nigelamy

@nigelamy (11)

China • Age 37

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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what is the best gap between husband and wife in age?

danner25 @danner25 (4) • China 4 May 09

There is an old Chinese saying:"if the wife is three years older than her husband,they will have a smart baby!"but most people hope husband much older in modern society!Some scientists discovered that 14 years gap between husband...

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nigelamy My girl is ten days older then me. Sometimes we don't get alone well with each other,we even argue. I treat her as a elder sister,however she intend to be innocent and want me to take care of her like a big brothe or even father. So I just feel abnormal...

6 May 09

I lost my father today.

khan2abdul @khan2abdul (416) • India 3 Jan 09

My new year start in a very bad way. Today I have lost my father in 06:30 am in the morning. Everyday bring a peace and charming in every face of the world but it bring tear and sadnes to me and my family member. My whole family...

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nigelamy Sorry to hear the bad thing. Well, I think anyone's father and mother would leave their child alone one day.This is fact that everyone must face.And it's only a matter of the time. So every child should live independently as early as possible. I don't know...

4 Jan 09

What would you do if your lover turned out to be a thug/

Frederick42 @Frederick42 (2024) • Canada 26 Dec 08

What woudl you do when you come to know that the person with whom you were in passionate love turned out to be a terrible crook?

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nigelamy Well, I must be very very sad about kowning this terrible thing at first.Because I loved him so much,and I couldn't bear the fact that he's a terrible crook.well,if the fact can't be changed(I mean he will not change for me),I will face it and accept...

26 Dec 08

I felt bad to people who don't appreciate the gifts they received

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10681) • United States 26 Dec 08

If I am the giver of the gift and the the recipient don't even say thank you instead making some comments about the gift they received? I would be mad or maybe promise to myself not to give gift or anything to that person again....

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nigelamy Yes,I have met this situation before. At first I felt sorrow and uncomfortable,but soon I found the friends who have receivced the gift didn't mean it.Maybe they just played a joke or something else .So I think you needn't worry about it.In a addition,...

26 Dec 08

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Do I Love him or Lust for him???

wilulvme @wilulvme (40) • United States 24 Dec 08

I met my child's father when I was 16 in high school. I am in my early 30's now. I loved him so much, my first love. He was a bit older than me so he graduated first and moved away to go to college. In high school we vowed to...

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nigelamy Well,perhaps you want to keep this relationship with your first love ,but you sometimes hesitate.If I were you, I would not stay in this uncertain situation .And I would live by myself or change for another way of life. Have you ever thought about this?...

25 Dec 08

legal free music downloads

jend80 @jend80 (2071) • United Kingdom 20 Dec 08

current ones as of 20th December TDR records sampler - includes mp3s from Barely Blind and The Promise Hero (alt rock/pop punk) http://www.tdrrecords.net/sampler (links use sendspace) Christmas song from The Promise Hero -...

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nigelamy Thanks for sharing!

21 Dec 08

what kind of bussiness do you want to do if you dont want to be an employee

zhouliannie @zhouliannie (78) • China 16 Dec 08

i'm a tour guide ,but now i want to ran a business of myself.i have no enough money ,what should i do and what can i do? to ran a tarvel agency is impossible for me.please give me some advice ,thank you very much

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nigelamy I am a tour guide too, I also have such a dream like you.

21 Dec 08

Can you concentrate writing while listening to music?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 19 Dec 08

I think many people get distracted in their writings while listening to music. I can't blame you, it is sometimes difficult to come up with ideas when we have our headphones stuck to our ears. Ideas just doesn't flow smoothly but...

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nigelamy I think it depends on what kind of music you are listening to.when I am studying,I'd like to listen to some soft songs,songs without lyrics.

21 Dec 08

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How do you say I Love You?

endaymo @endaymo (82) • Philippines 11 Dec 08

What do you think is the sweetest way to say "I Love You" to your bf/gf? My bf and I have this hobby of saying "I Love You" through hands. I will make a sign of 1, then 4, and 3. 143 which means I LOVE YOU.

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nigelamy It's really cool and creative!

19 Dec 08

If you win a big fortune what would you do with it?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 19 Dec 08

I just heard about a couple who donated a huge sum that they had won in a summer lottery camp to a NGO that they share their thoughts for. I really appreciate, specially when they do not kind of live a decent living! Had we...

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nigelamy I will spend it to get a better education.like,buy more books. and I will also use it to help the people who need help around me,especially,my peers.

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