msunderstood

@msunderstood (46)

Australia • Age 65

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Would you prefer an ecard or an actual card on your birthday?

linzmcwilliams @linzmcwilliams (1552) 26 Dec 06

I would much prefer an actual card though if it was from someone i didn't know that well i would appreciate an ecard.

birthday

cards

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msunderstood verdict is out on that question i'm not sure here. i like both. depends on how you view e-card being sent to you. i view it as they are thinking of me, others view it as they are too miserly to send me one or too lazy to buy and post one. depends on your...

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Do you send a reply or thank you ecard when you get one?

autismfamily @autismfamily (190) • United States 25 Dec 06

I am not sure what the proper etiquette is for this, but I really do not have the time or desire to search around a site for a thank you card and then it just goes back and forth between the cards and makes it seem less...

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msunderstood yes i do send a reply. to let the person know i've received even though the ecard website tells the sender i have got the card. tis a polite thing to do. i always go hunting for something in the thankyou section to send back. dont usually use the option of...

26 Dec 06

How long do you think you should be in a relationship before getting married?

sarilynne @sarilynne (273) • Canada 21 Dec 06

What is the appropriate length of a relationship being proposing? Or getting married? I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now, and I know we aren't going to get married in the next year, but probably within the next...

marriage

relationship

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msunderstood sarilynne there is never a right length of time before deciding whether to take the leap or not. if you ask that question most will tell you that you can know someone for years and it not work or know someone a real short time and it lasts forever. if your...

21 Dec 06

Fighting with my kids to get them to sleep

trenea7 @trenea7 (86) • United States 13 Dec 06

I have two girls, ages 3 1/2 and 6 1/2. They share a room together because they want to. However, every night bedtime is a battle. Getting them into bed is not a problem. It's getting them to go to sleep. My 6 yoa takes a...

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msunderstood 3yr old try wearing her out during day by physically doing things with her or taking her to groups that will exert her in some way also try mentally wearing her out that may help too. things wont happen overnight but i found this very benefical as for miss 6yr...

14 Dec 06

Internet Surveys

deebomb @deebomb (15304) • United States 17 Nov 06

Does anyone know of surveys that actually pay you cash. The only ones that I’ve seen just put you in drawings

cash

internet surveys

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msunderstood emailcash.com.au does in australia if that helps

14 Dec 06

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do you read the replies on your discussion

ayushthedevil @ayushthedevil (3147) • India 12 Nov 06

do you really read the reply on your discussion?if yes do you really care about them?

discussion

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msunderstood yes i do reply to what ppls think. though i dont know why i bothered. i started 2 discussions and had no replies. one was about turkeys and the other brussel sprouts

14 Dec 06

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Do you like Christmas ?

Undefeated @Undefeated (4788) • Singapore 27 Nov 06

Yup ! I like IT !

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msunderstood i love it but my husband goes arrrrr humbug

13 Dec 06

What christmas gift would you like to receive?

the_dutchess @the_dutchess (2610) • Philippines 2 Dec 06

christmas is in the air! shopping rush, buying presents, and gift wrapping is everywhere!what christmas gift would you like to receive?

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msunderstood something from the heart that has been given with thought

13 Dec 06

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Christmas shopping ideas anybody

hsvgrl86 @hsvgrl86 (194) • Australia 13 Dec 06

I want to buy my partner's 12 yr old sister something for crhistmas, but i wouldn't know what to get her. Can you give me some ideas please.

christmas

gifts

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msunderstood not knowing the girl i can only give you broad ideas. try vouchers for her favourite music store or clothes store. you cant go wrong there

13 Dec 06

can you hit your own father???

arvee17 @arvee17 (730) • Philippines 9 Dec 06

just this evening, my family and i were watching this program on TV (similar to a documentary) about this family who had its father to have a stroke four months ago. instead of taking care of him, the wife maltreated him and...

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msunderstood i can only assume that if you are telling us this then the family concerned has been reported. violence is never the answer and some people deserve to get what they dished out done to them to see how it feels. kamra word comes to mind

9 Dec 06

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Doctors just blaming without checking

emeraldisle @emeraldisle (13139) • United States 9 Dec 06

I was curious to see if anyone else here has had this happen. I've talked with some on line and in person who have so wanted to see how wide spread this is. Now I will be the first to admit I'm over weight. I have been all my...

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msunderstood emeraldisle what would they blame it on if you didnt have other ailments hmmmm? why cant drs just say they dont know. i have found drs in my area that have said they dont know and try and treat symptoms and send me to specialists that deal with ailments not...

9 Dec 06

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Millionaire

msqtech @msqtech (15073) • United States 24 Oct 06

With all the costs of living would 1,000,000 dollars be enough to survive on the rest of someones natural life? Or would you still have to work to provide for yourself into the future?

economics

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msunderstood it would have been years ago Q but unless you invest it and live off the interest it wouldnt go anywhere now.

9 Dec 06

Do u own a mobile?

prasadr @prasadr (871) • India 21 Nov 06

Do you have a mobile? Answer me. I have one

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msunderstood i dont think there are many people that dont have them nowadays. and we have so many options/plans/ways to use i use mine more than i use the home phone and use it at home too not just outside. years ago we used to just use it outside home. nowadays its use...

9 Dec 06

Why do bad things happen to good people?

mellbrb @mellbrb (250) • United States 8 Dec 06

There have been a lot of thoughts going through my mind, and the minds of my family members lately. For the past few months we've been struggling, not only us, but most of the family and friends we know as well. It seems everyone...

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msunderstood mell i think its called 'murphys law' i had a series of years where i lost people in my family to age or illness, or i had them end up in hospital over ailments that we couldnt have possibly imaged them getting. you learn to roll with the really bad times and...

9 Dec 06

Taylor Lautner to host SNL this Saturday!

olisaur @olisaur (1922) • United States 8 Dec 09

This is one for the twilight fans. ;D This saturday's (Dec 12) saturday night live will be hosted by taylor Lautner (aka Jacob Black)! I'm really excited. I love watching SNL when its a host I know about, or like the movies of-...

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msunderstood This is one for the twilight fans. ;D This saturday's (Dec 12) saturday night live will be hosted by taylor Lautner (aka Jacob Black)! I'm really excited. I love watching SNL when its a host I know about, or like the movies of- the sketches just seem a lot...

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Christmas

silkkat @silkkat (231) • Canada 8 Dec 06

How do you deal with a spouse who doesn't have the Christmas spirit and yet you do? I love Christmas and want my children to enjoy as much as I always did. Around the house we call my husband the grinch. He hates the crowds,...

christmas

holidays

spirit

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msunderstood what about scrooge does that come to mind? yeah mine used to call it the 'i dont wanna participate season' and grumped around for days. i usually had to be happy just trying to do christmas without him. he never got excited about anything much we did. was...

9 Dec 06

why indians and chinesse

exchange @exchange (947) • Australia 6 Nov 06

why do people choose to pick on indians and chinesse? bad english is becoss speak them? or is it something else?

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msunderstood tis because we cant understand them (giggles)i have tried to understand them believe me but i've got to the stage now where i dont give them the time of day when they ring and bug me

8 Dec 06

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question for the females

exchange @exchange (947) • Australia 12 Nov 06

would you rather be treated like a lady: shown as a pretty accessory, you husband always pays, you have no say in anything, you can own nothing, etc,or an equal: paying your own way, having a job, owning things, having your own...

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msunderstood depends on what way you were bought up. in some generations it is expected that the male pays for you when going out. even after marriage. though it is becoming acceptable for females to offer to pay sometimes or treat their partners/husbands. though sometimes...

8 Dec 06

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Phone chat

bantizeal @bantizeal (187) • India 20 Nov 06

Hey frnds how much time you chat on cell phone?? Tell me more abt it truly...

cell chat

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msunderstood if it wasnt for my free time talk it'd cost me a fortune on my phone. im always on it

8 Dec 06

server too slow

exchange @exchange (947) • Australia 29 Nov 06

, , who thinks that mylot should get a faster server or more severs to take care of the slow speed problem? please state why you think so

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msunderstood slow speed? did mylot invent that? i'm sure they did. i can load several pages and comeback to find mylot just loaded

8 Dec 06