Tipping when you go out to eat
By quink82001
@quink82001 (2938)
United States
61 responses
@DeenaD (2684)
• United States
26 Oct 06
We ALWAYS tip. Fifteen percent is the norm, and sometimes it's appropriate to tip better than that. My daughter works in a restaurant, and she tells me that some people are lousy tippers. She thinks they suck, and I think so too. Aren't the embarrassed, or are they just ignorant of our social customs?
@4monsters4me (2569)
• United States
26 Oct 06
We do tip. We usually leave $2-$3 no matter what the bill was. We can't afford much more. That started when it was just the two of us (or us and our oldest) eating and our bill was usually just under $20. 10% seemed okay to us. But now our bills are usually around $35 for the 5 of us to eat. More if we go to a nicer place (like a steak house). If service is really good we might leave up to $4 if we can afford it. Usually we don't go to those types of places when we can't even afford tips.
We could never afford 20% though. That would be $7 which is the cost of two of the kids eating.
We usually eat at buffets though and we sometimes forget to bring change in with us. I always feel so bad because it never fails we don't have any cash on us and we get the best waitress ever.
I hate when family places have a mandatory tip (like IHOP has a 15% tip added to all groups over 5). It should be the dining parties desicion whether or not the waiter or waitress deserves 15%. We have been to IHOP many times where the waitress fills our drinks and never comes back. She then brings our food and we don't see her until the check comes and I have waited over 5 minutes just to get her attention to get a to-go tray. One time we ate there and all the kids had to use the bathroom so I took the girls and my husband took our son. When we got back they had cleared our table and took all the food we hadn't finished. Should we have given much of a tip in any of those circumstances?
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@clk234 (45)
• United States
25 Oct 06
I always leave at least 15%, more if the service is good. Sometimes more if the service is bad but I think the person needs something to cheer them up. I was a waitress for a very short time period as a teen-ager, and it is hard work!
@quink82001 (2938)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Good! I know some people who dont leave any tip and I think thats wrong. thanks for the reply.
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@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
26 Oct 06
yep...couldn't agree more...if the service is way sub-par, i don't usually leave anything...
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@fyrescryer (912)
• United States
8 Nov 06
If the service is good then yes i will tip, usually 15%, but if they were extremely nice and gave great service then more.
@hotgyrl79 (204)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I tip all the time when I go out. Being tho Im in a tip position I understand it more. I tip 20% all the time. But piss me off you might not get that. I provide good service to my custmers so when I go out I would like the same in return. But if I dont get it you dont 20%. I come out to enjoy myself not get rude service.
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@quink82001 (2938)
• United States
8 Nov 06
Many thanks for your reply :D You left the same response again lol.
@hotgyrl79 (204)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I tip all the time when I go out. Being tho Im in a tip position I understand it more. I tip 20% all the time. But piss me off you might not get that. I provide good service to my custmers so when I go out I would like the same in return. But if I dont get it you dont 20%. I come out to enjoy myself not get rude service.
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@quink82001 (2938)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I tip all the time too, if the service is really good I always leave 20%. Many thanks for your reply :D
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@sunsham68 (1376)
• India
7 Nov 06
I work abroad and the money is 12 times what I make in my hometown, so each time I have to tip, though I am a generous person, it pinches! So 15% honestly is way off for me, I just leave 2-5 Dhs. (That's the curency in the UAE) But wherever I am, I don't just tip for the formality. If the service has been lousy, I will pointedly leave a tiny tip or none at all and vice versa. I would rather give that money to someone who looks very needy or to someone who is not used to receiving tips but is doing an excellent job (ex. cab driver, store assistant..etc.)
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@quink82001 (2938)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I always leave a little something even if the service isnt too good. I leave more if the service is better. Many thanks for your reply :D
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@twmoores (566)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Depends on the service. I am usually a really good tipper, but If I have shi**y service they get shi**y tips... I have left one late a nickle...she was rude, did not check on us but once, and they it was like hurry up eat and get out... so it depends, but if you are nice to me I am very nice to you.
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@quink82001 (2938)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Same with me, if they are nice to me then i'm nice to them. That is how it should be! Thank you for your reply :D
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@amrita_tejasvi (238)
• India
7 Nov 06
I do give tips depending on the service of the waiters. sometimes they are too annoying
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@mistysjavaspa (155)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Depends on the service.. if its really bad then nothing... if its fair then around 5% if its good I will do 10% and if it is really really good service I will do 15%
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@jessix1927 (68)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I don't tip at buffets.... what's the point. But when we dine at places that we are served, we normally tip about 10%. Which is what you are supposed to tip... but that's just us...
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@quink82001 (2938)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I don't tip at buffets either, I agree with you whats the point. Many thanks for your reply :D
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