Paraluman

@Paraluman (98)

Philippines • Age 52

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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qoutes of life

Chrisandro @Chrisandro (47) 28 Jun 09

All of us has our own quote in our life. It's like a guiding principle that we always put in our heart and in our minds. So, what is/are your best quote/s in your life now. Mine are these: "Never think that anyone is better...

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Paraluman "If the sun shines in your soul, does it matter if it rains ouside?"

28 Jun 09

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Is a feeling of lust a sin?

silveralight @silveralight (126) • India 27 Jun 09

Recently due to a bet with some people, my friend had to lip-kiss me. From then on,I've felt loads of attraction towards him. During the bet, it was a very emotionless thing, but even though we didn't love each other we liked the...

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Paraluman yes. the fact that "you felt inside you that it isn't right" tells you that something is wrong.It's a still small voice right? not audible. just a thought kind of like telling you that lust is not good.I hope you guys would eventually fall in love so that you...

27 Jun 09

Are you really happy?

earnnings @earnnings (1325) • India 25 Jun 09

How many of you are really happy with what you have? Happiness is the feeling which states our satisfaction and pleasure. But now a days satisfaction is nowhere found on this planet. Every one are running behind something or...

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Paraluman True. I completely agree with you. Thinking positively really helps. As some wise sayings put it "Worrying is like being on a rocking chair" one can keep rocking the chair yet it doesnt take you anywhere. You remain in that condition no matter how long you...

25 Jun 09

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How can a smoker prevent another smoker from smoking?

HelScream @HelScream (2822) • Philippines 25 Jun 09

Ok I have to admit I am a smoker and been doing it for 13 years I guess now the question is i want someone to quit smoking but how can I do this while I myself and a smoker and wanted to stop also Sounds weird...

quit

smoker

smoking

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Paraluman I read from one article in the Reader's Digest magazine that the habit of smoking can be possibly replaced with a habit of walking. Committing yourself to walk 30 to 45 minutes a day. Now walking your way to work, to school or somewhere else is not counted in...

25 Jun 09

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can you befriend the one you hate?

incredibleDNA @incredibleDNA (1742) • Philippines 24 Jun 09

I met a girl last year at work, she's the talkative one and I often feel that she's stealing my best friend at work. The three of us are of the same age and I do really feel that she's starting to get my best friends'...

friendship

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Paraluman Befriending someone you hate is not easy..yet its a noble thing to do.

25 Jun 09

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the positive side of life

meipan @meipan (746) • Philippines 18 May 09

last week, i had a heavy duty in my work and i felt exhausted, but when i ride on a bus, there's no place for me to sat, so i remain standing, there where men that was near on me and they're looking at me, i know they want me to...

positive view

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Paraluman so the men were hesitating to give up their seats for you? I think you were not being selfish.. its a normal reaction on your part.Anyway, Im amazed how you tried to understand how they feel.I mean its so much better than being angry at something or...

18 May 09

how to make my friend love with me ???? plz help

freebird007 @freebird007 (53) • India 17 May 09

hello friends....i love my friend too much ....she also know it very well....i hav also told her about my feelings ....she saying she does not think like the way i m thinking....she consideres me a true friend.....i hav already...

help

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Paraluman I suggest you patiently wait for that time that she would feel the same. theres a time for everything. and love never gives up.Just try your best to keep in touch with her.

18 May 09

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What is your favorite starbucks coffee?

janelacson @janelacson (200) • Philippines 4 Feb 09

I like iced blended coffee from atrbucks.,it's my favorite. What I cannot appreciate is the hot coffee. Hot coffee makes me sleepy. What is your favorite coffee in starbucks? Have you tried buying coffee in starbucks.

cofee

starbucks

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Paraluman hi janelacson. well, I like Starbucks' Jelly Coffee and Mocha Frapoccino - I can appreciate both iced coffee or hot coffee.

4 Feb 09

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Do you enjoy walking??

blackeyedpeas @blackeyedpeas (445) • India 3 Feb 09

Well, i really enjoy walking. I think its a good way to stay in shape. My office is just 5 min away from my place so i usually go office by walking, listening to my favourite musicit feels so good to have a walk in morning. How...

walking

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Paraluman hi blackeyedpeas! I love walking. And what excites me in walking is that it is also my prayer time- well, I don't know..it became a good habit for me the moment I step out of the house.. I start praying in my mind..then I will close that prayer when its time...

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Does looks matter in a relationship?

akangirl @akangirl (2436) • India 28 Jan 09

when it comes to choosing your partner or even friends how much emphasis do you lay on looks? Does love diminish if the person's appearance doesn't match your appearance?

looks

match

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Paraluman Looking our best for someone I think is very important. But love is blind. Loving someone is accepting his/her ALL including the looks. There is a tendency for love to diminish I think only when you've been with the person a long time and he/she became too...

28 Jan 09

Does anyone have any good remedies for constipation?

Gwenshin24 @Gwenshin24 (25) • United States 27 Jan 09

I know it sounds like a gross subject, but we all have to maintain our health.

health

remedies

sounds

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Paraluman hi Gwenshin. I suggest fresh PAPAYA, its a very good remedy for constipation.

27 Jan 09

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true happiness

luvnet217 @luvnet217 (56) • Philippines 27 Jan 09

where can we get the true happiness? in achievement? being rich? beauty? healthty? or to other?

beauty

happiness

how to get rich

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Paraluman hello luvnet. True happiness for me is knowing that a king died for me while I'm yet a sinner and very unworthy.. nothing compares to that happiness knowing what JESUS did for me.

27 Jan 09

Thought for the day

josvinod @josvinod (52) • India 27 Jan 09

Always keep a photo of you girl friend / boy friend in your purse. Look at it when you are in trouble. You will feel that other problems are not as big as this one. Have a nice day.

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Paraluman Spend your time wisely, spend TIME with your love ones while you still have time.. you can give LOVE,have it, or share it to anybody. But none of us can stop or control time.. one can never bring back the time that has pass by. You never know when your time...

27 Jan 09

things to do..

sayasakti @sayasakti (167) • Malaysia 27 Jan 09

what is the 3 things that you want to do before you die...?

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Paraluman 1) I will spend all of my time with my family (teach my kids the most valuable things they need to hear from their mother, love my husband more and my kids too,and leave many happy memories). 2) I will forgive my enemies and try my best to be forgiven by...

27 Jan 09

Sadness is my best friend......

PRIYANK1992 @PRIYANK1992 (1677) • India 27 Jan 09

I thinks that Sadness is my best friend.I have no friend,no girlfriend.Nobody at all.I am just alone.I have just one sister.To whom I love most,except her I have nobody.So please tell me what should I do to convert my sadness into...

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Paraluman hi Priyank. I guess you have to make that firm decision to start being happy. I can be one of your friends. I may be very far but I can keep in touch with you, pray for you, and you can tell me anything you want to share about your work, your hobbies, the...

27 Jan 09

Have you encounter of what i fell right now?

tkleyr @tkleyr (406) • Philippines 27 Jan 09

huh..in philippine time it is already 12:40 at night my eyes is already closing and i think im experiencing a nick pain right now but i can't hardly stop my self surfing in the internet reading some article which i can earn extra...

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Paraluman you mean addicted? I too experience neck and back pains because of staying too much infront of my computer- but I'm into chatting to different people around the world. I like learning about other country's culture,new language,and also its one way of honing my...

27 Jan 09

What is your puppy's favorite food?

rebekah_ash @rebekah_ash (169) • Philippines 27 Jan 09

I have heard that dogs like bones. I think my poodle is an exemption. She likes chicken (no bones), pork, rice. I bought dog food but she doesn't eat much. She loves fresh milk or powdered milk. What can I feed her aside from...

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Paraluman Hi. Try boiled ground meat, white bread, rice, hard-boiled eggs,and some warm broth (pork,chicken or beef broth) all together. My dogs eat that,and they like it. ^_^

27 Jan 09

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Easier to forgive a good friend or family member?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 27 Jan 09

I know that many of you have probably heard of the saying that "blood is thicker than water". However have you ever been betrayed by a friend or family member and which one is usually easier to forgive in your...

forgive

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Paraluman hello bamakelly. umm..I think its both not easy to forgive a friend or a family member. It depends on the situation how serious the misunderstanding is- I guess we all have friends that stick so close like a family. So, for me the feeling would be the same.

27 Jan 09

psst.. sweetest thing my bf has ever done

gohanpastor @gohanpastor (103) • Philippines 27 Jan 09

hey... i know you have one.. spill it! eheh.. i mean share it.. =)

sweet bf

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Paraluman hmm..its a very long time ago story- there was this donut store infront of the foodchain where we work but he was in another store branch- It was Valentine's Day, and we couldn't be together that day due to work. One staff from that donut store delievered one...

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