myLot / @pjnjclyn / Comments

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 22 Sep 11

Some things really burn me up. I am big ok and in the past I have felt bad about what I was but this is who I am and if you do not like it then so be it. If you are going to like me when I loose some weight then I will loose...

1 response

Mrs Martinez The sad things is that there are young people that see the things and think that they are less then other people because they do not fit in. Young people are sticking their fingers down their throats taking pills and starning themselves just to be thin. It is...

27 Sep 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 20 Sep 11

Hello fellow mylotters! I have been gone awhile between moving and computer issues I have not been here or anywhere else for that matter lol. I am so out of the loop I have lost all the sites that I used to know. So if anyone...

3 responses

Mrs Martinez Thank you all for the help I am going to go fishing around and see what is going on.

20 Sep 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 29 Apr 11

I have just joined and have a question for the ones that have been using Triond. About adding friends do you just randomly add people to your friend list? Is it better not to have that many friends? I am trying to figure this...

7 responses •

1 person

Mrs Martinez I have not been on due to health issues my name on triond is the same name that I have on here looking foward to reading new and interesting things on triond

7 May 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 29 Apr 11

I have just joined and have a question for the ones that have been using Triond. About adding friends do you just randomly add people to your friend list? Is it better not to have that many friends? I am trying to figure this...

7 responses •

1 person

Mrs Martinez Thank you for the information. It would be nice to have friends that are on mylot as well then you can know where they are coming from. Good Luck on your journey in Triond

29 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 6 Apr 11

I saw a post about online bingo that when you win you get something from amazon points I think that it was. I can not find the post anymore and it sounded interesting. If anyone knows the site could they please let me know or if...

1 response •

1 person

Mrs Martinez Thank you I have not really been on I will check it out. Thank You.

24 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 20 Apr 11

Hello fellow mylotters. I have a question for you all. I have been working on a forum that is dear to my heart. It is not going to be a money making forum or anything like that it is a parenting forum of sorts. Now I have...

4 responses

Mrs Martinez Thank you for that advice. That was one of the things that I am worried about it spammers. Bottom line I want to be able to help people through a tough time like I went through and has no where to turn. The money making part of it is just really to try and...

21 Apr 11

jemilane @jemilane (176) • Philippines 6 Apr 11

I just got married and it seems that this stage of my life keeps my friends away from. I couldn't find any mutual things that we have in common anymore and it seemed that the activities that we're once shared are not present...

friends

mutual

10 responses •

2 people

Mrs Martinez Also you can get a new circle of married friends people that are in the same place as you. Then when you have a ladies night out there will be lots of things in comma because you are all married and noone will feel out of place

6 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 6 Apr 11

I happen to live in NJ and I have to say here what we call childre's services is DYFS (Division of Youth and Family services) I will tell you that they are destroying families in this state children are taken away when they should...

6 responses

Mrs Martinez No elected officals will get invloved when you go and speak to anyone and mention DYFS there is nothing that will be done. It is almost like they are above the law. Even if you are found innocent of something DYFS will still hold it against you. They are...

6 Apr 11

•

1 person

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 6 Apr 11

I happen to live in NJ and I have to say here what we call childre's services is DYFS (Division of Youth and Family services) I will tell you that they are destroying families in this state children are taken away when they should...

6 responses

Mrs Martinez I have to say that I also agree if there is abuse and I know in cases there are then action needs to be taken. For instance in NJ a foster parent will get anywhere from 900-1200 a month for each child plus medical and in some cases respide and things of that...

6 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 6 Apr 11

I happen to live in NJ and I have to say here what we call childre's services is DYFS (Division of Youth and Family services) I will tell you that they are destroying families in this state children are taken away when they should...

6 responses

Mrs Martinez They make up their guildines as they go and they do what they feel like. The manner that they see fit is to ruin your life ruin the child and then when the child is 18 good bye have a nice life and do not tell me that is not true because I can tell you that...

6 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 6 Apr 11

I happen to live in NJ and I have to say here what we call childre's services is DYFS (Division of Youth and Family services) I will tell you that they are destroying families in this state children are taken away when they should...

6 responses

Mrs Martinez Thank you for helping people like you do. There should be more out there. You are afraid to parent your children becsuse of fears but when you do nothing the child is out of control because there are no boundries. I think that truly that you need to have...

6 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 6 Apr 11

I happen to live in NJ and I have to say here what we call childre's services is DYFS (Division of Youth and Family services) I will tell you that they are destroying families in this state children are taken away when they should...

6 responses

Mrs Martinez They lie to everyone and the thing that I can not believe is that they change the rules and laws when they feel like it and do not have to answer to anyone. They can literly tell you one thing today and tell you something else the next hour and it is...

6 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 6 Apr 11

I happen to live in NJ and I have to say here what we call childre's services is DYFS (Division of Youth and Family services) I will tell you that they are destroying families in this state children are taken away when they should...

6 responses

Mrs Martinez Here all it takes is one phone call from anyone and they will not even tell you the person that called because they say "Privacy issues" So you can not even face your acusser. Which I do not feel is fair. They make the parents jump through hoops then they tell...

6 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 6 Apr 11

I happen to live in NJ and I have to say here what we call childre's services is DYFS (Division of Youth and Family services) I will tell you that they are destroying families in this state children are taken away when they should...

6 responses

Mrs Martinez There have been times when they have taken children from families when they where trying to do everything that they could to make ends meet and they where told if that did not move out of that area or if they did not get another bedroom the children would be...

6 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 5 Apr 11

There is someone that I know and we where talking the other night and he was telling my husband and I that he asked his wife if he could have a girlfriend. He already had someone in mind and told his wife who she was. I am open...

19 responses •

4 people

Mrs Martinez No it is not healthy for anyone my husband even says how wrong he is treating this woman. Something has to give I really feel that she thinks that she has no way out she is older and has many health problems and he is the one that basically keeps things...

6 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 5 Apr 11

There is someone that I know and we where talking the other night and he was telling my husband and I that he asked his wife if he could have a girlfriend. He already had someone in mind and told his wife who she was. I am open...

19 responses •

4 people

Mrs Martinez No one is perfect not even me. It is hard for me to wrap my head around that he even asked her that question. I feel that if you are not happy with someone then you leave do not make the other person feel bad about themselves or put them in a position that...

6 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez @pjnjclyn (176) • Newton, New Jersey 5 Apr 11

There is someone that I know and we where talking the other night and he was telling my husband and I that he asked his wife if he could have a girlfriend. He already had someone in mind and told his wife who she was. I am open...

19 responses •

4 people

Mrs Martinez That is right hwg. You have to be stingy when it comes to your man. If it floats your boat then so be it but as for me ha if I was going to do that then I would have stayed single.

5 Apr 11

Mrs Martinez's Comments