missjts

@missjts (8)

United States • Age 50

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Planning a wedding

edy_scratty @edy_scratty (102) • Philippines 18 May 07

hi guys..my boyfriend and i decided to get married this December..I am very excited but nervous as well..I would welcome tips, suggestions and computations^^ which would help me plan my wedding..And also for the people who are...

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missjts First off - congratulations. What a fun time! I'm getting married in less than a month and we've been planning our wedding for the last year. The best advice I can give looking back throughout this past year - come up with a budget and stick to it, don't...

18 May 07

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Do you tell your significant other everything ...

maddysmommy @maddysmommy (16230) • United States 16 May 07

when it comes to things that your friends and or families have shared with you? There are a few things I do share but not things they have told me in confidence and have asked me not tell anyone including my husband. Do you...

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missjts I don't necessarily tell my significant other everything about my friends or family. There are some things that told to me in confidence that I keep confident. It really depends on what the issue is. If the issue is going to change the view of my friend/family...

16 May 07

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How many bank accounts should a dually employed, married couple have?

missjts @missjts (8) • United States 14 May 07

Do you believe in couples having their own bank accounts? How do your finances work? Is there a joint and 2 individual accounts? Do you think there is harm in having individual accounts?

finances

relationships

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missjts A part of me agrees with you. Having one joint account and being "one flesh" is what was discussed during our premarital counseling. However, we have very different spending habits and this concerns us both. As it stands now, we have 3 accounts but I do...

16 May 07

How many bank accounts should a dually employed, married couple have?

missjts @missjts (8) • United States 14 May 07

Do you believe in couples having their own bank accounts? How do your finances work? Is there a joint and 2 individual accounts? Do you think there is harm in having individual accounts?

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missjts This doesn't create issues between the two of you? Does one make more than the other? I would worry about one person living check to check and the other not having to worry about when the next check is coming in.

16 May 07

How many bank accounts should a dually employed, married couple have?

missjts @missjts (8) • United States 14 May 07

Do you believe in couples having their own bank accounts? How do your finances work? Is there a joint and 2 individual accounts? Do you think there is harm in having individual accounts?

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Cold shoulders vs direct confrontation

inday312saylon @inday312saylon (747) • Philippines 13 May 07

A quarrel with your spouse is an additional burden or stress if you are working. There are ways to resolve an argument or quarrel. Which way works best for you, giving a spouse a cold shoulder, or discussing with him or her the...

marriage and counselling

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missjts Cold shoulders definitely hurt the relationship more than it helps it. Though I don't feel that dealing with an issue right away is the best time to resolve an issue, I think silence is disrespectful and the discussing the issue should happen sooner rather...

14 May 07