pay his way. The job of parents is to prepare children to make their way in the world and to support them until they can--unless they're deadbeats, in which case the parents should...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 3 Apr 08

I've just had a baby and I find that all I do 24/7 is take care of my baby. I don't have time for myself, my husband or the household chores. All I ever do is feed the baby, change nappies, put the baby to sleep or clean the baby....

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dragonfly242 Yes i must admit having a new baby takes a little getting used to. You are never prepared for the demand they can have.But after the initial shock, sleep deprevation, and a lack of personal time you start to adjust. With my first child i suffered {p.p.d}...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 3 Apr 08

I've just had a baby and I find that all I do 24/7 is take care of my baby. I don't have time for myself, my husband or the household chores. All I ever do is feed the baby, change nappies, put the baby to sleep or clean the baby....

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emmbop82 i'm not sure how old your baby is now, or if it is your first. i have a nearly nine month old daughter and for the first three months or so i was in absolute turmoil. mainly because every second of every day is suddenly just for your baby. everything else...

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 3 Apr 08

I've just had a baby and I find that all I do 24/7 is take care of my baby. I don't have time for myself, my husband or the household chores. All I ever do is feed the baby, change nappies, put the baby to sleep or clean the baby....

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GreenMoo Many congratulations on your new baby. Your feelings at the moment are perfectly normal and natural, and are shared I'm sure by mothers the world over. Please enjoy this special time with your baby and enjoy holding him close and being his number one....

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mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 3 Apr 08

I've just had a baby and I find that all I do 24/7 is take care of my baby. I don't have time for myself, my husband or the household chores. All I ever do is feed the baby, change nappies, put the baby to sleep or clean the baby....

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makingpots Congrats on your new baby. Your feelings at this time are very normal. Newborns are totally dependent on you. You really must take the time to be away now and then. Even if all you do is go to the grocery store by yourself. Stop by a friends house on the way...

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